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Negreta
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posted September 04, 2005 04:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Negreta     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi there

Can anybody help me understand the aquarius personnality?

I am an aries female, born april, 18, 1973 in Algiers, Algeria, rising sign Aquarius, i heard that my moon sign is Scorpio, but i am not quite sure.

This guy i am dating is a total mystery for me, he is born in New Rochelle, New York, January, 31, 1973, I dont know the time.

Everything was nice the first month, and his gentle eyes totally drives me crazy, i really have a huge crush on him. Now he is super distant and doesn't even bother calling me. Nothing really happened between us. He just left for 10 days, and became different, after he came back. Didnt call me when he was away, he told me he would. Didnt call me when he came back, i had to call, Now i stopped calling him 'cause i have no ******* clue if he cares or not. and i dont wanna run after him . I have the feeling that he is no longer interested in me

do u think i should be more patient, is this combination of signs a good one?

i dont really wanna give up on him, but i dont wanna care for somebody who doesn't seem to care for me, even if in the beginning, we spent a really nice time together, well, i think that's why i am here to ask stupid questions. I kinda really like him... i dont know why, 'cause i really dont know him... i cant help it..

help me please

thanx

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whiterabbit
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posted September 04, 2005 05:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for whiterabbit     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
well, hello there
I myself am an Aquarius female and have dated nothing (nobody?) but Aries males for almost two years now. I am inexplicably and powerfully drawn to them, and I think Aries/Aquarius is a very interesting but difficult combination. Very difficult. The main problem is exactly the odds that the type of situation you are now in will happen. Big odds that it will. That's how basically all of my relationships ended- because both Aquarius and Aries, for different reasons, will eventually just stop calling. And nobody will know what the hell is happening. Aquarius will randomly get "distant", Aries will be too proud to chase after them even though the distance thing will get them even more interested. But they also get bored quickly. And Aquarius runs away quickly.
Why do we do this? I think it's this Uranian trait- that the first instinct is to just disappear, if anything isn't going quite right. And it won't always go quite right with these two. Problem is- Aries likes the chase, sure, but they also don't want somebody who is so utterly "spaced out" that they make no effort whatsoever. With Aries you have to play a game. And Aquarius will just be there and then they just won't, leaving the Aries to wonder what on earth happened. But don't worry, Aries confuses Aquarius too. A lot. So we just give up.
Ugh.. believe me this is very frustrating for me too because down at the bottom, and when we do manage to be together, I think it's a great combination: lots of mutual spontenety and sense of adventure, big dreams, laughter, good and fun lovin' excitement, and believing in each other.
You really should read Lida Goodman's Love signs section on Aries/Aquarius, it's very nice and accurate. Good luck to you, hope this combination works out. Just remember that you NEVER know what is going on in the other person's head or life, just like you may have no idea what sort of picture you yourself have projected. I'm sure I've made many an Aries mighty confused with my behaviour just like they've confused me. I think these two signs have a bit of trouble getting through to each other sometimes. Not a lot of telepathy here. But it's a magical connection!
Sorry for this rant.. lol.. hope it helps a little. Good luck, as I said.

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Negreta
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posted September 04, 2005 10:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Negreta     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dear Whiterabbit

i am very happy that you took the time to answer me, it is very interesting. You are definitely right, i like the chase, but can get bored if i feel that someone doesn't care for me. i really need to be sure that the guy i am attracted to is also attracted to me, 'cause of course i am super proud.

I am really wondering why he is not calling anymore, it's been a week now. I thought that maybe i showed him that i was getting impatient because i didnt see him for more than a whole month after he went to Canada.

After he came back i called him many times 'cause i wanted to see him, but we didn't manage to see eachother. I told him that it felt like ten years. Maybe that scared him away. But doesn't this mean that i care for him and consider him special even if we met not too long ago (June). We Aries get enthusiastic very fast. Maybe he didnt like that. So now i am not calling him and this doesn't help me to get to know him better since i dont get to see him anymore.

I read the Linda Goodman chapter about aries / aquarius but that was a long time ago and now i dont have the book anymore, so i am going to get it soon 'cause indeed it is so beautifully written and so acurate!

Anyway, thank you for all the information you gave me , take care
I wish you lots of love and fun with the present or future aries of your life, or with any other signs of course!

