posted November 20, 2005 06:37 PM              

Planetary positions
planet sign degree house motion
Sun Cancer 03°22'17 11 direct
Moon Pisces 05°22'48 07 direct
Mercury Cancer 15°54'47 11 direct
Venus Leo 10°35'32 12 direct
Mars Virgo 06°13'21 01 direct
Jupiter Cancer 14°25'09 11 direct
Saturn Leo 26°40'46 12 direct
Uranus Scorpio 12°36'08 03 retrograde
Neptune Sagittarius 16°29'23 04 retrograde
Pluto Libra 13°53'54 02 stationary (D)
True Node Libra 01°01'23 02 retrograde

posted November 21, 2005 03:21 PM              

Thanks!

Below are my positions:

Planetary positions
planet sign degree house motion
Sun Capricorn 03°09'09 04 direct
Moon Aquarius 22°23'42 06 direct
Mercury Capricorn 22°20'46 05 direct
Venus Aquarius 17°50'16 06 direct
Mars Sagittarius 24°38'14 04 direct
Jupiter Taurus 21°58'13 09 retrograde
Saturn Leo 16°12'42 12 retrograde
Uranus Scorpio 10°35'11 03 direct
Neptune Sagittarius 14°23'52 04 direct
Pluto Libra 14°02'31 02 direct
True Node Scorpio 01°22'59 02 retrograde

posted November 22, 2005 01:37 PM              

i have never been in your man's kind of situation, my relation has been more of mutually understanding kind even in breakups,infact there never was a break up , we just knew , there wasn't an answer to the situations that we were in .

another example,there was a taurus girl that i liked but before i could do something substanntial , the relation was poked by a gem friend of mine .
my first reaction , anger and shame ( i know its weird )
second reaction , i shut her from life , simply bcos i can't let someone have a undefineed realtion with me . you are either in or out . and if i have a even a minor inkling that someone takes me as a burden , i'll automatically start making a distance .
thats the first reaction to let the other person realise if he is missing me or not .(thats what , isolaede meant by going into the shell)
now, if the person doesn't respond and i love him or her too much , i 'll come out of my shell and i'll try my emotional skills , that could go on for a while untill i am totally sure that the person isn't interested . then only will i put a the end board .
and i think, your man is going through the second phase , if u dont want a realtion with him , simply keep silent , he 'll try but later on move on .
ofcourse there would be hurt and anger that 'll be there always .

as for my longest realtion , i am still in love with my first woman , i am still in love with my second woman ( and i have a strong crush on the third one )
my realtion did not break up bcos of any of us but mainly bcos of the conditions , in the first case , i didn't have enough money to go and ask for her hand from her parents( she is getting married next month and i 'll be attending her marriage ) , in the second one , again ,social standard , money and the third and most important-her age , she is just sixteen at present ( we have a big age diff ) i still love her and i know the feeling is reciprocated too . btw,who knows if luck would again bring us togetther.
i guess my answer to the second part wasn't exactly what u were searching for .
in general , if i leave this two realtions , i feel i am pretty ok in sustaining my realtions , i have had realtions with people with whom , i have worked barely for ten or fifteen days .

posted November 30, 2005 11:47 AM              

Does this person seem like they are always worrying? Perhaps it seems like one negative drama after another?

A Cancer is always going to worry no matter what. Even if they have a "lighter" Moon, they will worry. Sometimes a lighter Moon can even exasperate the worry, believe it or not.

Since they have a Water Sun AND Moon, this helps with the flow of emotions, so this is a good thing to try to focus on. Their emotional depth and ability to reflect their emotions to others goes smoother.

The Merc in Cancer makes the "worry" part worse, as Mercury is about how they think or get to things in a "logical" manner. It's also how they communicate, so they may not divulge things too quickly with a Cancer Mercury, but the more you get to know them and the more they trust, the more they will open up.

Venus in Leo helps here, I think. Because it gives them some fire and the will to take a chance on romance. But it can also mean they will fall in love a little too quickly, sort of like a Venus in Aries. So until they learn how to steer their Venus, they may have a lot of trials & errors when it comes to love. But I believe their heart is in the right place.

Mars in Virgo speaks to the worry worry part again. This person should not take themselves too seriously or be too critical of themselves.

Jupiter in Cancer is another black cloud over what would be an optimistic outlook. WORRY!

