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mars446
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posted December 17, 2005 08:15 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah, how do u deal with libra men, especially when they're extremely mad and said some pretty spiteful stuff to you?

Also, how do u know if they fell for u or they're just playing around for the fun of it (b/c they're attractive and grls r hitting on them non-stop to the point of embarrassment)?

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Lauren
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posted December 17, 2005 09:30 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcome

Are you an Aries..mars? I am..and my bf's a Libra.
I know you might get a few replies that say Libras are players lol.. but I think they're pretty faithful. They like the idea of having a relationship WITH one person, not ten dozen.. the point is finding the one person.. so yes before they find the right girl, they might date a few people.. but when they do they're very faithful.

I guess you *know*, if he tells you, if he's there, if he says he loves you, if he really wants a relationship. Before he actually says it and you both make it clear that you are in a relationship, I don't really think there's a way to know whether or not hes just playing around.

Libras don't have an issue with saying it though, if they feel it..so if he does love you he'll let you know..if he does want a relationship he'll make that clear. If he doesn't makes this clear.. then maybe he just doesn't feel that strongly (yet anyways)

And the girls, I mean, they usually have ten dozen female friends. They prefer the company of women to men, mainly because they are a Venus sign. Men are too rough and tough and annoying to them. And, yes a lot of these girl have crushes on them to, but oh well. I don't think that should be such a big deal. I wouldn't personally mind at all, as long as I know he's with me and I can trust him to be there. In my opinion, you can definitely trust a Libra guy, once he's made a commitment.

Btw I'm talking about the typical example, I guess.. You could post his chart if you want. If he has ten dozen planets in Sag for instance, he may never settle down.. so this isn't set in stone.

Your first question..

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how do u deal with libra men, especially when they're extremely mad and said some pretty spiteful stuff to you?

I've only been in this situation once with my bf, but that was because I started yelling at him like a maniac over something completely unimportant. Libras are pretty calm. I mean, even then, I yelled and I yelled..and he was calm..but how much can a person take? so eventually he snapped. I don't think anyone can make a Libra guy angrier than an Aries girl.. lol seriously..and Im pretty calm for an Aries, but that particular time I was strangely angry.. I've never seen him that mad ever.. it was kinda strange.

If he usually does this kind of thing, it might be something else in his chart. It's probably best to brake up with him, if he constantly gets mad, yells etc.. he might have anger management issues. But if it was a one time incident, and he apologised.. I'm sure you can work things out.

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geminstone
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posted December 18, 2005 03:01 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
.... very carefully... at least, with mine!

... " Libras are pretty calm." - Agreed. My husband is not one to argue or, rock any boats.... with one exception... he gets very irritated by yelling of others. It seems, thus far, his ' had it ' point....

" I don't think anyone can make a Libra guy angrier than an Aries girl.. lol seriously.. "

...hehehe.... I would almost be willing to bet.... but, in my Libra's case, he married me ( a Gemini ), and in my own world, I don't yell.... not always... I am, simply, very passionate when I communicate my feelings...
Even in as much as this behavior aggrovates him though, he keeps me around.
As far as knowing if they "fell" or not, I am of the opinion that, Libra or not, the best way to get close to any true answer... go to the source of the question.... it's only as hard as one makes it really...

~ geminstone

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salome
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posted December 18, 2005 03:49 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
addendum to the original question....

quote:
Yeah, how do u deal with libra men, especially when they're extremely mad and said some pretty spiteful stuff to you?

how do you forgive a libra man whose
hatred knows no boundaries and still
wants to utterly destroy your life 10
years after the relationship is over?

who remains enraged because he couldn't
accept your desire to break up with
him and still resents, with pathological
fury, all your subsequent relationships?

how do you break free of the clutches
of such libran obsession?

i'm almost all fire and earth, and these
airy grudges escape me.

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freebird
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posted December 18, 2005 08:49 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lauren : Completely agree...agree...agree....That was wonderful...I am all surrounded by Libra guy and I can see that now.

Well I also know my Libra boss paid for prostitute just to keep him a company and not for SEX.Office gossip...too bad.

As Lauren said it's just because they are happy to talk to women more than men. I didn't knew but just realized yesterday while talking to Libra Sun colleague.

One more thing how bad is venus in Sag or Venus in Lira which one is more flirting type or wouldn't settle on something.

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miss_apples
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posted December 18, 2005 10:56 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mars...I feel ya girl. I like a libra too but i shouldnt say much because he found a few posts I wrote about him on here by typing my screen name in google (I use miss apples for everything) so yeah...shows you how a libra man can be.

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mars446
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posted February 18, 2006 12:23 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry I didn't reply, I lost the address of the website, and by the time i figured it out.....I forgot where my post was (embarrassed) and made a couple more posts until i found this one.........so yeah, um, no I'm not an aries, but i'm a virgo w/ aries rising, he's libra w/ capricorn rising

I might seem a very quiet person if u don't know me.........but i have a pretty strong personality (stubborn, fiesty at times...etc.)

Ouch......he saw ur posts. I don't know, but from experience w/ my friend.......he absolutely hated someone talking about him to anyone else. I've put the info about him and I in another post called are we compatible feb 17 2006.

