posted November 08, 2005 11:05 AM            

HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Virgo 20°24'31
2nd House Libra 15°32'12
3rd House Scorpio 15°22'50
Imum Coeli Sagittarius 18°50'57
5th House Capricorn 22°44'54
6th House Aquarius 23°40'11
Descendant Pisces 20°24'31
8th House Aries 15°32'12
9th House Taurus 15°22'50
Medium Coeli Gemini 18°50'57
11th House Cancer 22°44'54
12th House Leo 23°40'11

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and Me (female)
born on 11 Aug 1982 local time 08:47 am
in Akron, OH (US) U.T. 12:47
81w31, 41n05 sid. time 04:39:34
PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree house
Sun Leo 18°31'08 12
Moon Taurus 06°38'18 08/9
Mercury Virgo 05°08'08 12
Venus Cancer 26°25'37 11
Mars Scorpio 04°40'33 02
Jupiter Scorpio 03°15'43 02
Saturn Libra 17°48'09 02
Uranus Sagittarius 00°34'40 03
Neptune Sagittarius 24°26'33 04
Pluto Libra 24°31'05 02
True Node Cancer 12°45'19 10

HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Virgo 14°07'01
2nd House Libra 08°36'16
3rd House Scorpio 08°00'53
Imum Coeli Sagittarius 11°25'53
5th House Capricorn 15°37'40
6th House Aquarius 16°56'06
Descendant Pisces 14°07'01
8th House Aries 08°36'16
9th House Taurus 08°00'53
Medium Coeli Gemini 11°25'53
11th House Cancer 15°37'40
12th House Leo 16°56'06

posted November 08, 2005 11:21 AM            

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I am not ready for marriage

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I am not sure I understand what kind of help you need Lovely Lioness Or are you just curious if Gems are able to fall in love and get married?

posted November 08, 2005 11:54 AM              

Mr. Gemini is prone to whims in relationship: Sun and mercury in opposition to Uranus. If a marriage were to happen, he would at some point likely dump you all of a sudden.

If thou protest his idea right now of marriage, he will stifle: His saturn on your mercury.

Yes, there is sex heat: Your mars and jupiter synastrically in opposition to his mars and venus (which conjunct your moon). The sex "blend" isn't so good, though.

Did you meet at work in the cafeteria, and/or go for a picnic and hike? Did you talk about the perfect work/homelife fantasy?
That seems to be the focus here.

posted November 08, 2005 12:28 PM              

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Could someone look at our charts and tell me if there is anything about them that says marriage would be a positive thing? I am happy right now...I am not ready for marriage...What about his chart individually? Is there anything that stands out? From his chart does he seem like the marrying type? What about his personality or his tendencies? Am I good for him?

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In order to get an idea of how people work together in a relationship/marriage, it helps to look at any occurrences of Libra, Venus, and 7th house in the charts (all have to do with relationships). In your chart you have Libra modifying Saturn (duty, also structure) and Pluto (transformation, also power), so you may like structure to your relationships and they may be a source of power to you. You have Venus focused in the 11th house (friends, impulsiveness), so you may want to be "friends" with others in a relationship (close but not TOO close). You have no energy focused in the 7th house so you do not want a relationship simply to have a relationship.

He has Libra modifying Moon (home, also emotions) focused in the first house (being, also action), so he may be actively emotional about relationships. Also, wherever the Moon is in a chart indicates change, so his personal feelings may change suddenly without any warning. He has least aspected (strong energy) Aries (being, also action) modifying Venus focused in the 8th house (transformation, also power), so he may have a STRONG tendency to want to CONQUER in relationships. He has the North node (future goals) focused in the 7th house, so he has a life goal of being in a relationship of some sort.

Between you we look to connections between the Sun and Moon to indicate your connections to each other...and there are no connections between the Sun and Moon. Looking at the interconnections of the personal planets (Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, and Mars), there are a few, but there are ALSO the challenges of Venus square (energy needs to be combined with) Venus, and Venus square Mars. BOTH of these are STRONG relationship conflict aspects. Finally, we see his Pluto opposes (energy is over-excited by) your Venus, so he may try to oppress you in some way, or exert power OVER you.

In short...not an ideal relationship at all! My advice is you tell this person you are not AT ALL ready to get married and that, even if married, you NEED to have your independence in a relationship. That should bring out his "true colors"! Then see how he reacts and make your decision on whether or not to go on based on how he reveals himself to you.

Relating,

posted November 12, 2005 04:16 PM            

I would like to enjoy just being with my Gem and not worrying about the pressures of getting married. Or worry about what might happen in the future. I think his mind is moving too fast. We got in an argument a couple nights ago--(nothing bad, we always want to talk things out instead of holding it in and getting frustrated)--I told him we might need a break and that I've thought of being single again. He said he's thought of it too, but he didn't want that.

I just don't want to get hurt again (well, who does?) I've never had a "serious" relationship and he hasn't either, so it's new to both of us. He has told me from the moment he saw me, he just got a feeling about me and had to talk to me. Is there any astrological reasoning that would explain that connection? or is it something else entirely? any advice?

posted November 16, 2005 01:04 AM              

You asked:

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...He has told me from the moment he saw me, he just got a feeling about me and had to talk to me. Is there any astrological reasoning that would explain that connection? or is it something else entirely? any advice?...

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Quite frankly, it sounds like a line guys use to pick up girls. If you want to marry him, then go ahead. Just keep in mind some of the things that have been said and use this opportunity to test out the truth of astrology!

Relating,

posted November 16, 2005 01:13 AM            

thank you for your advice! It will be a year in december that I met him. He seems confident about his decision. I feel good about it too, there are no negative feelings that come up. But I don't see why it would hurt to wait. I'm trying to be objective and really think about it.

anyone else have any input?