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Topic: Why am I so freakin possessive and sensitive?
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Mystic Gemini unregistered
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posted August 29, 2005 09:59 PM
It suckssssss. I already feel myself getting possessive with the new scorpio. I feel like he's mine and should only be mine.
And I feel like I own my ex cappy. Even if he dates someone else 2 years from now I'll be ****** off. What the hell is my problem?
------------------ Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra "You must live in the infinite blackness that exists when I close my eyes. I see you when I fall asleep, I see you when I dream." - Talib Kweli IP: Logged |
LeoSweetHeart unregistered
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posted August 29, 2005 11:00 PM
Speaking of having your moon in Taurus in the other thread...I think that might have a lot to do with it. As possessiveness is associated with Taurus Moon. I think because we need emotional security. I say we because I have a Taurus moon too!IP: Logged |
Mystic Gemini unregistered
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posted August 30, 2005 12:53 AM
Yeah it sucks. Especially since my venus is in taurus also.------------------ Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra "You must live in the infinite blackness that exists when I close my eyes. I see you when I fall asleep, I see you when I dream." - Talib Kweli IP: Logged |
sweetlibra unregistered
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posted August 30, 2005 02:17 AM
I think even a Taurus Asc can add possessiveness as in my case. But i am good at keeping my possessiveness & jealousy under the carpet and suffer inside!!!IP: Logged |
Peri Knowflake Posts: 1848 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 30, 2005 03:11 AM
quote: I feel like he's mine and should only be mine
I think it is connected with Moon being in anaretic degree (MY emotions are of HIGHEST priority!!!) but it would be interesting to know your complete data.Taurus Moon itself is not so possessive/agressive and is more like, ahhh, hug me, kiss me, feed me! LOL edited* I have found your stats, Moon-Uranus opposition can give such oversensivity and extreme reactions. Afflicted Moon in anaretic degree enhances Taurean possessiveness and jealosy. ------------------ Don't cast pearls before swine IP: Logged |
sue g unregistered
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posted August 30, 2005 03:28 AM
Me too MG and to quote you girl......it sucks!!!!Well you know I have that Taurus moon too, the upside is that we are very passionate and that can be quite alluring.........but the possessive bit is hard.......just keep working on it........I am getting there, but am double your age.......what I do is try to imagine how the OTHER person feels - and that aint always good.......who wants to feel smothered!??? Love Sue x x x
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nannyfish unregistered
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posted August 30, 2005 05:02 AM
Hey MG,One of Scorps worst traits is that we like to possess but we don't like to be possessed...at least not for awhile..if that makes sense. Let me apologize for Scorpios everywhere... (Hope that doesn't sound sarcastic, I'm in a bad mood) IP: Logged |
Cardinalgal unregistered
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posted August 30, 2005 06:30 AM
Well I have Venus and Mercury in Scorpio and I totally understand the "I feel like he's mine and should only be mine" feeling!I'm a Libran sun so the airyness of that counteracts it a little I suppose but it's still very prevalent within me. Sue is absolutely right about the way to try to combat it I reckon - we just have to think about it from their point of view. But there is another aspect to this of course... how damn lucky are they that we feel so passionately about them!
