posted December 14, 2005 07:57 PM              

---

WHAT DOES IN MEAN IN A SYNASTYR WHEN YOU AND YOUR PARTNER HAVE VENUS CONJUNCT CHIRON IN A DOUBLE WAMMY

IP: Logged

posted December 14, 2005 07:58 PM              

---

mine is venus tauraus chiron gemini
his is venus gemini chiron taurus

IP: Logged

Posts: 1120
From: nevada
Registered: Apr 2009

posted December 14, 2005 08:43 PM            

---

hi,

If I could only figure out who rules Chiron and what element it is in.

I struggle with this planet, I just can't completely get the feel for it. (if you know what I mean)

But Venus/Chiron inneraspects especially having two, probably means teaching or learning through love. Lessons or sacrifices in the name of love or you can teach each other the value of each others or your own love.

this is frustrating, I don't even know what house Chiron should be in

I have the square in my natal and I have always been pretty self-sacrificing with love relationships. I had a hard time committing so I just let go. That, and I have something I value more than one-on-ones. Nevermind, if you do that God will send Pluto over to sit your ASC. then you're in trouble

IP: Logged

posted December 14, 2005 10:20 PM              

---

Why are you yelling?

From http://www.astrologynow.com/carolwillis/Synastry.txt

CHIRON aspects bring attraction and fascination, also bizarre reversals, and this can go both ways or applied to both parties. In the circumstances of ordinary life, Chiron aspects are a mutual monkey wrench in the works and often backfire. The Chiron dance is a fascinating, if treacherous one, sort of like watching a slow train wreck - you can see it about to happen, but can't stop it, and can't take your eyes off of it. There can be an obsessive, hypnotized quality to Chiron connections. There's always potential for
healing with Chiron, and where effective healing is rejected, things tend to go south and become chaotic, with new wounds inflicted. There is often disagreement about what effective healing would consist in, and how to best achieve it, and therein lies the rub. Chiron aspects eventually go toward both parties in a more involved
relationship feeling very wounded and regretting ever getting involved with the other, whereas just the fascination aspect remains in a more detached yet humanly caring relationship.

I personally can relate to what Carol Willis here says about Chiron aspects. In my last relationship we had double whammy Moon-Chiron conjunctions, and that relationship certainly fit that pattern.

IP: Logged

posted December 15, 2005 09:12 AM              

---

Sounds like a healing relationship, to me.

------------------
You are a blessing and you are blessed.
Rev. Alice
www.lifeprints-for-living.com

IP: Logged

Posts: 1120
From: nevada
Registered: Apr 2009

posted December 15, 2005 12:04 PM            

---

thats right GN you just triggered an old recollection and that is with Chiron you can lose something that turns out for the best or a blessing in disguise.

IP: Logged

posted December 17, 2005 12:11 PM              

---

Healing ...

------------------
... it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness

IP: Logged

posted December 19, 2005 02:04 PM              

---

My Chiron closely conjuncts Doc's Venus, Eros and Chiron. His Chiron squares my Venus.

I am certain we could teach each other a thing or two about emotional and other healing, but I am not certain it will get taken care of in this life time.

I find having contact with others Chirons expecially in the context of Venus raises all sorts of issues. Both partners have to be willing to go there, and Chiron is as much about pain and wounds as it is about healing and repair.

IP: Logged

posted December 20, 2005 12:20 PM              

---

That's true. Some Aspects are going to be more painful, but then there are really good Aspects and dynamics which make the healing just a natural by-product of the relationship. You "go there" because you just feel so comfortable, and there is trust, sometimes.

------------------
... it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness

IP: Logged

posted December 20, 2005 12:38 PM              

---

Exactly. And sometimes you can't just "go there" if you have the aspect with your dry cleaner,a married man or your father-in-law. LOL ...even if you immediately sense and soak up the aspect and what it seems to be indicating, pushing or offering.

It is sbout trust and it's also being in the right place, context and time. Are you friends, accquaintance, lovers? The aspect --especially Chiron or Eros aspects---may radically change or challenge the current bond if it is to be played out. That is where trust may have to take a back seat to context... Or as I heard an astrologer once say you can have serious karmic aspects to a chicken crossing the road, your boss or the divorcee next door-- it doesn't mean anything would or necessarily should come of it.

IP: Logged

Posts: 4
From: Framingham, MA USA
Registered: Jan 2010

posted December 20, 2005 01:38 PM            

---

Gemini Nymph,

"Why are you yelling?"

you're too friggin funny!

IP: Logged

posted December 20, 2005 08:55 PM              

---

I just want to thank you all for you gracious replies!!!!

And btw I appaulogize for shouting above I was rushing when I created this post

IP: Logged