posted November 21, 2005 07:35 AM              

She has Capricorn on the ascendant.

Thanks guys

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posted November 21, 2005 11:44 AM              

I KNOW she is lying....she tells lies about other things too...I was just wondering from an astro stance what you guys thought.

She is indeed a most insecure Leo, albeit that she is extremely psychic.

posted November 21, 2005 12:08 PM              

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Check for Mercury afflictions with Gemini...she's lying

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Nonsense.

First off: astrology is neither so dogmatic or black and white.

Secondly, That is NOT a certain indicator of deceit. I know three people who have such afflictions and are not dishonest people or live in denial (and I have 1st/H Pluto sextiling a Neptune singleton in 3rd - I'm a walking B.S. detector and don't tolerate dishonest people very well at all). What it is, more likely, a *very broad* indicator of *inner* mental conflict, and not necessarily an indicator of conflict with what is true.

Furthermore, actively lying and self-denial are two diffirent things. Completely different mental processes.

Sue - allt hat leo suggests to me that she may have a hard time confronting parts of herself she doesn't feel is admireable or attractive. She probably yearns to be likeable and admireable, as any Leo would, so either consciously glosses over or subconciously ignores aspects of her personality she would think turns people off.

With a Cap ASC, I suspect this is a learned behavior, as she's highly sensitive to how people demonstrate integrity and self-possession. Traits like jealousy suggest the contrary so she would be incline to downplay them or cover them up.

posted November 21, 2005 06:54 PM              

Please could someone tell me what would be a Mercury affliction to Gemini? Does it mean Mercury forming a hard aspect to a planet in Gemini?

posted November 21, 2005 09:24 PM              

My chart is very mutable/cardinal..I tend to feel pretty suffocated around them. I do sense the possessiveness miles away, and it bothers me. When there are other people (guys) around, they do certain things, like putting their arm around you..or come up and hug you, kiss you on the cheek or some form of physical contact.. When you're on your own with them, they barely even say 'hi'. It's all for show..

What matters most to them is to look like they're the best at everything. Like they have the best looking girlfriend, they have the best jobs, the best car, they're the smartest, fittest, best looking, best best best..always.. This is the main reason these men lie when they do..to make themselves look good in some way.

I wish there was a way to show them there’s more to life than this superficial existence they get stuck in.. It’s beyond me why people can’t just live and let live and be happy.. They care so much about their status, and they completely miss out on what’s truly important. I find it sad. But, if that's what makes them happy and it means so much to them, then what can say..Hopefully they won’t feel unloved and uncared for when it matters most, due to having no one who genuinely cares in their lives.