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sthenri unregistered
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posted August 30, 2005 06:44 AM
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geminirising26 unregistered
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posted August 30, 2005 09:58 AM
I have a taurus moon as well...I am very posessive of people in my life (mostly family members and friends). I think taurus moons are posessive in a "don't change!/stay the same!" sort of way. IP: Logged |
lalalinda Moderator Posts: 1120 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 30, 2005 10:26 AM
its not your Taures Moon its your Cancer Ascendant.Jealousy and possessiveness are a water sign trait. IP: Logged |
sue g unregistered
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posted August 30, 2005 12:39 PM
Oh, interesting, I read plenty that Taurus can be possessive......maybe its my Scorpio then too!!!!! xx
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sue g unregistered
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posted August 30, 2005 12:41 PM
Oh interesting, I read plenty that Taurus can be very possessive, maybe thats wrong and its the Cancer in you MG and the Scorpio in me that makes us that way!!!IP: Logged |
sue g unregistered
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posted August 30, 2005 12:41 PM
Oh interesting, I read plenty that Taurus can be very possessive, maybe thats wrong and its the Cancer in you MG and the Scorpio in me that makes us that way!!!IP: Logged |
proxieme unregistered
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posted August 30, 2005 01:44 PM
Jealousy may be a Cancer trait, but plenty of Taureans can claim "Possessiveness" by the boatload.IP: Logged |
sthenri unregistered
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posted August 30, 2005 07:05 PM
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pidaua Knowflake Posts: 67 From: Back in AZ with Bear the Leo Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 30, 2005 08:23 PM
You have a point there Natasha... I am ruled by Mercury and I also have Uranus as a singleton in an air sign. I can get very upset if I feel that the person I care about is communicating (not flirting) but really having a great conversation with someone else if I don't feel we are able to talk. It's not that I get jealous, it is more like "Hey, you are all quiet around me then you get with so and so, and talk like mad". I would much rather they did it when I wasn't around (since I'm not worried about the cheating, but instead about the lie). It probably doesn't make sense to some other types, but when communication is extremely strong in a chart, I can see how that would cause someone to feel a bit jealous. IP: Logged |
Isolaede Newflake Posts: 15 From: Sunny CA Registered: May 2009
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posted August 30, 2005 08:53 PM
Taurus moon here (what's up with all of the Taurus moons on this site?), and possessive like you wouldn't believe. But that could be my Cancer sun sign working too. One would think my Gemini venus would balance things out, but no go there. I have, in the past, acted much like the text book description of a Scorpio trying to determine the loyalty levels of my partner. For me, this hard core possessiveness doesn’t tend to get triggered until my partner does something that makes me doubt their trust-worthiness. Is it the same for the rest of you Taurus moons?IP: Logged |
Moonshine9 unregistered
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posted August 30, 2005 10:59 PM
Hello MysticGem! I know how you feel. I'm a Taurus with a Scorpio man and I really really really really hate myself sometimes when I get so darn possesive. It's this uncontrollable part of my psyche or something, I don't know why. But the thing is he's just as bad as me maybe even a little more so. I remember one instance where we were at the zoo and I was taking some photographs of a Red Panda and he swears that I was gawking at another man and I just stood there dumbfounded, like huh?! wha?! I told him that he seriously needs to get his eyesight checked! sometimes we both can be so infantile, you know? But we're working through it. When I start feeling those jealous tinges I have to stop and give myself a talking to like re-focus on the more important things like enjoying the moments with our baby and going to school. Hope that helps you MysticGem. I noticed that when the moon is slipping through certain signs is when we have our ups and our downs. I'll think to myself, why is this happening and then I'll look at the chart to see what the moon is in and it usually coincides with the mood of the moment. When Mercury was retro oh gosh! we had so many miscommunications. That was a frustrating period. My cell phone was not working properly. Hate the retro.IP: Logged |
Mystic Gemini unregistered
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posted August 30, 2005 11:35 PM
quote: I remember one instance where we were at the zoo and I was taking some photographs of a Red Panda and he swears that I was gawking at another man and I just stood there dumbfounded, like huh?!
Oh my god. That's something I would do LOL. I've done it so many times. Lmfao
------------------ Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra "You must live in the infinite blackness that exists when I close my eyes. I see you when I fall asleep, I see you when I dream." - Talib Kweli IP: Logged |
sthenri unregistered
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posted August 31, 2005 03:38 AM
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Moonshine9 unregistered
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posted August 31, 2005 10:31 PM
"Scorpios and Cancers can be tough on me too, in that they will like me to stay home every night or be available, but don't want to be tied down the same way-I know that makes me feel jealous because of the inequality thing again."Couldn't have said it any better Natasha! Very insightful. Thank you for that. IP: Logged |
kiwigirl unregistered
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posted September 01, 2005 12:51 AM
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Mystic Gemini unregistered
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posted September 01, 2005 09:03 AM
Moon shine what is your sun, moon, rising, venus, and mars?------------------ Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra "You must live in the infinite blackness that exists when I close my eyes. I see you when I fall asleep, I see you when I dream." - Talib Kweli IP: Logged |
MoonDuchess88 unregistered
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posted September 01, 2005 12:36 PM
Hey MG, I have the same trait...maybe its your cancer rising as well....and that is sooo true about the availability thing. I've been w/ many sags and they hated that about me. The scorp is the same exact way, were so childish sometimes IP: Logged |