posted December 16, 2005 10:00 PM
gemstar's Sun conjunct SM's Sun:This combination leads to a strong sense of recognition, a feeling of something deeply familiar. It is
one of the best ties for friendships and working relationships. However, for romantic relationships,
it is important not to take each other for granted--too much familiarity is a sure killer of magnetism.
gemstar's Venus conjunct SM's Venus:
Your values and tastes in life are in harmony and this makes it easy to enjoy each other's company.
From music, to food, to love's sweet embrace, you find many ways to enjoy your life together.
gemstar's Ascendant trine SM's Ascendant:
Your approaches to life are in harmony with each other, making it enjoyable and easy to spend
time together. You both feel supported in your outlook on life.
gemstar's Sun conjunct SM's Mercury:
Communication and a natural understanding of each other are favored. You "get" each other and
readily resolve the natural conflicts that arise in relationships. You stimulate each other's mental
activity and readily learn from each other.
SM's Sun conjunct gemstar's Mars:
This tie is extremely intense and often confrontational. It is passionate, without a doubt, and very
favorable in some arenas, but arguments and battles of wills can be passionate as well. If you can't
take the heat, get out of the kitchen, with this one. You can inflame each other, and without
restraint or healthy outlets, things could turn bad.
gemstar's Sun trine SM's Neptune:
There is a natural intuitive flow between the two of you that is quite comfortable. You can be
drawn to understand the subtle realms together through meditation and spiritual practices. You
empower each other's faith in listening to the "still quiet voice within."
gemstar's Sun opposition SM's North Node:
There can be something deeply familiar about each other when you first meet, as if you are picking
up where you left off. Although the familiarity leads to the likelihood of some type of relationship, if
you don't encourage new growth in each other, the relationship can wither from its own
redundancy.
SM's Sun square gemstar's Saturn:
SM feels the hammer of gemstar's disapproval always close at hand. gemstar gets irritated with
SM's lack of responsibility. Projections abound between the two of you, and the wise person sees
the very qualities you dislike in each other as projections of unclaimed parts of your own character.
It takes character strength to deal successfully with this one; otherwise SM can feel disapproved of
and gemstar feels unappreciated.
SM's Sun square gemstar's Uranus:
This tie creates a strong fascination, but is considered unstable. Your wills can clash over the
slightest of issues, as you both absolutely resist either of your attempts to take charge in the
relationship. The relationship requires a great deal of freedom to make room for this aspect.
SM's Sun square gemstar's Pluto:
Power struggles are likely to erupt unless both of you stay vigilant for any attempts by the other to
control the relationship in any way. SM can feel that gemstar is always pulling strings trying to get
something. gemstar can feel as if SM is always challenging gemstar's authority.
SM's Sun square gemstar's Chiron:
Your natural instincts for helping each other through wounding times can be off target. Try not to
judge each other's wounds and, instead, see what you can do to offer support, even if your ways
of dealing with wounds are radically different.
gemstar's Moon conjunct SM's Jupiter:
SM has a knack for uplifting gemstar's mood. gemstar, of course, enjoys this, so a positive, trusting
relationship develops. gemstar emotionally supports SM's growth needs and philosophical and
religious interests.
gemstar's Moon conjunct SM's Uranus:
This tie could be described as exciting and electric, but not comfortable. SM liberates gemstar
from the confines of past behavior patterns, but it is hard for gemstar to ever feel fully comfortable
and secure around unpredictable SM.
SM's Moon conjunct gemstar's Chiron:
A natural empathy and sensitivity exists between the two of you over wounds that you experienced
in the past. You support each other's emotional healing from these wounds and nurture each other's
compassion for others.
SM's Moon trine gemstar's Mercury:
Communication over personal issues is favored. You can always depend on each other for
understanding when needed, and this brings clarity into your lives.
SM's Moon trine gemstar's Jupiter:
gemstar has a knack for uplifting SM's mood. SM, of course, enjoys this, so a positive, trusting
relationship develops. SM emotionally supports the growth needs and the philosophical and
religious interests of gemstar.
SM's Moon trine gemstar's Neptune:
An empathic rapport between the two of you is likely. gemstar helps SM rise above petty issues,
and SM helps gemstar stay in touch with personal feelings.
SM's Moon trine gemstar's Ascendant:
You feel at ease and comfortable in each other's presence. This relaxed flow between the two of
you allows you to spend considerable time with each other.
gemstar's Moon sextile SM's Venus:
You can feel very natural and comfortable in each other's presence, making time spent together
enjoyable. You support and even take delight in each other's emotional responses to life. You can
become interested in the arts and socializing together.
SM's Moon opposition gemstar's Uranus:
SM tends to feel threatened by gemstar's independence and need for freedom, while gemstar feels
encumbered by SM's emotional needs.
