posted September 26, 2005 10:09 PM
I think having to be stirred up is sort of non sexual, I like being sexual without any desire, sometimes I like to make to my lover for no reason at all. No candles, no art, for no reason or purpose and without any imagination, for that reason I am usually faithful because my mind does not roam when I am with someone. I find if I am with someone whose mind roams he is usually roaming physically too.
Being a bit forward thinking, maybe we are faithful for stability.
Sex is such an ego trip when it's all about getting yours or giving. Maybe sex is about sharing something bigger, so it's always about other people no matter who.
We all want to be admired, cared for, if you thought you were all these things and loved would you want more? Most of my lovers who were into many partners never felt loved enough.
I am okay with most things, but not when there is adultery or cheating, or lying about cheating. I mean you know if you are cheating, if someone is sitting at home waiting for you, faithful and you are with someone else, it's cheating! The worst case of this was with a Scorpio girl, who would tease and flirt with an Aqua friend of mine, and go home and sleep with her Libra husband. She said she got off on screwing over her husband with my friend.
They would "talk" on the phone and get him all hot and bothered, then he would talk to me. He confronted her and she it wasn't sex, and she was faithful! That he was crazy. Poor guy didn't know what to think, really was shattered for a while trying to figure out how he fell in love with her and had sex with her, in some ways and had her betray him like that. I think there are many ways to screw you, then in bed.
So, I wouldn't say I care too much about how many partners my friend or lover has, what I want to know is who he talks to on the phone!
Natasha
Taurus
Cancer Moon