Saturn in Leo is not such a difficult placement, except, this is where they may come across with a lot more emotional drama. They need to understand they are creating this drama themselves, and be careful not to blame others for things gone wrong. Watch for projecting their emotions.

And of course, the Asc in Virgo goes back to worry again.

I think this person may have health challenges. Do they have skin problems, which can be due to stress of hormone imbalances? Do they get enough cardio workouts to keep their heart strong and the blood pumping?

With all those Planets in the 11th & 12th Houses, plus their Pluto & North Node in Libra, you just know this person wants to have a positive impact on others and society.

A Capricorn may be a good friend to this person.

Maybe something I said here sticks out. Or maybe it's totally off, but that's what my first impression was ...

Hoping for the best for you's.

posted November 30, 2005 12:31 PM              

You are feeling this 'shift' even more right now with trans Saturn 5 degrees away from your natal Saturn.

So to answer your question, yes he can make up his mind & feel peaceful! He wil be a 'new' person after this transit! The Saturn Return transit always reminds me of the phoenix (symbol for rebirth). It burns up and is killed, but is reborn from its ashes, anew. It is my own personal opinion that no one should get married, or settle down, before their Saturn Return has gone by!!!

posted November 30, 2005 03:02 PM            

*Hugs* I'm sorry you are in such a tough place. Cancer's do have a terrible time letting go. They desperately need to hold onto things that are precious to them. I've done the same thing your crab has - my last boyfriend just kind of walked out. It wasn't something that was mutually agreed on as in my past relationships. This chap just bailed. I didn't know how to deal with it because I didn't have that natural time to mentally prepare myself. Sure all the signs were there, but I wasn't ready to let go that quickly. I needed more time. So I called, e-mailed, and generally made a nuisance of myself. I tried to reason with him and convince him that he should try again. He was an unmovable brick wall, but I didn't listen. Then he stopped talking to me completely. I just kept trying though. Silly me, right? I guess I thought love was worth fighting for. This happened up until I looked at his actions, realized how uncaring they were, got angry, and decided to write him out of my life. Cancer’s have a remarkable ability to turn off their feelings for someone, and then cut them out of our lives. So I have two pieces of advice for you:

#1: If you’d like your Cancer to stop bothering you and don’t care if you ever have contact from him in the future, just ignore his calls and e-mails. Don’t respond at all. Sooner or later he’ll get hurt, get angry, pull back into his shell and slam the door of his heart tightly closed. You won’t be bothered from him again at that point. Well… maybe you’ll get a card or something around some holiday or special day, but at that point you needent worry, you Cancer won’t try to get back into your life again. He’s just feeling sentimental.

#2: If you do want to maintain a friendship with your crab you are going to have to have to be gentle, firm, logical, and possess the patience of a saint. You’ll have to talk to him regularly, repeat the same message over and over again with gentle logic (“We’re over, going back would only hurt us both… I’ve found someone else… I still want your friendship, etc”), deal with his alternating icy silences and moody sadness, quell his poorly hidden bouts of jealousy, explain a dozen times what went wrong in your relationship, and reassure him that he’s a wonderful person despite everything that happened. My dear Virgo ex did this for me and he’s still my best friend to this day but it really took a lot of patience on his part. I honestly don’t know how he managed. I guess at the end of things he really did love me – enough to hold onto me even after our romantic relationship ended. But without that love to keep you going, I don’t know that I’d suggest taking this route. Cancer’s have a dreadful time letting of things they care for, and guiding them through their “letting go” phases isn’t easy.

I am sincerely happy to hear that you are moving on though, Globe. You deserve happiness with someone that “gets” you and can take care of your emotional needs.

I wish you the best of luck!

posted November 30, 2005 10:52 PM              

Hexxie- As far as I know, Saturn just entered Leo and will be there until September 2007. Are you saying that he will be a new person in Sep07??? It's way too long to hope for this to be straightened out What does saturn transit exactly mean?

Astro Junkie- You are dead on right about everything you said about him. Worries, projecting emotions, skin problems (he doesn't know what causes those rashes on his hands, I may tell him to get his hormones checked , he stopped exercising and gained so much weight, too!
Wow! Any "problems" with my chart??

posted December 01, 2005 04:16 AM              

globe-trotter with all that Cap and Aqua going on in your chart...perhaps your water boy feels left drowning alone in his emotions? Give him a hug and *try* to look at your relationship from an emotional standpoint...he might come around.

However, if you don't want him around---cut the chord (it's not fair on either one of you)