Basically i'd like to know what both of our temperaments r, and u'll know why from that post, and see if it's worth a shot to try to reconcil (after backbiting behind his back 3 times)

It's this thing where I don't like to be emotionally out of control.......and if i can't do anything about it.....i'd rather cut off and do things that hurt the other person than to show that i have feelings(is it the saturn in scorpio thing?), which i'm sure he knows by now, cuz i complimented him a lot and a couple of times i've told him that i liked him, but stopped ever since.

Maybe i'm reading too much into this.....but if someone tells u that they've respected u more than anyone else (but u didn't know until the damage was done), would that mean that they have feelings for u....or just a friendship thing?

if u need anymore clarifications......just say so.

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paras
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posted February 18, 2006 12:48 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Speaking as a Libra man...

The best way to deal with a Libra who's angry and spiteful, is to calmly point out to him that he is being rude and spiteful. Also, if you can, point out to him how anything he said was unfair. Libra hates emotional upset and unfairness, even -- perhaps especially -- his own. If you can behave better than he does while he's throwing his tantrum, it won't last long. Don't feed his anger by throwing your own back at him -- because then it's only fair that he yell, too. Get it?

I think Lauren's right about "you will *know*, if he tells you...". The easiest lie for Libra to tell is a lie of omission. In other words, if someone presses a Libra to do something he doesn't want to do (like make a committment), his easiest way out is to say nothing (or as little as possible). So if he clams up and gets tight-lipped, he's not ready. He either doesn't want the relationship, and knows this -- or he still hasn't made up his mind. But when a Libra decides he wants to be with someone, it's impossible for him to hide. In your case, his Capricorn ascendant might make him a little quieter, shyer, and less verbal than the average Libra, but I'd say his Libra Sun will still be able to send out clear signals of one form or another.

And salome, just for the record -- obsession isn't a Libran issue, I think it's a that-particular-person issue. Even less Libran is the kind of hatred you describe -- holding onto grudges is too much painful weight for your typical Libra to carry around.

freebird, the thing about your boss paying for just company: I could imagine myself doing something like that -- maybe just because I felt bad for the woman and wanted to give her some money. Got a story of my own for ya: I once baked a cake for someone else's hooker. What can I say? It was her birthday -- and when isn't it a good time for cake???

* Heading off to find something sugary now...

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posted February 18, 2006 12:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for shop22much     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"How do you deal with libra men?"

ha, i dont...i run (not walk) the other way....

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mars446
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posted February 18, 2006 01:01 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
paras (or anyone for that matter):
ok, since his capricorn asc and moon would make him quieter than usual......what r the signs that r given out that would show that he likes a person or not?

shop22.......y would u run away? is it that bad?

http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?rs=&adl=19&ast=433%2C+16&gm=a1&btyp=2&sday=18&syr=2006&asp=1&zod=&lang=e&orbp=&mth=gw&cid=22mfileR86ycy-u1119432459&hsy=&smon=2&nhor=2&go.x=]
That's my chart


and this is his: http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?nhor=4&nho2=1&btyp=2&mth=gw&hsy=&zod=&add=19&asp=1&sday=18&smon=2&syr=2006&rs=&orbp=&cid=22mfileR86ycy-u1119432459&lang=e&gm=a1&ast=433%2C+1]

This is the composite: http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?nhor=4&nho2=2&btyp=621&mth=gw&hsy=&zod=&add=19&asp=1&sday=18&smon=2&syr=2006&rs=&orbp=&cid=22mfileR86ycy-u1119432459&lang=e&gm=a1&ast=433%2C]


Here's the info again.....just in case u get lost in the pool of posts (like I did)

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freebird
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posted February 18, 2006 01:05 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
freebird, the thing about your boss paying for just company: I could imagine myself doing something like that -- maybe just because I felt bad for the woman and wanted to give her some money. Got a story of my own for ya: I once baked a cake for someone else's hooker. What can I say? It was her birthday -- and when isn't it a good time for cake???

YUMMY !!!

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ha, i dont...i run (not walk) the other way....

I hope I could run...The problem is he is my boss. I thought he was a Taurean before I joined my work and later found libra. He gets on my nerves but I still can't shout at him. In fact I remain much calmer than him and he would be fine after some time.

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Happy Dragon
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posted February 19, 2006 12:41 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
mars446
**how do u deal with libra men** .. the operative word may be 'deal'
.. ask yourself how you deal with this particular person .. as in 'his chart'
your guy has the following 'aspects' in his chart ...
in the main .. the following are potentialy of a challenging nature ..

