posted November 26, 2005 10:14 PM              

i am not really in a relationship (seeing an aries on and off, not even dating), but i dont even want to see him anymore right now. i feel like i could love to be alone and abandoned right about now. if no one bothered with me for a while it would be cool beans.

any other geminis feeling like this??? it is not depression or anything. in fact im enjoying every second of alone time. people are starting to I R R I T A T E me. same goes for my gem friends. a need for distance or something. in fact im having to remind myself often the last couple of days, of the kinds of expressions that are appropriate for the occasion (yesterday i went to someones house for dinner and had to remind myself of what to say when someone gets hurt, sick, etc. or when someone says, i got a promotion).

strange stuff, social isolation almost.

posted November 26, 2005 10:29 PM              

I find that I go thru these periods of intense connection w/ppl then I break away and spend tons of time alone. I have a Gem buddy that I've know for about 20 yrs and we spend long periods not talking and then ::boom:: we're yappin for ages!

Alot of my girlfriends of varying signs seem to be in these halfway/pseudo/sorta/kinda "relationships" or like me, they got nada going on. It's been a long time sense someone caught my fancy and there's a part of me that's pissy about that, but I have to say most of the time I'm ok.

I've been going thru a real metamorphosis in the past 2 mos. and discovering things about myself that please me. Whenever that relationship does come along, I'll be ready for it. He's gonna have to be one HELL of a dynamic individual though.

posted November 27, 2005 01:16 AM              

I always spend a lot time alone, and no more than usual. I've been pretty mellow as of late, actually. My brother's been irritating me lately, but that's just cause he's a Leo-Aries and he's like that most of the time.

posted November 27, 2005 06:49 AM              

I've been at a distance since the beginning of this year in terms of social contact and preferred my own company--not over having the company of others or anything--but just preferred my own company full stop. Couple of weeks to two or so months between each social event throughout this year, birthdays and recreational stuff equally. It's been less active than it has been previously but I figured it was me prioritising differently, being serious in a different way.

I seem to have bits of relationship issues (residue from last December actually) on my part as well, since this Arian of April 1st man (long time friend) got back with his ex. My intuition told me he wasn't over his ex when for some reason he spontaneously flew inter-state to meet up with me on my vacation after speaking to me on Christmas night, and that I was a likely rebound girl. I ended up being right. One of the times I hate being right. lol. I'm currently not in a relationship either and haven't for a while.

Been slightly irritated and perturbed by a guy who's a womanizer in one of my social circles and started to break into my other social group creating b****ing sessions! lol. Also, sometimes people who seriously interrupt my time while I'm really into what I'm doing, but that's like an 'anytime thing' anyway. lol. I haven't seen flames yet so I'm thinking this stuff is normal.

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I find that I go thru these periods of intense connection w/ppl then I break away and spend tons of time alone. I have a Gem buddy that I've know for about 20 yrs and we spend long periods not talking and then ::boom:: we're yappin for ages!

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Oh don't you just love that?! Plus you don't feel as bad for not keeping in touch (that is if you do feel bad) when it works out like this.

This year's Gem 'predictions' from Milton Black (the site does not have it up) does highlight a sense of more focus in personal security and possibly a less active social life as a result:

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Jupiter shifts into Scorpio from 27 October for the rest of the year. Don't be surprised if you slip into quiet mode for those last few months of the year and concentrate on your welfare and general family security.

... You will look for ways to achieve the stability you've always yearned for and will make the necessary investments. Your life will become quieter and more inactive during this later period, as you seek to put down roots in your current place of residence or new location.

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There's a bunch of other stuff but for Copyright reasons and that I don't intend to inform Milton Black of this reference from his book, I probably shouldn't type much else, but I can do so through email if someone wants it.

posted November 27, 2005 08:34 AM              

When I feel that way I take breaks and tell everyone to f*** off.

I just want to be left alone to think about things and regenerate myself again. I have been grumpy lately. Or maybe it's because the time of the month is here?

My sister has been iritating me alot lately questioning me about everything. I swear she will even ask me about a crumb on the table. She's a cappy sun, gem moon, Taurus rising.

I am up to the point where nothing will bring me down. I like making myself happy during these times so it's great

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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra

posted November 27, 2005 11:58 AM              

I love my own company more than anyone else's LOL. I love my friends and family to death, but like Greta Garbo, when I want to be alone dammit I mean it. LOL

posted November 27, 2005 12:34 PM              

I've noticed my little Gem-Scorpio calico cat has been super duper affectionate, and much less jealous of my Libra-Pisces Siamese kitten, so things have been good for her too.

I *am* having a problem with hang nails, which sounds trivial, but you know us Gems - we've very prone to injury and infection on our hands. My hang nails always get red, swolled, pussy and sore along the cutcile and the side of the nail. And since I'm a musician and artist, and use my hands a lot, this can make me very miserible.

posted November 28, 2005 12:13 PM              

.. just a note re your current ( close orb ) transits ..
tLillith ( bottom left in img. ) be aspecting a few placements ..
.. including your natal Moon ( by square) .. and tChiron be squaring
your natal 7th house Lillith ...
.. if t.Lil is aspecting your Moon .. then Lil could be aspecting your friends
placements as well .. given that there may be synastry connections/aspects
between your natal Moon and your friends chart placements ..

natals on right .. trannys below .. on 27th nov ..

posted November 30, 2005 02:18 PM              

2) Or how about a couple, one with strong Taurus influences (Nick Lachey Moon in Taurus), and one with strong Gemini influences (Jessica Simpson Moon in Gemini).

Can anyone relate to any of these two scenarios at this time?

posted November 30, 2005 02:24 PM              

I just looked at my fingers one day and said ew I want some pretty nails so now my nails are nice and pretty

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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra

posted November 30, 2005 11:02 PM              

As for other gems, my freind Dan really ticks me off at times and i do the exact same thing to him,lol. I'm not around as much since i moved so its forgiven, if not forgoten till we see each other again!.

He's a day older then me other then are moons we have the same planets.