posted November 03, 2005 08:14 PM            

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I have noticed the blocking out... pretending it doesn't exist, until it really doesn't... trait in Sag moons.. When i read that, it really clicked for me.. as my heart was broken by 2 such individuals.. and thats how i felt... that they didn't want to deal with any conflict or feeling bad or sad so they just willed it away.. not just the feeling but the source too.
LOL.... i'm still new to the understanding aspect of placements.... do you find you are that way ? Is it how you let go of things and or people?

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The thing is, we do feel it, we just try not to. My usual way of making the hurt go away, is completely shutting the other person out, and give them no mode of communication to me. That way I don't have to deal with them, and I don't have to think about them, so the hurt goes away, and slowly, I just develop a resentment for the person, but it doesn't hurt anymore.

posted November 03, 2005 09:10 PM              

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but in terms of signs...
i get on with all signs when the gender is female...

but Cancer Man and Taurus Man and Capricorn Man IRRITATE the hell out of me. Taurus and Cappy geezers are still not that bad, i mean they wind me up from time to time but i can still have a laugh with them, but

Cancer Man and me Aqua Dude = MORTAL ENEMIES

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LOL zohe

well at least ur lucky in that u get along with all the opp sex folks huh i absolutely cannot men have to measure up to a certain level of intelligence and kindness to even be considered here, a lotttt of them dont make the cut

i always thot cancers are difficult for air signs, for friendship theyre ok , but even then to a point, relationship wise, big no no me thinks

posted November 04, 2005 09:39 AM              

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but we started talking and she came out to be a very nice person, I still remember the time, I was suffering from dehydration, and she helped me out and walked with me, when she could have just gone and joined her other friends. That really touched me, and it was kind of like a lesson to me. She's very helpful and funny and is the least judgemental person I know.

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I think , i have heard this story earlier too , was it u on some other thread ?

posted November 04, 2005 11:54 AM            

"you are very much right on the gem's expectation thing , i have felt the same with my gem friends . u got to see thier eyes , i even feel that with one of my closest friend .
i feel its a air trait . may be bcos they are considerd to have too much belief on thier knowledge ."
Aah, I wouldn't say that, aquarians I know don't really have much belief in thier knowledge, they're willing to listen to other opinions. Its more like I admire the geminis and I want to be thier friends but sometimes they come off as too judgemental, too un-accepting, in so for being thier friend, I've to be a different person which is not me, and that doesn't work for me. But maybe the problem is all in my mind, all because of my perception so don't really know. Maybe I percieve thier honesty as their judgemental nature, maybe I'm projecting my insecurity on them. Anyways I do have something to learn from them. And I know a few geminis who aren't very judgemental or un-accepting.

Oh by the way, funny story, when I was writing a reply instead of typing 'cappyme' as My username I bymistakenely typed 'cancerrg' and I had to retype the whole reply since it got deleted

posted November 04, 2005 12:18 PM            

It's Conjunct Venus
...Quincunx Lilith
...Quincunx Chiron

However, I have a Mutable Singleton...Neptune in Cap in the 3rd
(it's also an earth singleton..)

posted November 07, 2005 11:47 AM              

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As usual cancers have great memory, and thats true cancerrg, I've mentioned about her a zillion times in this forum I think. She deserves it, not only for helping me, but for helping many people, She talks to the most loneliest people in my class and helps them out.

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thats very typical of cancers , i believe .
i had this habit but i am turning a bit self centered as it used to drain me emotionally . the problem starts with our getting attached within moments .

i agree with everything that u say about air signs . i myself feel aquas are the most up to the mark in realtions that we water people expect people to be .
i know three aquas at present , one of them is my ex-boss ( we are friends now)

about libras - i have met the most selfless as well as most selfish people in this sign.

gems- uff, i am very clear with them now, i dont think i am gonna invest the kind of emotion that i have with them till now .'u are thier known ones for ten yrs. but then even u dont really know if u are in thier good books' . too judgemental i feel . i dont have problem with thier judgements though , problem is they pass it very quickly , my feeling is they start giving shape to thier judgement from the very first meeting.i am tired . infact , i was saying the same thing to my gem friend ( he is one of the person that i really care for , thankgod the sentiments are reciprocated , i am one of very few people in his life that have a value) and u know what, he finished my sentence . and said ,' i understand! toughest people in this respect for me but i dont know if i'll be patient enough .

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Oh by the way, funny story, when I was writing a reply instead of typing 'cappyme' as My username I bymistakenely typed 'cancerrg' and I had to retype the whole reply since it got deleted

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caps and cancers . u know if they can understand and have faith on eachother , can be one of the most successful people in everywhich sense . imagine the imagination and practicalness togetther . but the problem is power games are real problem in thier realtion . i can't really say about the men but i like cap women .

u remember that cap assamesse gal

posted November 07, 2005 05:19 PM              

I met two others Aries women who were very similar too.....oh dear.

Of course these days, I aint scared of anyone (only myself hahahahaha).......

I can understand why some would be scared of Scorpios....all that intensity and directness, but me being one, I understand em, and usually feel connected to them....

posted November 07, 2005 06:48 PM            

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nove731... a belated thanks for answering my question...i have an aries moon.. and can be that way too.. a little..i have a tough time breaking free though.. too much earth in me... the Sag moon men i've known let go this way.. they just disappeared. Poof! One was a Scorp... so that explains a lot...lol.. I did not hurt either one... it was the situation we were in that would not allow us to proceed. It hurt all the same but i hope there is no resentment... no contact like you said..i am in awe of how easy it seemed for them to walk away... maybe it wasn't afterall.