SM's Moon opposition gemstar's Pluto:
SM can feel threatened, unsafe, and powerless to withstand gemstar's will. A healthy relationship
can develop only if gemstar can remain conscious of the potential misuse of this power of
intimidation. Otherwise, the potential for unhealthy psychological patterns to develop between the
two of you is strong.
gemstar's Moon opposition SM's Chiron:
SM's attempts to help gemstar get through difficult times are not well received. Past wounds make
it difficult to establish emotionally close ties, until you both stretch your ability to be compassionate
for each other's issues.
gemstar's Moon square SM's Neptune:
It is not likely that you see each other clearly. You can imagine qualities in each other that don't
exist, or pull each other into escapist behavior, or feed each other's fears. Absolute honesty,
including avoiding "dishonesty by omission," is required for a healthy relationship.
SM's Moon square gemstar's Mars:
This aspect often leads to a stormy emotional tie. SM is always on edge and feels threatened by
gemstar's energy. SM's emotional responses irritate gemstar. Without restraint, this can be a
wounding combination.
gemstar's Mercury conjunct SM's Jupiter:
This aspect is very favorable for communication and mutual interests in continued learning. SM's
philosophical outlook on life is expansive and uplifting to gemstar. gemstar engages SM's
philosophical beliefs and helps plan movement toward goals.
gemstar's Mercury conjunct SM's Uranus:
This is a very exciting connection for communication and learning together. SM's energy liberates
gemstar's way of thinking, though it does make it difficult to stay on the topic at hand. While in
conversations with each other, ideas just come flying in about all types of issues, not just what you
are currently discussing. Some of the ideas that you come up with together are likely to be out of
synch with your culture, so it's best to think things through before you act on some of your radical
ideas.
gemstar's Mercury trine SM's Saturn:
You are able to handle responsibilities well together. You not only make plans well, you are able to
follow through on them with patience and commitment. When difficulties in your relationship do
arise, this combination facilitates an ability to work through the issues patiently.
gemstar's Mercury square SM's Neptune:
Your communication with each other can become clouded by confusion, mostly over what was not
said. Fact and fantasy blur. It may not be clear what was said and not said, what is true or not true;
these types of issues cause the confusion. Absolute honesty is required to avoid these pitfalls.
SM's Mercury square gemstar's Saturn:
This aspect creates a challenge in maintaining easy, flowing communication with each other,
because SM feels intimidated by gemstar's judgments. This fear of disapproval restricts the natural
flow of conversation. There is a tendency to bring out each other's pessimistic and negative
attitudes. This can be compensated for, but there would have to be a rule: No criticizing each
other. Otherwise, this combination is a tough one.
SM's Mercury square gemstar's Chiron:
You likely have different opinions and views concerning health issues. It is not easy to accept each
other's help, because your views about what would be helpful differ. Try not to convince each
other of the right way toward health and healing, and instead, acknowledge and allow for the
differences to help avoid difficulties.
SM's Venus conjunct gemstar's North Node:
Your values and tastes are in harmony with one another, and you are naturally attracted to activities
that lead to mutual soul growth.
gemstar's Venus sextile SM's Uranus:
Your relationship will never be in danger of stagnating because you constantly find innovative ways
to explore life together. You are attracted to each other's uniqueness and allow each other
considerable freedom in the relationship.
SM's Venus sextile gemstar's Saturn:
This aspect adds stability to your relationship because you have the patience and commitment it
takes to work through the rough spots. You complement each other's lives, as SM brings out
gemstar's personal side, and gemstar helps SM keeps it together in the world.
SM's Venus sextile gemstar's Chiron:
SM's values, appreciation for beauty, and capacity to receive love are fertile ground for healing for
gemstar. The activities that you enjoy together naturally lead to soul growth for both of you. You
can be drawn to the arts and creative expression as a method for healing.
gemstar's Venus opposition SM's Saturn:
This aspect dampens the natural attraction and magnetism of the relationship. It is hard to avoid
judging one another. gemstar sees SM as no fun, too harsh, and demanding, while SM judges
gemstar's values as superficial, indulgent, and undisciplined.
gemstar's Venus square SM's Pluto:
Karmic patterns of manipulating each other in love, either through guilt or intimidation, must be
dealt with in your relationship. Strong passion can exist between the two of you, but intimacy will
elude you until you are both able to let go of control and surrender to the relationship.
SM's Mars conjunct gemstar's Jupiter:
Your relationship is fueled with tremendous drive, passion for life, and competitive energy. gemstar
expands the awareness of the field of opportunities for SM. SM gives courage to gemstar for
acting on goals and ideals. Your relationship requires action, or the heated-up and expanded
energy can become volatile.