*Sun square Moon*

*Mars conjunct Venus*

*Jupiter square Venus and Mars*

** Uranus conjunct Jupiter / square Venus / square Mars **

Neptune trine Venus / conjunct Ascendant ( able to 'project' beauty .. no doubt .. if the Asc be the 'front door' .. what realy lies behind it ? )

***Pluto conjunct Saturn / conjunct MC / square Moon / conjunct Sun ***

** Chiron trine Mercury / square Venus / square Mars / opposite Jupiter / opposite Uranus **

and i wonder .. after reading that lot .. where natal Lillith be placed ??
especialy in the synastry / composite ...
the sign Libra is primarily about 'relationships' ... ( not just the bf .. g/f type .. )
with Pluto conjoining the Sun .. your likely to get one that's quite 'intense' .. potentialy 'obsessive' and 'controlling' ..
.. the Uranus aspects are potentialy volatile as Jupiter will 'expand' the effect of the square aspects ..
(to Venus and Mars) .... ..
.. he might want 'beautiful relationships' .. but with those aspects ... it's going to be a long road ..
.. an easy going 'everything is beautiful ' type person he aint ..
.. the outward appearance may be beauty via the ascendant ... but ..
.. many internal conflicts and 'relating' challenges ....

i would take a closer look at his chart ..*** go see an astrologer who can explain the lot to you ..***
... know what your getting into ... he certainly doesn't have an easy chart to deal with ...
librans need relationships .. to some even a bad relationship is better than none ...
you may even get the 'game playing' and 'total two face' from a negative one ...
.. quite capable of being nice in front of your face .. and nasty behind it ..
( sometimes within earshot of yourself .. bit of manipulative game playing as well )
.. you might even get to hear the word 'deal' when it comes to relating with them ....
and don't forget .. libra is the 'cardinal' air sign .. as in they are natural 'initiators' ..
.. and that their opposite sign is Aries .. you will see the arien side now and again ......
you want an idea of a postive Libran .. look to respected diplomats and military leaders ..
your bound to find librans amongst them ...
like all the Sun signs .. .. .. you get positive ones and negative ones .. .. .. ...
so in reality your guy could have any Sun sign .. and still be difficult in character ..

how to deal with your guy ? ... very difficult i would have thought ...
maybe find an easier going character ... libran or otherwise ....

some astro intro info .. here .. http://www.happydragon.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/A.F.L.G.html
.. a good site for 'aspect' info .. http://www.cafeastrology.com ..
chiron in astrology ... info .. as he has 'chiron aspects' in his chart ..
* http://www.astro.com/astrology/in_chiron_e.htm *
* http://www.astro.com/astrology/in_wounding_e.htm *
at the astro.com site .. investigate the 'clik to view' option .. that will explain the various aspects
and placements ... ... ..

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astro junkie
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posted February 19, 2006 01:23 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
... Libra guys are like Lay's Potato Chips ...

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Happy Dragon
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posted February 19, 2006 02:22 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
**Libra guys are like Lay's Potato Chips .**
what are the gals like then ?? .. Crinkle Cuts on a paisely print Shag Pile ?
( sorry .. i've don't think i've dated any libran lass's .. so a metaphor escapes me :-)
how does one swallow 'air' .. gulp .. ( just a thought ) .. how about an xyz flavoured milkshake ..
can suck that thru a straw .. just like air ..

**mars446**
regarding Chiron in a persons chart .. the following be from one of those links ..
the list gives you the main themes behind those two placements .. the Sun .. and Chiron ..
and how they may .. or may not .. work within a chart ...

* * * * * * * * * *
The Sun:

Individual destiny
Sense of meaning
Hope for the future
Self-confidence
Generosity
Individual identity apart from family and collective
The power to create
The ability to play

* * * * * * * * * *
Chiron:

Collective failings and flaws
Disillusionment
Failed ideals
Inescapable wounding
Bitterness and cynicism
Physical and psychological damage

Acceptance of mortal limits

Quest for understanding
Compassion

* * * * * * * * * *
The Sun working against Chiron:

Depression
Loss of confidence
Sense of permanent damage
Cynicism
Expectation of failure
Sense of victimisation or scapegoating
Desire to victimise or scapegoat others
Projection of inferiority on others
Loss of the will to live

* * * * * * * * * *
The Sun working with Chiron:

Wisdom
Patience in the face of that which cannot be changed
Toughness and grit
Understanding of deeper patterns
Melancholy which leads to depth of thought and feeling
Determination to make a contribution to the welfare of others
Compassion
Feelings of specialness tempered by an acceptance of human limits
Activation of the will to live

* * * * * * * * * *

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mars446
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posted February 19, 2006 05:58 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks a lot. Luckily I've reconciled recently w/ him, but I'm gonna keep it low-keyed.

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sthenri
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posted February 19, 2006 07:26 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes Happy Dragon was so right. It's about deals, if one gets mad, all you have to do is say, let's make a deal okay??? and they get cool.

As long as you can stick to your end, I find that hard to do sometimes.

Boy do i ever get Libras mad
Sag Mars/1st house.

Natasha

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bullhead
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posted February 21, 2006 08:31 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
libra men soo sweet and charming accomodating, but not good with rejection. speaking of my very limited experiences with actually having a relationship with libra, (they tend to be my flings and just having a short crush on me)

one time, i said there are no chance between u and me with this libra guy, he acted very defensively saying things to attack me then tellin me no one will love me the way he does! woo, i didnt even went to bed with him, i swear, dat nite i thought, dat was it, he would kill me rite there rite then. lol, then he went back home, i never heard from him again. 2 bad, if he didnt flipped liked dat, i might call him once in a while for pleasure

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