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space
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posted December 18, 2005 05:35 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
how does one understand a taurus?what does it mean when they dont comunicate back?their silence etc?
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Gemini Nymph
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posted December 18, 2005 09:22 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Silence from a Taurus mainly means one of two things:

- they're mad at you or are uncomfortable with you, so they *don't want* to talk to you

- they're not sure how to answer you or talk to you, so they just *don't know how* to talk to you


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Happy Dragon
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posted December 18, 2005 09:40 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
***what does it mean when they dont comunicate back?their silence***
1 .. they have a mouth full of food ..
2 .. they simply don't feel like it ..
3 .. the other person been asking tooooo many questions .. probing toooo deep ..
wanting to know why this and why that .. .. they generaly don't like other folk probing into their private business
4 .. they get the feeling that they are being 'pushed' in some way
5 .. they need time to think about 'whatever '
6 .. there sick and tired of the constant yakking (excessive meaningless talk) from the other person
7 .. they have been subject to a case of 'hysterics' and over dramatic behaviour from the other person
8 .. they have written the other person off as a waste of time
9 .. there busy and don't want interuptions to answer or listen to trivialities
10 .. 11 .. 12 .. 13 .. and maybe .. 14 .. **they dont comunicate back** often means the next phase is a volcanic reaction the other person hasn't bargained for ...

*** etc?*** .. so what's the etc ..? .. folded arms and twitching nostrils ??

maybe the answer lies in your chart .. and some elaboration of the situation might help ..
i.e. your chart .. their chart .. male? female? .. what ages? .. what's your motivation towards said taurus? .. are they a romantic attraction ?? .. business partner ??

generaly taurus doesn't need words to communicate ..
but silence on purpose often indicates anger ..
.. if it's not anger .. then it may be a case of needing time to think and answer ..
.. pushing for an answer .. not a good idea ..

.. then again if You were to elaborate somewhat ..
.. as in .. maybe there is another reason for the silence ..

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LuLu
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posted December 18, 2005 09:44 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
For me...it usually means I don't trust you with my thoughts and feelings and that prevents me from replying/opening up. I take in everything about a person, even the little things, when I am around them. I watch their actions, their expressions, their words, the sound of their voice...and if I don't trust what I see and hear, I don't trust that person.

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posted December 18, 2005 12:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Alterna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Regarding silence..

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Silence from a Taurus mainly means one of two things:

- they're mad at you or are uncomfortable with you, so they *don't want* to talk to you

- they're not sure how to answer you or talk to you, so they just *don't know how* to talk to you


This is true.


And this...

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For me...it usually means I don't trust you with my thoughts and feelings and that prevents me from replying/opening up. I take in everything about a person, even the little things, when I am around them. I watch their actions, their expressions, their words, the sound of their voice...and if I don't trust what I see and hear, I don't trust that person.

Is very true too.

We're very sensual people; every little sense is crucial and if something is just a little bit off, we may avoid you. And to include one thing, even if the appearance of someone isn't to our liking, we may be hesistant to speak to you. We're ruled by Venus so naturally we're shallow.. [though this may just be my Libra rising speaking too] so if you don't appeal to us by just your general look too... we may avoid you [talking] at all costs.

But if we don't communicate back and you're already a friend of ours... Gemini Nymph stated it perfectly.

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sthenri
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posted December 18, 2005 01:25 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Taurus does not like profanity or dramatics, so that could be the issue. If you had words then make up the same way. Try to find the root of the problem and deal with it in a mature way.

In any case Taurus reacts badly to any kind of perceived verbal abuse or emotional pressure and will painfully detach from anyone abusive.

Natasha
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nannyfish
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posted December 19, 2005 04:31 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Could *paranoia* be a part of this infamous Taurus trait. I swear my Taurus sees plans within plans no matter what I say or do? *Confused*

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posted December 19, 2005 08:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
what does it mean when they dont comunicate back?

It may mean they don't want to communicate.

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sthenri
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posted December 19, 2005 09:09 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Taurus has problems with paranoia and motivation, throw away all his sad songs and give him motivational talks and music. The paranoia has to do with other people and what they think, it means he doesn't believe and have faith in you. Whatever you arI5{em loyal, are you talking badly about others?

Taurus wants loyalty above all, even if you are destructive, he will take you first if you are loyal to a fault to the people around you. Always make open ended plans, be confident, drive your train, let him lean on you, do not depend on him for your plans, and be independent in thought.

If you say you are going somewhere, the first thing I would think is who with? So you may want to say something like I am going to the store, want anything? or come along? You never can guess what a Taurus is going to do as we don't like to be second guessed ourselves.

Taurus can be very unpredictable, moody, and energetic once we get started so it's best to expect a strong start in some direction, the question is which direction will you push us towards??

Taurus is the sign of the Dancer-
not the director.

Motivational music
Call Me-Blondie
Fighter-Christina Aguilera
Beautiful People-Marilyn Manson (good for paranoia)
A little less conversation-Elvis
Be my Wife-David Bowie
Alive-Joey Lauren Adams from Chasing Amy
Doorbell-White Stripes
Santa Baby-Anyone

Bad music
Anything country
Sad elvis
Blue Orchid-White Stripes
Take, Take, Take-White Stripes

Natasha

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nannyfish
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posted December 19, 2005 09:42 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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it means he doesn't believe and have faith in you.

