posted September 28, 2005 03:02 PM              

That's not quite the right phrase.
How to explain...?
To me, it feels like he's stuck in a rut and is flailing about in an attempt to get out.
It kinda feels like a Nodal issue, actually.
He's expressed an interest in having his natal chart analyzed, and I think that input from someone who's gifted and sensitive at astrological analysis/observation may be received well.

So, if anyone knows a good astrologer who they'd like to recommend, let me know
I'll pay...but we're far from well-off financially, so I won't pay an astronomical amount.
~~~

posted September 28, 2005 03:12 PM            

I have the opposite.

Seems he needs to work on becoming closer and more nuturing toward people. He should perhaps strive to become less self-contained, and start really getting into the heart of relationships. He needs to develop and appreciate the joy that comes from getting close to people.

I'm amazed at the number of aspects he has.

(By the way, I'm not the most knowledgable about astrology.)

posted September 28, 2005 03:17 PM              

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Seems he needs to work on becoming closer and more nuturing toward people. He should perhaps strive to become less self-contained, and start really getting into the heart of relationships. He needs to develop and appreciate the joy that comes from getting close to people.

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PP - Yeah, but that's kind of like saying, "Well, here's a list of babysitters - just choose one. They're all Red Cross certified."
(Or maybe that analogy only makes sense to a Mom...)

posted September 28, 2005 03:32 PM              

A friend of mine here in Ireland is a fab astrologer,counsellor, spiritual guide, healer and she has helped me no end....she is very psychic....here is her website if yu want to take a look www.katearbon.com

Love

posted September 28, 2005 03:57 PM              

She is an extremely reasonable woman,I am sure you can come to some arrangement.......she has studied for many years and is very worth her weight in gold......in my eyes....

Let me know if I can help at all with this?

xx

posted September 28, 2005 05:37 PM            

He has early fixed for sun, moon, and saturn. The problems probably started when saturn entered leo. He just got his first pass of having his sun opposed, and moon and saturn squared. The most difficult aspect here is the solar one, because we become weak and tired when saturn opposes our sun, we have difficulty getting any project off the ground, and it seems that the universe seems to block us. This influence makes us grow strong.

Saturn square moon is associated with depression and isolation, and also strain with female relationships. Saturn square saturn is associated with career changes/public image changes. ]

Saturn has, by degree, passed all of these, but its going to retro (in nov i think?) to reverse over, then pass once more. The initial transit (in this case 3 transits) is always the hardest, because thats when reality slaps us in the face and we freak out/despair. During the retro he'll be able to examine what hes doing wrong, and when saturn moves over his planets again next year he'll be able to fully fix things.

A large part of saturn transits is learning to GIVE IN and not fight it. WHen we fight a saturn transit its like struggling against a spiked collar, it only hurts more. He needs to give in to the fact that his life isn't what it should be right now, and focus on his basic needs. Then he can review the past, see where hes been, seen whats worked for him, and go from there. We often "flail" under saturn transits until we learn that the flailing only makes things worse, and that we must give in to saturns power. Saturn always teaches patience.

posted September 28, 2005 05:57 PM              

It seems like he's having an early-life crisis.
While it has been a career issue (there's all sorts of things happening - or not happening, because this is the Army - on that front) it's also become a relational issue.
I'm not sure if this is spill-over or endemic, and I'll admit that I'm not the most neutral on this matter. It's safe to say, however, that he feels that "all is not right" and "things are not as they should be" on several fronts.

I'll mull that over (and run your response past him).

posted September 29, 2005 08:57 AM              

Moon ~ 01°44'25 Aquarius
Ascendant ~ 05°23'27 Scorpio
Venus ~ 07°04'08 Taurus

posted September 29, 2005 01:41 PM              

Re: the Sun/Moon: We have that going, and depending on how wildly generous you'd like to be with your orbs, we have nice Moon/Venus things going on as well.
When it's nice, it's quite nice.
When it's bad, it's awful (but, then, that's also what you get with Scorpio Ascs all around).

Our Composite's Fun:

With that 4th, I'm surprised it took us a few months to get married

posted September 29, 2005 02:32 PM              

I would go for it.........

posted September 29, 2005 02:40 PM              

Just awaiting a reply now

*quietly jumps up and down*

posted September 29, 2005 03:17 PM              

*fidgets*

*goes to get a Green Tea Smoothie thing*

posted September 29, 2005 03:26 PM              

And no word of a lie she has never ever hurt my feelings, prickled my ego or said anything to disturb me.......being with her is "like going home"......I wanna share her with the world.....I want her to be recognised....she is one of the best !!