posted November 23, 2005 02:57 PM              

"X's NORTH NODE THROUGH Y's HOUSES bring challenges,
struggles, efforting to Y regarding the house in question.

X's SOUTH NODE THROUGH Y'S HOUSES tend to make things easy
in that house for Y, though it does help for Y to get rid of
the old and outworn, simplify in that area for best
long-term results."

www.astrologynow.com/carolwillis/Synastry.txt

As for your Asc in another's 12th House, you may feel as if your identity is muddled or becomes very merged with the other person, perhaps to the point of perfect transcendence, but also may be to the point where you feel you've lost your identity.

Anyone else have a good take on this?

posted November 30, 2005 12:09 PM              

Hope you get more responses. Heres more basic info :::

"Now, the twelfth house is a tricky house when it is activated in synastry. When someone's planet(s) fall in your twelfth house, you might feel somewhat unsettled, and you might find that your partner finds you somewhat elusive as well. Often, there is a distinct feeling of mistrust in these scenarios, especially on the part of the planet person. In our example, if your partner's Mercury falls in your twelfth house, a rather impersonal, matter-of-fact energy (Mercury) is meeting a personal, elusive, and indefinable part of you. It is a difficult combination, because your partner is trying to get you to define, in a straightforward and matter-of-fact way, things that you feel are better left unspoken. At the very least, twelfth house matters can certainly be expressed, but not comfortably in a Mercury-energy manner. Your responses may not leave Mercury satisfied. Your partner may be puzzled as to why you don't seem to be capable of giving straight answers. He or she may even decide that you are holding back, purposely eluding him or her, hiding something, etc. If you are involved in a deep relationship with the Mercury person, he or she may, on some level, find you vaguely untrustworthy. You might react by holding back even more, and the effect can be quite difficult. Why does your partner always seem to want you to spell things out?"

www.cafeastrology.com/articles/synastryplanetsinhouses.html

"Important note about the Nodes in synastry:
If person A's planet (especially a personal planet) conjuncts B's South Node, the connection is there, no doubt. Person A will feel extremely comfortable with person B, at first. However, person A will eventually feel that the relationship drains him/her of energy, and may feel the need to move on and release him/herself from the relationship, as the relationship pulls him/her into the past. We all face our North Node issues at some point in our lives (we often start the process in our 30's!). If another person is emphasizing our South Node without equal or greater aspects to our North Node, we may feel held back and "outgrow" that person!

Also note that there can be some uneasiness and hesitance when the Nodes, especially North Nodes, are strongly contacted by the planets and points of another person. The magnetism can be strong (and it isn't necessarily sexual, occurring in platonic friendships and relationships as well), but a certain amount of fear can be present (on the part of the Node person).

One way of looking at Nodal contacts in synastry: A person's planet conjunct your North Node is pulling you forward, toward lessons that you need in order for spiritual growth and happiness. But you may be somewhat reluctant to face these issues, depending on "where you're at" in the path. A person's planet conjunct your South Node is pulling you back into familiar territory. There is something "easy" about the relationship, and the lure can be strong, although you may eventually sense that you need something more, which can be viewed as "outgrowing" the relationship or even the person.

Saturn conjunct the Nodes can be a separative aspect. I am not as yet certain of exactly why this is the case, but I have seen it time and time again where Saturn conjunct the North or South Node in a composite chart or in synastry is present in romantic relationships that don't get off the ground properly."

www.cafeastrology.com/articles/relationshipastrologytips.html

posted November 30, 2005 09:45 PM              

My moon and venus and chiron are in taurus like his MC.

He once told me he loved cancers. I thought maybe my cancer ascendant and north node would be good in his 12th house. Plus I am on the gemini/cancer cusp. The 12th house sucks.

But I don't feel that way. I can always take emotions out of people.

His desendant is in aquarius. My 8th house is in aquarius.

Sex? LOL

His ascendant and north node are in leo. i have leo in my 2nd house.

Money? or is that the 6th house? I'm confused.

It's pretty intense.

posted December 01, 2005 10:28 AM              

As for "money" - it does seem that you have some interesting Aspects having to do with the 2nd, 4th & 8th. You brought up some interesting Aspects which I think are worth looking at.

I would look at the 2nd & 4th as more having to do with SECURITY. The 8th is more about money, but also other people's money, and possibly issues having to do with the LOSS of money. It doesn't insure money, but if you look at your respective Natals, you may be able to tell if the MOTIVE is money, and if the relationship somehow fulfills that motive.

The 6th is more about day-to-day tasks, as Natasha has said - your daily work routine as opposed to your "career", which is more 10th House.

The 10th House can be about money as well, but I feel it has more to do with RESPONSIBILITY in achieving wealth or social standing. The 10th House is related to Saturn & Capricorn. So for lighter souls, the 10th House might prove to be too much, and can also cause relationships to break from the "strain". The 10th will work for a relationship if both are willing to do the work and have the committment required.

Hope that helps, and feel free to let us know if you have more questions.