posted November 20, 2005 08:08 PM              

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So this aquarian guy and I are friends...and I had a crush on him before we had even met, I saw him around and thought he was cute. But just recently about a month ago we started hanging out together. Well I started developing actual feelings for him, we like all the same things and in general I think he is a great guy. Me actually developing feelings is hard itself because I hate feeling attached and confined, which is something we both share. Anyway his friend is like you should tell him how you feel...I had been flirting with him and saying things like (half way joking...half way serious) "I think your hot." They both thought I was kidding. Well tonight I decide to finally get over my feelings I would just tell him...I did not expect him to return them, but to at least be like well your really cool...but I don't want a girlfriend. When I told him he shrugged his shoulders, and then begin to fiddle with his cloths on the ground. I feel stupid...and worse not even good enough to get an excuse out of...or at least for him to say, "I'm flattered." I thought he would be a little nicer about this. I thought that there would be some sort of an attraction...he remembers the first time (which was in like September) we met...details and all (I have no idea when we met). Is this normal for aquarius guys and is it normal to remember details like this. I feel not offended...but just slightly upset that I did not at least get a "I like you like a friend talk." I kinda feel that maybe I should not even talk to him, if I'm not at all worth giving an excuse to...why should I talk to him. I have experience with aqua guys the my high school love of my life was born on the same day and year as him. We also had issues...on my part. Any advise on aqua guys are needed.

My Placements:
Asc: Cancer
Sun: Cancer 1st
Moon: Cap 7th
Mer: Leo 2nd
Ven: Tau 11th
Mars: Can 1st
Jup: Aqu 8th
Uran: Sag 6th
Nep: Cap 6th
Plu: Sco 5th
Sat: Sco 5th

His Placements:
Asc: don't know the actual time...but he seems like a Pisces rising or at least a Nep in 1st.
Sun: Aqu
Moon: Sag
Mer: Aqu
Ven: Aries
Mars: Aries
Jup: Aqu
Uran: Sag
Nep: Cap
Plu: Sco
Sat: Sco

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posted November 23, 2005 01:48 PM              

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Have you met any special Pisces', Taurus or Leo's you like?

The combination on this particular Aquarius speaks of boundless need for freedom and spontaniety.

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posted November 23, 2005 02:00 PM            

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The combination on this particular Aquarius speaks of boundless need for freedom and spontaniety.

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*nodding* I was about to write the same thing. My jaw actually dropped slightly while I was reading his placements. A little Aries, Sag or Aquarius in your chart always brings a bit of flightiness.. but all three? He probably just panicked and didn't know how to respond. A little tongue-tied. Mars in Aries acts first, speaks and thinks later. Aquarius deals with emotions by.. walking away so they can analyze from a safe distance. Moon in Sag may bring a touch of arrogance..
I don't know- if your feelings for him are serious, then dance the fickle dance of seduction with him, though it will likely be difficult and frustrating. Maybe one day he'll just figure out he wants you and come to you. For now I'd say invest your energy and emotions into someone more receptive.

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