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MoonDuchess88
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posted September 05, 2005 08:54 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yeah, Linda Goodman's love signs, she states that the Aries/Aqua combo is karmic. I know this cause I read it for my Aries girlfriend who's having the same exact problem with an Aqua guy. Me personally, I get along w/ an Aqua guy as a friend.

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Pink Angel
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posted September 05, 2005 01:49 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
im an aqua too n even i tend to 'not call'.. i dont know why, maybe i find more interesting things to do like sing some weird song 10 times all to myself.but i've noticed that saggis ALWAYS call.no ego whatsoever.my best friend is a saggi,shes the best.even my mom is a saggi.so if you're not the calling type,i'm sure you'll be happy with a saggi.

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LeylaLeFay
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posted September 05, 2005 08:42 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am an Aquarius female and all the major relationships I've had have been with Aries men.

For some reason, these two signs have an irresistable attraction.

I will re-post the rules in dealing with Air Sign Men:

Anything you chase will run from you.

nice girl: she calls him often and says "please return my calls"
B**** : She gets back to him when she's free, or maybe not at all

nice girl: she rushes to see him the moment he beckons
B**** :she sees him when it's convenient for her

nice girl: she makes it obvious a relationship is her goal before she knows much about him
B**** :she goes out to have fun and doesn't make promises to a virtual stranger

nice girl: when he does call her she is mad he didn't call sooner
B**** :when he calls her he is curious where she is and why she's not home to answer his call

nice girl: she often drives to see him
B**** :he'll pick her up or happily go out of his way

(When a woman drives to see a man, the only thing missing is the "We Deliver" sign on the top of her car.)

nice girl: she askes "where is this relationship going?"
B**** :He has no clue where the relationship is going and she leaves it like that.

nice girl: She buys him thoughtful gifts "just to show she's thinking of him."
B**** : She buys him gifts only on his birthday and the holidays. She constantly receives thoughtful romantic gifts from him.

nice girl: She sends him romantic cards, sneaks love notes into his pockets, and writes long letters about their relationship.
B**** :she keeps all correspondence brief and non-mushy. She constantly receives romantic notes, cards and long letters from him.

nice girl:She hangs on the phone with him for hours talking about her "feelings" like he's one of her girlfriends.
B**** :She ends phone conversations after fifteen minutes leaving him wanting more.

nice girl: she asks him about his ex
B**** :He brings up the ex; she looks at her watch

nice girl: she talks about marriage, children and babies
B**** : she can't remember his last name

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DayDreamer
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posted September 05, 2005 09:18 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Im an Aquarian too! I've had a thing for Aries men, and they for me. Negreta, he is probably more interested in you than you think. However, I'm guessing he also likes to spend time alone...being born on the 31st makes him hermitic.

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diviniT
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posted September 05, 2005 09:22 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LeylaLeFaye: I am a Taurus/Aquarius/Aquarius who is attracted and attractive to the Water Signs. Do you have Rules to share for them?

Thanks a million,

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gert
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posted September 06, 2005 11:10 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can I add my two cents worth?

Aries is a very active sign and aggressive,wether male or female.Aries tends to go after what they want, when they want it.Most Ariens are unfamiliar with the term "lets take it slow".To Ariens taking it slow is redundant considering that the ride will be much more exhilirating fast paced.This principle allso applies in love matters.

Personaly I find Ariens quite difficult to get along with even though I am Sag(a fire sign).This is because they are rather bossy and can be overly pushy,well atleast the ones I've met.Most people whom I know that are Ariens are kept at a distance,not because I do it purposely but rather because it ends up that way.Could be because my rising sign is Taurus,I don't know!

Anyways when I met my Aquarian buddy a year and a half ago,we didn't exactly hit it off.He was very detached and I assumed he really didn't like me and so I didn't ask much from the guy.Even though I was detached myself,rather because I take my time to trust,but his detachment was such that even if he were to see me in a party he wouldn't go all out to say hi.It would seem like everytime we got together it was the first time we were meeting.I thought that maybe he was shy and I was too loud.Fast forward to a year later and it seems we can't seem to fuction without each other!

Most Aquarians don't like to have demanding or overwhelming partners who come running into their lives,making a mess of things and throwing all sorts of demands around.They really need a lot of space and are generaly detached people.

