posted December 30, 2005 10:27 PM              

I'm wondering because the scorpio I'm seeing sometimes will joke about going out with other girls. Or he will ask me if i know so-and-so and I will say "yeah I know her." then he will say something like "She's really good looking." He would also has another girl he talks to on the phone (hopefully thats all) and when we are together she always seems to be watching him or coming around. He doesn't seem to want her to leave either.

I heard they were loyal, but I know two scorpios who have cheated.

posted December 30, 2005 10:59 PM            

Of course there are nasty cheats, but Scorpio is not famous for that trait.

The Scorpio I am seeing has cheated on a previous partner (though he did it as revenge and still feels guilty about it). But then.. I think about 75% of the people I have dated have cheated in their past.

Women find him very attractive and he does have wandering eyes- i.e. he will not miss a beautiful woman. BUT.. so do I. Not that it doesn't bother me- but I trust him and at the end of the day that is all you can do.

posted December 31, 2005 12:35 PM              

Anyways, I’ve always believed there’s something not right about that…some of the most selfish people in the world wouldn’t expect that from a saint…and I know plenty of them ( not saints! ).

Hmmm I sense mind games…but why I don’t understand *my perspective powers are on the fritz*
It just doesn’t make sense…they’re hiding something *raises eyebrow*

posted January 01, 2006 02:51 AM              

Be very careful with them. Do not let them play mind games with you.

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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra

posted January 01, 2006 04:41 AM              

But Scorpio is also a sign that is capeable of almost evangalistic devotion to an ideal, or a person. Know YOUR particular Scorpio, and be honest with yourself. You'll know if you can trust them or not. The hints will be there, in the way they are around other people. The way the conduct theirselves in their daily dealings. The way they follow through on what they say, or not. And most importantly, if you suspect they may be too defensive about something, even during light, "just curious" questioning, chances are, they know that if you know about it, you could ruin their naughty plan, and they can't have that. Or they're hiding something that they feel "you just wouldn't understand" - meaning, it would hurt you.

Please, whatever you do, don't let yourself be destroyed by the negative or unevolved expression of this sign. I have seen too many loving and sincere people be driven to the brink of spirit extermination by bad Scorpios. They won't just break your heart repeatedly, they'll literally destroy your soul. BE CAREFUL with this sign. Dabbling with a Scorpio IS NOT a carefree walk in the park. Know the difference between an Eagle, a Pheonix, and a grey lizzard. Beware the grey lizzard, they will do you no good. Let other lizzards be their props.

I feel strongly enough about this to blatantly come out and say it, with no hesitation whatsoever. Seen it too many times.

The Eagle expression of Scorpio is an inspiration to us all. They are pillars of the community, and good to the people they love. They are honest, forthright, and extremely passionate and devoted. They are the kind of people that history books and passionate love stories are written about. No comparison to the average person, but definately a stellar role model to us all.

The Pheonix is also an inspiration, but because they've been so far down, and so horrid - then, changed into the Eagle by the grit of their souls. Or, they're on that path, but by no means perfect, nor do they claim to be so. The difference, is that they are obviously TRYING to be an eagle. I think the majority of Scorpios fall into this catagory.

But the grey lizzard, is an emotional vampire - nobody is safe in their embrace, unless you came here to be somebody else's prop and are willing to be destroyed for their growth, which could be futile because it cannot be assured. But it's your choice to take that chance.

posted January 18, 2006 11:30 PM            

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I honestly don't recommend the Aqua/Scorp combination.

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posted January 19, 2006 02:14 AM            

If its been established that I've committed myself to a woman, I won't look elsewhere.

If a particular relationship is clearly a passing phase, then I have no problem meeting and spending time with other women.

But I never ever physically cheat.

I'm only open to meet other girls when I'm not committed. Because of the lack of commitment, if I ever do slip up in a passionate moment, I wouldn't hesitate to end the previous engagement, immediately after straying. And I hope that if I'm ever cheated on, I'd be dumped immediately afterwards.

It only takes one conversation with a girl for her to know which category I fall into- Committed or Not Committed.

posted January 19, 2006 10:00 AM              

If I cut off the intimate aspect, the other person can bet that something is wrong with the overall structure of the relationship.

The main things that will make me run are:

No respect for me

Trying to control me

Taking advantage of my nature to help

Taking advantage of my loyalty... assuming that you can treat me however you feel and I'll always be there. (Which goes along with the respect and taking advantage of my nature to be helpful, I guess)

From some of the things that you describe this Scorp doing, I can (not very happily) admit that in my teens/early 20's, I've been guilty of.

My opinion? Feel free to disagree or disregard me on this, but...

Move on. He doesn't sound ready for a give and take/equal relationship. He needs to mature a little more.

Also, you're 14 and he's 18 or 20, right? NOTE: I'm not saying that you're immature due to your age, etc.

He "may" be seeing you as gullible... you've attracted an older guy who is going to college, etc. He "may" think that you're wrapped up in the image and he doesn't have to show real respect or substance and can toy with you a little while and leave.

Also, I know a few years age difference isn't really important. However, there is a little difference between a 14 year old and an 18/20 year old.

posted January 20, 2006 02:28 AM              

Oddly enough, I've seen this combo more than once. These two signs are attracted to each other, but ultimately frustrate each other. My best friend, an Aqua female with a Leo moon, spent many years with a Scorpio male. They started dating when she was 16 and he was 18. They had a tumultuous relationship and 2 kids during their 20 something years together. But in the end, he hardened her, and she broke him open emotionally. They're both kind of a mess now. That relationship was always off and on. Their first child, Mandy, born in 1990, isn't actually his. But, he was there for the duration of the pregnancy, and for the birth, (he cut the cord) and for all of her upbring so far. He's the dad, and that's as far as that subject goes. Period. - My Aqua pal is NOT ALLOWED to tell her daughter that Mr. Scorp. is not really her dad. Anyway, I digress.

posted January 21, 2006 05:56 AM              

He does allow visitation, but rarely overnight.

posted January 22, 2006 05:59 PM            

I didn't respect him at all.

I wasn't purposely mean or anything, but I could never take him seriously because our personalities were so different. He was the epitome of the type of guys my friends and I would make fun of, so I guess it was the lack of respect on my part that ended the whole affair.