SM's Mars trine gemstar's Ascendant:
Your energies flow well together, making it easy to work or play together. You rarely trigger each
other's defenses, allowing you feel safe with each other. Knowing you can count on each other's
support in any conflict gives you courage.
gemstar's Mars square SM's Ascendant:
Conflicts erupt when SM feels picked on or badgered by gemstar Conversely, gemstar becomes
irritated by SM's approach to situations.
gemstar's Jupiter trine SM's Saturn:
You work well together on career and professional matters, as well as all issues of handling
responsibility together. You are especially effective at planning together and follow a step-by-step
approach to getting to your shared goals.
gemstar's Jupiter trine SM's Ascendant:
This aspect is favorable for most relationships as the two of you share common philosophical,
political, and religious beliefs, as well as cultural interests. It simply feels uplifting to be in each
other's company.
SM's Jupiter trine gemstar's Chiron:
You learn from your relationship how important a person's philosophy and beliefs are in terms of
the creating and healing of wounds. Through this firsthand experience, you may be drawn to
teaching others how to liberate their relationships by changing their beliefs.
SM's Saturn conjunct gemstar's Neptune:
The best of this combination is when SM grounds gemstar's imagination and helps find ways of
manifesting this in the world. It is also favorable when gemstar inspires SM to open to a reality
beyond worldly responsibilities. The low road is when SM doubts and disapproves of gemstar's
imagination, or when gemstar erodes SM's strength to carry out responsibilities through guilt or fear.
SM's Saturn conjunct gemstar's Ascendant:
SM is a natural authority for gemstar; thus, this is a favorable tie for parent-child,
employer-employee, and teacher-student relationships, when SM is the authority. There is a strong
commitment and sense of loyalty that comes with this tie, but gemstar can feel oppressed by SM
unless this authority is handled wisely and the hammer of disapproval is used sparingly.
gemstar's Saturn trine SM's Uranus:
This combination is favorable for working together to fulfill responsibilities of any kind. SM
encourages gemstar to be innovative in career considerations, while gemstar helps ground SM's
ideas.
SM's Saturn sextile gemstar's Pluto:
You give each other strength and support for tackling large projects, and the two of you together
are very effective when dealing with administrative authority. You can count on each other during
crunch time, when your back is against the wall.
gemstar's Saturn square SM's North Node:
You have a difficult time supporting each other's chosen path for soul growth. Until you develop
respect for the differences in your paths toward soul growth, you tend to pull each other down
more than build each other up.
SM's Uranus trine gemstar's Neptune:
There is a creative flow between SM's intuition and gemstar's ability to image. This sets up a
favorable flow of spiritual guidance that comes to the two of you spontaneously through
coincidences and sudden knowing.
SM's Uranus trine gemstar's Chiron:
You support and advance each other's path of healing. You can count on the original insights that
you get from each other during deep discussion about your process. You encourage each other's
ability to listen to inner guidance in matters of health and healing.
SM's Uranus sextile gemstar's North Node:
This aspect is favorable for keeping each other excited about a path of evolving and discovering
life. You come away from discussions feeling excited about the fresh insights you give each other.
gemstar's Uranus opposition SM's Ascendant:
This destabilizing aspect will keep your relationship from becoming stagnant, if nothing else. SM
feels uncomfortable with, and even threatened by, the way gemstar expresses individuality and
independence. gemstar constantly hammers at SM's conventionality.
gemstar's Neptune square SM's Pluto:
You are prone to promote each other's worst-case fears. You lead each other into the confusion of
the shadow world where it is difficult to distinguish between what is real and not real. The test is the
right use of your imagination, and the consequences are severe, as is always the case with Pluto
challenges. Can you anticipate the absolutely disastrous results that come when you feed each
other's fears, and instead train your imaginations not to go down that hellhole of fear? It usually
takes meditation training and spiritual practices to get a handle on this subtle, but insidiously
powerful, aspect.
gemstar's Pluto opposition SM's Ascendant:
SM can feel intimidated by gemstar because of something that neither of you is conscious of. This
makes it difficult to have a relationship until trust is established. You see each other's idiosyncrasies
and subconscious behavior patterns. It takes great sensitivity of delivery to discuss such issues
without arousing your partner's defenses.
SM's Pluto square gemstar's North Node:
A karmic pattern of mistrust must be faced to avoid the undermining influence of this aspect. If
issues of mistrust exist, put them on the table and clear the issues before proceeding. Overcome the
tendency to let these issues putrefy beneath the surface, which can breed all types of ill feelings.
SM's North Node square gemstar's Chiron:
SM's path toward healing is at odds with gemstar's path of soul growth. You are being tested with
the ability to accept that what is growth-oriented for you is not a healthy path for your partner.