Why don't you talk honestly to the guy about how you feel( without sugarcoating it) as he may not be aware that he is as detached as you say or else sending mixed signals?Aquarians appreciate no nonsense honesty,don't make any demands on him but rather assure him that you'll be around should he need a pal if you really are up to being his friend.Thats how anyone wins the hearts of these people anyways,by friendship.

Good luck!

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astro junkie
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posted September 07, 2005 04:11 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If I haven't already :::


Welcome Negreta

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Negreta
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posted September 07, 2005 06:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Negreta     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi gert

Thank u for your detailed answer. I just have to say that i am not the kind of Aries you describe, i am not bossy and pushy at all, i am a very tolerant person who accepts people just as they are, i dont judge. I dont think i have been demanding at all with that aqua who still didnt call. We were just starting to see eachother, so we never came to talk about getting serious or not. i never expected him to commit fast or anything like that, i just got impatient once, as i mentioned before. But anyway i just dont feel like calling him anymore now, 'cause i really think he doesn't give a **** about me. so it is his loss not mine. i am just a lilltle bit frustrated because it seemed that a really nice story could have happened, but it might have been my sentimental arian imagination that just made it all up...
Maybe he just dont relate to me. (I am not American and he is). I might be 2 different and 2 real 4 the guys over here. It is an American guy friend of mine who told me that..
I really have no clue.

Thank u Daydreamer for your short answer
Thank u AstroJunkie for your greeting me
Leyla LeFay, I am not quite sure i understood your answer, do u mean the Aqua type like B****s ? well i dont recognize the way i am neither in the Nice Girl, neither in the B*** kinda of behaviour. I think I am too old 4 this kind of games, i just wanna be myself. That's it.
thank u everybody anyway

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funkyaquarianpixie
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posted September 08, 2005 05:40 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My man is an Aires. a lot of my exes were Librans, the rest were cancerian... the guys with lots of cancerian stuff going on just stifled me..

My Aires man and me first met when we were 5 (at primary school!) and re met at 21. it however took 3 years for us to pull it together and me to get married to a crazy libra with a leo moon, almost move away..

hes got a gem venus. cancer rising, leo mars, and a cappy moon.

it can work, invite the aqua to something social...

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Lauren
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posted September 08, 2005 12:05 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Negreta,

Maybe it's just a synastry thing..not because you're Aries and he's Aqua or any "typcal" prob that the typical Aries-Aqua relationship would have..in theory

I think you're both a-typical of your signs. You have a Scorpio moon, which next to Capricorn is one of the toughest moon signs..and what do you know? He has a Capricorn moon lol So two tough moons there that feel emotions strongly and deeply. They're heavy not light. In that way you understand each other..

I think the main prob seems to be that..even though your moons are sextile, your sun squares his moon..and his sun likewise squares your moon. I'm not sure how close this would be by degrees, because I don't know your times of birth (but when it comes to Sun/Moon, whether the degrees are close or not I'm pretty sure it would still impact your relationship)

This is an interpretation for it..

quote:
Sun square Moon
This is a very difficult comparative combination for family, marital, and romantic relationships. Just as the best relationships are those showing the Sun and Moon in harmonious aspect, the adversity of the square can denote serious challenges. You will find it very hard and unnatural to adapt to each other's temperament, as well as the general pace and style of living. Major disagreements about the handling of finances, business affairs, and the raising of children often arise. Frequently, these are the results of differences in family background or deep-seated emotional habit patterns.

and..

quote:
Moon sextile Moon
This aspect aids communication and emotional empathy. In family and domestic relationships, this combination show compatibility derived from habit patterns established in the childhood family.

So I guess your Moon sextile can help out.. but it would probably never be an "easy" relationship. Then again, judging by both your charts, I think you'd both prefer deep/intense..rather than "easy"..

I'm not sure why he's acting cold out of the blue. I'm an Aries with a Capricorn moon. Capricorn moon is funny like that.. and WEIRD very WEIRD lol.. Don't assume it's necessarily because of you. Maybe he's having other probs and feels like being alone at the moment. I know I go through my lonely spells (ppl think I'm avoiding them and I'm not..I'd just rather be alone for one reason or another, but I do snap out of it).

