posted September 28, 2005 03:51 PM              

I have that aspect with someone LOL.

I am the venus and he is the mars.

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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra

posted September 28, 2005 04:00 PM            

I feel sort of the way you do but mine is directed towards one person. I found out that Mr. Taurus is a pathological liar, from what he has accomplished in his past (which I suspected) to the possibility that he never had a daughter that died (he has said that he went visiting her relatives, but let me ask you this, if he is so close to her birth mother and her folks, why does he not have their numbers in his phone? The number is does have is for a woman he was introduced to by his friend).

His family has never heard of this daughter (he said he kept them from knowing) his closest cousin never heard of this daughter. I have never seen any pictures...

I have caught him in several lies to perfect strangers as well as to his friends. He even lied to an airline to get a better ticket price by telling them he was being honored in Las Vegas for his volunteer work on natural disasters and with underprivilaged kids. That made me sick to my stomach.

I was already out the door - but after the lastest round of lies, steroids..etc.. I just had to get out. I will never stay in that house again.

I despise him so much my stomach hurts and I have NEVER felt that way about another person. It is so odd for me that it actually makes me want to cry. I usually part ways with an ex on friendly terms. With him, I could care less what happens to him and told him that once I am out I don't anything to do with him, I don't want his new number, or address... I am not interested in any ties to him at all.

I even threw out the cards / poems / gifts he gave me (which he found) because I hate him so much because of all his lies (he even lied about the day he re-enlisted). He lied to the renters insurance and told them he lost my engagement ring after a fight we had.

I my absolute repulsion may also stem from Pluto on my Sun- it will help you clear things out and if you procrastinate at all... it will do it for you. I can't tolerate liars- it is against my Saggie nature.

My comfort is knowing that I was innocent in this whole thing. I tried with him and he misrepresented himself (he is once again pursuing another, thinking I'm not aware that he bought her a ring, sent her poetry etc.. which doesn't hurt me emotionally, since I am not in love with him, but it just makes me see him as pathetic for being such a liar). My Karma is unaffected, but I know his payment is coming due big time.

posted September 28, 2005 04:10 PM              

I know that you're a strong woman and don't need anyone to "feel sorry" for you - and that's not quite how I mean the above.
He's just...
Just, wow.
What a loser.

posted September 28, 2005 05:34 PM            

Prox,

I know you aren't giving me pity and I appreciate it. Sometimes I don't feel all that strong, but I know that now that I am away from him the positive energy will be returning back into my life.

Sorry you and Jase are fighting. Military life is hard on a couple, but I think the two of you will be able to work through it. I am wondering though - would you feel more comfortable in VA while he was at Fort Huachuca? I think you will make friends easily (and I am here too) but sometimes it seems hard (then again, you have been in Bama and seem to have made it through that).

Just know that whatever you decide, if you come out here you do have a friend.

MM... oh I suppose I was due. I have been lucky in my life to weed these wacknuts out usually within a month or two. I think moving in with him was a huge mistake, but I also knew there would be some reward from the trial. I couldn't have asked for a better network of friends, job and area to live in. It seems that the more evil he was and the nastier he treated me, the better people I met that showed me what true friendship is all about. Think of Lindaland but offline and in the flesh.

Whatever those two Libra's did, it sounds like they were bad news. I am not sure what kind of mess they got you in... but it must be icky for you to get upset!!!

Some people are just plain mean and some are emotional Vampires. My gut about Mr. Taurus is that he is a socio-path that feeds off of other's emotions. He and I talked about that once- his inability to feel compassion or empathy for another. I always thought it was weird and then realized it was a huge RED FLAG. I am even questioning if he had the childhood trauma he professes to have had. I think alot of his mental state is also due to taking injections of steroids (he has doubled the dose and has been on them for more than 4 months - he also has been on them in the past...ala his friend in Texas that introduced him to the new lady).

I feel sorry for him, but I also feel he made his own bed and will regret his decisions.

One side note.... we once talked about revenge and he said he would do anything to get back at someone that crossed him. I said "Not me, I believe the Universe / Karma has a way of paying them back times 10. Everyone that has made a point of trying to hurt me or betray me (or others) seems to go through hell in the end. Why should I waste my time in trying to hurt them?"

He said I was weak - nah, I think it showed strength