This is the part that gets me. Uh, why? As a Scorp I find this very insulting... Just wondering if it's a common Taurus trait, in which case, I won't take it personally and take your advice about the music...

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Happy Dragon
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posted December 19, 2005 10:06 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
space asks a lot of questions ...
but has n'owt to say about himself ... http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/007263.html

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lotusheartone
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posted December 19, 2005 11:36 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
A Taurus

If you fail to plan, then you plan to fail

Taurus is grounded, wants logic, common sence, and security

I trust you til you give me a reason not to, then, well, it will be a while, whie I weigh things in my MInd, this might take an hour, or a week, hehe

Jealousy was a big problem for me when I was younger, after 10 years of marriage and a divorce, it's completely gone
A wasted emotion, I gave up 7 years into my marriage to a Gemini, he was a big flirt
yes the next 3 years were rather quiet, while
I was finding my self...

Loyalty to the end, there whenever you need US, even if you've hurt us, we forgive, it just takes longer to forget

Don't know if any of that helped, I'm;
Sun in Taurus, Mars almost completely Conjunct
Libra Rising
Scorpio Moon
Venus in Aries


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sthenri
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posted December 19, 2005 05:23 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lotusheart, I also have venus in Aries and an 8th house cancer moon, mars conjunct ascendant in sag. I feel better now having rid myself of that gemini ex b/f!. I don't bother spending time with men who try to make me jealous either. It's so obvious and needy.

Anyway, yes Taurus does distrust, and acts suspicious, they are like Capricorns, so we do not have INSTANT faith and trust in someone new. You can come around and try to win our hearts, but we are not happy with people who come around and try to grab us with a wink, a smile and an empty compliment. Nothing makes me more suspicious than a summer friend who wants my trust and full attention.

If someone comes into a room and wants me to focus on him, it irritates me, I do not like anyone that proud.

Taurus is also more proud than LEO and that's really proud.

Natasha

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space
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posted December 20, 2005 04:29 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hello
thanks for all the posts on understanding taurus.
i have been having this problem ,this person
i know ,i am unable to figure out if she is a taurus or a capricorn and unable to understand this person and what goes on in her mind.
please see if you can help.
1.phisically short , slim .
2.talks less ,has a very fixed stare .
3.very delicate features in face like small 4.eyes bery well formed delicate but 5.staright nose and delicate small lips .
6.overall very slim but athletic.
7.very authoritataive and non emotioanal verbally.
8.talks more silently with gestures and and can sence things.
thanks

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SweetCappie
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posted December 20, 2005 09:19 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
SPACE-- why don't you ask her when her birthday is?

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space
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posted December 21, 2005 02:36 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi sweet cappie
i did ask , i got the answer only after asking the third time.i donot know if it is the truth?
i got the answer as capricorn though.
by the way from my last query and details given what do you people feel a taurus or a cappie?.
send in your comments.

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posted December 21, 2005 05:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cassy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Space, on points 2,7 & 8 I would say definitely a Capricorn.

Capricorn Sun, Taurus Moon, Taurus Rising

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SweetCappie
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posted December 21, 2005 11:14 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sounds like a Capricorn.

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lotusheartone
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posted December 21, 2005 12:26 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sounds like a goat to me too!
Patience is the reward of Patience, hehe

it's worth waiting to see, where this will go
Love and Light to YOU

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LighTgrEEn
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posted October 15, 2006 05:46 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
~BUMP~

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DayDreamer
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posted October 15, 2006 05:52 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My mother is such a typical Taurus. And struggles to control the negative traits at times.

She doesnt talk much (when she talks it mostly orders) she loves food, loves to cook, and loves to feed people. She's stubborn and jealous. And she cant hide her jealousy.

She's even jealous that I dare spend more time or talk more to my friends than I do to her. And she has 6 kids to go around!

Its the worst when I invite my Scorpio friend over. She just doesn't like her. She accused her of pushing her (accused her for alot of things actually) and has done and said a number of mean and embarassing things to her. Im just tell my friends to write it off as menopause.

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posted October 16, 2006 05:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for taurus/gemini cusp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow DayDreamer! She sounds like a pain, I'm sorry for you! xxx

Being a bull, and my boyfriend being even more of a bull, any silences are pensive ones- usually out of indesicion. There can be a bit of 'mulling things over' I suppose.

Whenever we're angry with each other, it's NEVER silent!

*Happy Dragon- the mouthful of food bit: LMAO!

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teaologist
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posted October 16, 2006 11:16 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
All the Taureans in here got it ALL right. Correctamundo.

My friends think I have a short attention span, which may or may not be true. It irritates them because I don't respond to their problems as quickly as they can respond to mine. I have a stellium in Taurus (Sun, Mercury, and Mars) so I am reeeeeeally "slow" to arrive at conclusions. Anyway, a week later, I'll be like, "So I thought about what you said last week ... and I think you should do this..."---when the problem is no longer relevant!

Sooo, don't come to me for advice unless you're verrry patient. Or, if you have a tendency to answer your own questions and then inadvertently give me credit for the solution. That's fine with me.

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