In a relationship, I think the main reason Cap moon goes cold fish is when they don't feel "secure" (which makes them feel rejected..and it can happen out of something very small and seemingly insignificant..it's a touchy moon to have, even for "resilient" male signs like Aries and Aqua). You only have 1 earth in your chart so he might feel a bit ..like he's unsure where he stands with you..or like he isn't sure he can count on you..do you think that's a possibility?

Here's more about him:

quote:
11-10 Aquarius/Capricorn
The combination of your Sun sign and your Moon sign produces a positive and authoritative personality; a very solid and practical individual with individualistic qualities. The Aquarius side of this nature brings originality and independence, but this is tempered by the conservatism, deep ambition and caution of Capricorn. Your calm persistence, deep determination and talent for cold calculation or prudent thinking assure sound judgment and realistic evaluation of conditions or situations. You know your course in life and you are not one to be diverted by emotional factors. Restless at times, you need to keep busy in your profession, business or public life. You have a powerful sense of responsibility and deep seriousness to your nature. Business responsibilities may be heavy. You have great inner sources that enhance your personality. This is a combination that shows the talent to cope with large enterprises and for handling large numbers of people. You have strong, deeply rooted convictions and ideals, and you conduct your business with a strict code of ethics. You are a natural executive with humanitarian leanings, as you combine friendliness and fair play with your strict business principles. You strive more for power and authority than for wealth and material success.

Also, it would be good if you could find out his time of birth (if/when you get in contact again) because the house his Capricorn moon is in would say a lot about his emotional side.

Mine is in the 8th (rules sex and death mainly). I'm cautious in general but when it comes to sex it goes into paranoia.. and I would literally rather jump of a cliff than have a one night stand. If I did, it'd drive me crazy.

Capricorn is the sign of caution so if it's in a house that involves relationships like 5th, 7th, 8th, he would be very cautious in that area.

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Negreta
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posted September 09, 2005 12:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Negreta     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wouaw! Lauren!

Your answer is so thorough, even if it was not really positive for me, i really appreciated the time you took to go through all this details
THANK U SO MUCH!

Well i am also really curious to get to know, the time he is born, but right now, i am really not sure how to get it and if i will ever get a chance to get it.

To answer your question about if he could think he can't count on me. I really dont think so, 'cause i really showed him that i care for him and the last time he called me (about 2 weeks ago), it was to thank me 'cause i sent him an email answering a lot of questions he had about his launching a website (i did a sort of quick marketing research for him, and i think that was really helpful, but unexpected), he is really busy doing that right now, so maybe this is why he doesnt call.

About if he could feel insecure about something...I dont know , maybe.. I am always very warm with him and very easygoing, but the last time i saw him, at the very end of the night , (we were with two other friends hangin'out all together), i asked him if he missed me (that was after that whole month i spent without seeing him), and i didnt feel him when he answered "Yes i did", I thought that was really fake, and that he forced himself to say that, so immediately i kinda stepped back (we were in eachother's arms), gave hime one of my strong look, trying to see through his soul how sincere he was, and i kind of became tired of this whole night that was disappointing for me'cause i was not alone with him, and we didnt get to talk really. So i think i suddenly might have said something like "let's go now". We were about to leave anyway and get into his car. I just felt a total stranger at that very moment and wanted to go home and be alone 'cause i had this feeling he was not sincere with me. Maybe he felt I was closing myself to him. So finally he dropped me home, (didn't even wait for me to get into my building), he called me the day after 'cause i had sent him that email .. and that's the last time i heard from him. And i dont understand nothing now... So maybe he feels that i am a little bit too intense, even though, i never complaint, as I said , i ve always been very cool and relax . Maybe he feels it in my aura. I have this kind of energy that lets nobody indifferent and no matter how i behave or carry myself, everybody agrees to say that i lead a very strong impression on people, i really dont know why. I am often seen as a very charismatic person for some reason I ignore. I think it is usually a pretty positive feeling i give to most people cause i am a really warm and friendly person.

Well this is it

When I remember his eyes, that really makes me frustrated that i can't get to know that guy more deeply. Maybe I am just beeing impatient and this is really just about him having to deal with a lot of stuff that keeps him away from me right now. And maybe this is not a very big deal.

We'll see.. For now I am still not calling him...

Thank u again Lauren!

Take care

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