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posted November 08, 2005 12:10 AM              

Guys: Virgo guys find me amusing for some reason, but that's all I remain to them: a mere curiosity that they analyze and then cast away for something- or someone else. I never grow too intimate with them as they turn out to be "donkies" with me.
The Libra guys I've know are so conceited. They act like they're players.

posted November 08, 2005 04:31 AM              

She never hugs, or tells any of her kids she loves em and when my man was 14 and asked her if she loved him she replied "dont be so stupid"......

Ive yet to meet a colder more indifferent woman. I never really warmed to Geminis, but oh dear she takes the biscuit ......she is the most flippant person I ever met......feel sorry for her.....look what she is missing out on...

Needless to say, in one way or another, each of her children suffer, and it has taken my hubbie until now to realise he does indeed deserve love.....how ironic he marries someone who would die for it.......

posted November 08, 2005 08:59 AM              

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I'd comment further, but I don't think it's possible without offending someone (Not that I particularly mind offending people, but I happen to like the people and some of the opinions from those I might offend).

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posted November 08, 2005 11:24 AM            

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I don't know too many Gemini's, but the ones that I do make me feel ackward. I know they're really smart, and witty and I feel as if they're just analyzing everything about me. -Planet Soul

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Planet_Soul... I don't think I knew you were a Sag, but your description of your feelings in the presence of Geminis rings true for me. I don't know what it is.

When I meet someone that I initially feel uncomfortable around, they are usually a Gemini... female more often than not. --future_uncertain

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Hey, another Sag here... It has all been said about how I too feel around Gemini women. Isn't that something - that makes 3 of us --Yin

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sag--lot of tension , a sag just told me last night ' WOW u are so beautiful if u lose some weight u could be a model ' which totally offended me. just O/NE example its happened a million times sag + gemini = homicidal events -Secret Garden Again

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The gemini's I know are very critical and we just don't get along, because we both are so different, and we have different ideologies, so I always feel uncomfortable with them, even kind of admire them a lot but its kind of the feeling like I have to rise up to some expectations with them. --cappyme

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[Commenting on Sag's judgmentalism] I know a male Filipino Sag that very often says things like this. It's particularly disturbing when he puts his views out to his young daughters. Like I've heard him on numerous occasions talk about what they eat, and warn them that if they get fat they won't be sexy. I fear that his daughters may grow up with complexes because of him. I think his daughters are Leo and Aqua. -Me

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i absolutely cannot men have to measure up to a certain level of intelligence and kindness to even be considered here, a lotttt of them dont make the cut -SGA commenting on herself, a Gemini

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you are very much right on the gem's expectation thing , i have felt the same with my gem friends . u got to see thier eyes , i even feel that with one of my closest friend. -Cancerrg

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Its more like I admire the geminis and I want to be thier friends but sometimes they come off as too judgemental, too un-accepting, in so for being thier friend, I've to be a different person which is not me, and that doesn't work for me. -Cappyme

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gems- uff, i am very clear with them now, i dont think i am gonna invest the kind of emotion that i have with them till now .'u are thier known ones for ten yrs. but then even u dont really know if u are in thier good books' . too judgemental i feel . i dont have problem with thier judgements though , problem is they pass it very quickly , my feeling is they start giving shape to thier judgement from the very first meeting. -Cancerrg

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Was it really that hard to look for yourself?

posted November 08, 2005 11:58 AM            

no offense to anyone

but libra men, they talk too much. and half the things they say dont make any sense. a lot of the ones i known thought they were the gods of knowledge. always wanting to talk about something and discuss it and tell me how wrong i am and how it should be one way. but then twist it around and say on the other hand it should be this way so you could be right "in another lifetime..". they make me so angry. and they think theyre so hot, and so romantic, and idealize love so much that they dont even know what it is when it hits them and then they run scared.

libra women more or less too. ive never really gotten along with any. so quick to just mold in with everyone else and go along with the crowd. it annoys me, and they spread a lot of rumors. not intentionally, but just because they think everyones their friend so they go back and say something to someone you hate just because they dont hate them, not realizing the DRAMA they cause. AHHHHHHHHHH

but im really speaking on myself too. i can be like that, with my Libra Asc and everything.

i think for me however Piscean women take the cake. We just don't click at all. The I've been around, I've brutally hurt emotionally and then they never come around me again, and it almost makes me feel like a bad person..but I never intend to make them upset. I just do. But i'm not comfortable with talking about feelings and expressing emotions, affection, or love AT ALL. i don't like it, i ABHOR it. and thats all they (the ones i known) ever seem to want to do. and they make me feel BAD for being less sensitive than they are (externally). i feel like i'm walking on pins and needles with them. its kind oflike hanging out with yur friends after you learned cool new swears with your mom around. the ones ive known have been so quick to chastise less than pretty comments, or thoughts i have. i feel like i have to be someone i'm not around them. they're some of the most beautiful women around....but ive always subconsciously distanced myself from most of the ones i known. they remind me of emotions and i dont like to feel...

blah, they say ppl tend to dislike others because they resemble what they don't like about themselves...maybe that's even valid when applied to Astrology as well.

posted November 09, 2005 01:46 AM              

so yeah i am judgemental about sags, although i dont think sags are judgemental but i think they are cruel with their tongues