posted December 14, 2005 07:45 PM            

For me it wouold be:
1) Independence: I like to give them space and totally value my freedom. I hate being smothered, I just don't like the feeling of being suffocated. Sometimes, though, I think I'm a bit too flighty, leaving the relationship as quickly as I got into it (VII House Aries).
2) Silliness: I get really childish and open when I'm with a significant other. I don't feel the need to have to act a certain way like I do in public. In private, they meet the silly, outrageous, crazy side of me, the person I truly am.
3) Gift-giving: If you ask for it, I'll get it for you.. if it's not TOO much of an inconvenience. Most of the time, I leave some food or a note to let them know that even though I'm gone 97% of the time that I'm still thinking about them..

I'm very insecure about my relationship with this Virgo.. this is our second time around and the same doubts the sort of haunted me for three months before breaking up with him have come back again. I'm not sure if it's just the insides wanting to escape, be alone, and travel across the universe (meaning that I just need to learn how to settle down..) or that maybe this relationship is just..not meant to be. I really don't like the idea of having to change my ways in order to make this relationship work. Am I being selfish? arrogant? stubborn??

Shouldn't I look for a relationship that fits my needs, rather than me changing to fits a relationships needs?? (I know that makes no sense..lol...I mean- I'm talking about this relationship like it's a living, breathing monster)

The thing is... I love my boyfriend. I just... don't like this whole "girlfriend" thing.. the expectations I have of myself.. you know?? I guess what I'm trying to say is that I think a girlfriend is someone who can stay put for two days, hang out, not feel like running of on another adventure, but I know for sure that I'm not that type..

Oh *sigh*.. I feel my inner Libra taking me over...

ME
Cancer Sun
Scorpio Moon
Gemini Mercury
Gemini Venus
Pisces Mars
Libra Asc

posted December 14, 2005 11:15 PM              

I would pretty much say that I'm
1.) Independant
2.) Silly
3.) Girly, I love feeling protected and sometimes I'll play up the whole helpless thing just to feel that wonderful feeling of a guy offering his protection. it makes me feel so warm inside Its weird too because i'm so independant and so strong but I can also be so girly (Libra sun )

I dated a Taurus who lied to me a lot, he never counted on falling in love with me, I guess. Then he became afraid to tell me he lied to me, so the web just kept spinning until one day I found out for myself and I was devastated. We broke up but we recently tried again and we just fight and fight and fight. Sometimes I feel like I need him to get the stability I crave but then sometimes I just want to break free and run off and try other things and travel and go to college far far away and have all these new exciting experiences. But then soemthing bad happens and I always run back to him for comfort. I hate the cycle, and i'm trying so hard to break it.

Good luck in figuring things out with your boyfriend.

posted December 15, 2005 05:34 PM            

i can't even remember why we went out in the first place...