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Topic: The Astrology of Relationships
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Mystic Gemini unregistered
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posted September 29, 2005 07:00 PM
For example, here are some very harmonious factors I like to see in comparing two people's birthcharts for marriage:Sun conjunct Moon; Sun trine or sextile Sun; Moon conjunct Mercury, Venus or Jupiter; Sun conjunct Ascendant; Venus conjunct, sextile, or trine Mars; Venus conjunct Jupiter or Neptune; Mars conjunct or trine Jupiter; Sun in the other's 4th, 1st, or 3rd house. Any one aspect by itself is not sufficient to predict a lasting harmonious relationship, but if several of these are present it points to a strong attraction that may last, if there are not severely stressful aspects. Here are some dis-harmonious factors I do not like to see in the charts of two people attempting a long-term relationship: Saturn conjunct any of the personal planets - Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars, or Ascendant: Here the Saturn person tends to squash, oppress, invalidate, or attempt to control the person with the personal planets. Uranus opposite any of the personal planets, which tends to raise intense issues of will and freedom. These aspects are so severe as to be "deal-killers," even though it may take a while for the aspects to play out. When they do show up, they tend to be all-consuming. However, spirituality, therapy, maturity, and giving each other a lot of space and respect can do wonders to turn battles into opportunities. http://www.astrologynow.com/relation.htm
My Jupiter conjuncts his Venus.
and that's it.
His venus and mercury are in my 4th house os hopefully that will help.
------------------ Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra *´¨) ¸.·´¸.·*´¨) ¸.·*¨) (¸.·´ (¸.·´ * Lost in the peace of serenity Blind my eyes I cannot see Lost my soul but found my heart Again a time, when I shall start IP: Logged |
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posted September 29, 2005 07:08 PM
Any married people here care to let us know if they have some of these aspects with there husbands/wives?------------------ Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra *´¨) ¸.·´¸.·*´¨) ¸.·*¨) (¸.·´ (¸.·´ * Lost in the peace of serenity Blind my eyes I cannot see Lost my soul but found my heart Again a time, when I shall start IP: Logged |
Hexxie unregistered
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posted September 30, 2005 12:29 PM
hello dearie - me n my guy aren't married in the traditional sense, but we've been together for over 5 years and yes we do live together. good: our suns are sextile each others (by sign not degree). his moon is conjunct my jupiter(by degree not sign).bad: my saturn is conjunct his mars (by sign & degree) he & i both have 4th house suns & mercuries natally, but they don't fall in each other's 4th's.
------------------ ~Libra Sun / 29* Gemini Rising / Aquarius Moon~ IP: Logged |
Valkie unregistered
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posted September 30, 2005 01:29 PM
Between Hubby and I: My Venus sextile his Mars. My Mars conjunct to his Jupiter. My Sun in his first house.For the "deal killers", we don't have the Saturn conjunction or Uranus opposition...But, His Venus conjunct to my Uranus, His Venus square to my Saturn, and His Saturn square to my Mercury. IP: Logged |
Hexxie unregistered
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posted September 30, 2005 02:00 PM
bleh, we also have: my venus conjunct his uranus. my venus square his mars. my saturn square his venus. my saturn square his uranus. uranus conjunct uranus.my gawd, i s'pose i really like a challenge, huh?! ------------------ ~Libra Sun / 29* Gemini Rising / Aquarius Moon~ IP: Logged |
proxieme unregistered
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posted September 30, 2005 04:06 PM
Going down the list:My Moon conj. His Sun (to the degree) His Moon conj. My Venus/Chiron My Moon conj. His Venus (not tight, but same sign) My Venus Sextile his Mars...but only by sign My Mars Trine his Jupiter...but only by sign His Sun in my 3rd My Sun in his 4th As for the ick-sters: We don't have either the Saturn conj. or Uranus opp, but we do have (several) Saturn/Uranus contacts.
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moonstar77 Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 30, 2005 04:15 PM
Are Saturn contacts supposed to be bad in marriage charts? I thought they could produce something worthy of endurance...?IP: Logged |
Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 117 From: Registered: Feb 2010
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posted September 30, 2005 05:37 PM
Well there is this special guy on my mind right now and here is are aspects.Sun trine Merc Sun trine Asc Sun conjunct Moon Sun Conjunct Merc Sun conjunct Venus Moon sextile Mars Jupiter Conjunct Venus The bas stuff Moon Square Saturn Sun Square Pluto Sun oppose Saturn I do not guess that the bad things would keep us away from each other. IP: Logged |
Touchstone unregistered
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posted September 30, 2005 06:27 PM
Oh no! Me and my hub of 10 years share none of the above aspects. Not one!Touch IP: Logged |
Mystic Gemini unregistered
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posted October 01, 2005 09:08 AM
Oops just noticed me and the guy also have Sun conjunct moon.------------------ Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra *´¨) ¸.·´¸.·*´¨) ¸.·*¨) (¸.·´ (¸.·´ * Lost in the peace of serenity Blind my eyes I cannot see Lost my soul but found my heart Again a time, when I shall start IP: Logged | |