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Topic: why do Aries moon always seem to get a bad rap
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carlfloydfan unregistered
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posted January 11, 2006 10:26 AM
It seems people with aries moon are always seen as people with nasty tempers, wasted energy and people who don't think before acting. mars in cap seems to be known for temper too.I won't lie, as a kid I use to be violent when getting back at someone, very hot headed at times, a whirl wind of fury. I use to TRASH my room like a rock star when mad at my mom in grade school. But I have learned that being hot headed or getting worked up is really lame, it looks stupid when I see other people get angry so I know not to these days. I can't stress how dumb hot headed people look to me these days. I get very embarresed that I use to act like that. These days at the age of 21, most if not all people outside my family see my as very chill. a few people in my family think I have an attitude problem but I guess family will do that to you. the outside world percives me as chill, shy, creative and funny and thats what matters to me. -carl (scorp in sun/saturn/pluto, cap rising, mars and jupiter, sag in mercury (at 00 degrees 24 minutes/venus/uranus/neptune, taurus true node) IP: Logged |
Deneiros unregistered
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posted January 11, 2006 11:36 AM
Hi Carl! As a fellow Aries Moon, I can relate. I was a violent hot-headed kid, too. But I also gained control over my anger as I grew to adulthood.(Gemini in Sun/Mercury/Saturn), Cancer Rising/Venus/Mars, Capricorn Jupiter/true node, Libra Uranus, Sagittarius Neptune, Virgo Pluto) IP: Logged |
Peri Knowflake Posts: 1848 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 11, 2006 11:52 AM
Arians are kids of the zodiac Just remember how babies express their emotions if something goes wrong! Arian Moons are babies (some are more like early humans though) when it comes to the expression of their emotions. They have lots of things to learn. They have to learn to be parient or that other people have feelings and emotions and thus can be hurt too , that there're many other ways to get what you want and save your breath at the same time (Libra and Scorp Moons could teach them)etc. In support of Arian Moons I can say they are not vengeful and don't hold grudges, though I agree, they are not the easiest people to deal with IP: Logged |
marsconjunctmercury unregistered
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posted January 11, 2006 12:17 PM
I really like people with Aries Moon. Find them mellow and funny. If you were to consider another combination - Mars in Cancer - now these people seem to be peculiar and volatile. Thay 'can' turn nasty and malicious.------------------ 4th December 1974 18:00GMT Isle of Wight UK IP: Logged |
Stargazer Knowflake Posts: 46 From: just left of center Registered: May 2009
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posted January 11, 2006 12:19 PM
Hey Carl... I'm glad to hear thar you have gotten a handle on your temper.... getting really worked up like that used to happen to me too...mostly because i didn't get what i wanted when i wanted it... Peri is right.. lots to learn... Patience will come easier as you get older... and the shoot first.. ask questions later thing will also lessen a bit... But.. on the bright side ..you have Scorpio's steely determination driven by Arie's fiery courage... High energy and a huge appetite for life... Physical activities can provide a great outlet for all that excess energy.... virgo sun / Aries moon/ cappy rising IP: Logged |
pidaua Knowflake Posts: 67 From: Back in AZ with Bear the Leo Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 11, 2006 12:52 PM
Yep.... Scorp Sun combined with the Aries moon temper (both used to be ruled by Mars remember) along with Merc in Sag bluntnes.. I can see the temper flare.. what keeps giving in the staying power? Well.... Look to your Taurus planets for that... LOL..I am a Sag Sun / Aries Moon / Venus in Sag - Virgo rising / Pluto on the Ascendant. I didn't have a bad temper. I was more the kid that would just walk away and do my own thing. It took someone hurting my family or friend for me to jump into action - but if I had to defend myself I would. I was more competitive that anything and the fire really came out in sports and school. I didn't "trash" rooms (mine or anyone elses) beause WHO is going to clean it up with the damn argument is over? Who is going to pay for the broken items? LOL.. (So Virgo rising). Instead, I would use my tongue and say very cruel things.. then I would leave and never look back. Besides, growing up, I had a Capricorn (still have) father that has been in law enforcement my whole life. Had I acted in that manner, you can bet he would have taken matters in his own hands and I wouldn't have been a happy camper.
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Betelgeuse Knowflake Posts: 33 From: England Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 11, 2006 12:55 PM
Hey Carl, Aries moons can get a bad rap, but there are also many wonderful qualities to embrace. It is true that an Aries moon is very impatient, they want everything NOW, their emotional desires are very impulsive and strong. This fiery energy can induce a nervous or irritable effect in the people around you, it can rattle them, like an earthquake shakes the Earth. Once an Aries moon has matured and learnt to use their fire with a little more compassion and understanding for those around them, it can be a highly productive position. This is easier said than done, because a lunar Aries nearly always adopts an emotional 'me-first' attitude, and everything else in the world around them plays 2nd fiddle to their own loud, bombastic orchestra. However when the mellowing does occur, and the Aries symphony plays a subtler tune, they really can be the most delightful and charming people around. Aries moons are the symbol of impulse. They live in the moment, and the moment is of paramount importance. This is where a lunar Aries has a lot to teach the other moon signs. It can teach them to 'be in the now', to view life with imagination, youthfulness. Their impulsive outbursts are essntial for helping other people know themselves more, they wear their 'heart on their sleeves', what you see is what you get. This genuine integrity can be appreciated by many people, especially the people who tire easily of those who prefer to hold their feelings secretly inside of them. A lunar Aries could not hide his feelings if he tried! They trickle out of him/her like a solar flare. These people have one very special gift, they share it with their sister sign of Sagittarius - The gift of actually KNOWING there is magic in this world. Without the passion and fire of an Aries moon, the world would be a very dull place, they have much to learn emotionally, but from an Aries standpoint - the best way to learn is 'to do'. Experience will bring about change, and thats where a lunar Aries has its greatest strength and weakness in the same place - the greatest weakness is an overbearing want/need energy that can be projected onto others - and their greatest strength is their tenacity to show their emotions openly to the world, to not hold anything back, so then... the world can teach them the harmony and the truth. Be happy for your moon in Aries, it really is a blessing IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force Knowflake Posts: 122 From: England Registered: Oct 2009
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posted January 11, 2006 12:56 PM
I don't think I have a bad rep... are you saying I have a bad rep???? lol yep I get angry, moreso than the average person I guess... but then my slight OCD makes matters worse and I will hit stuff!! We ain't bad people.... just misunderstood.
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Stargazer Knowflake Posts: 46 From: just left of center Registered: May 2009
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posted January 11, 2006 01:04 PM
Betel.... What a nice post! There is good in everything.... and yes magic too. IP: Logged |
Betelgeuse Knowflake Posts: 33 From: England Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 11, 2006 01:19 PM
MNF, a bad rep in terms of being overly aggressive sometimes, thats all Im an Aries mooner too. IP: Logged |
carlfloydfan unregistered
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posted January 11, 2006 02:37 PM
Now that you mention it TMNF, I use to have bad OCD too. I was an orginizing freak within my room. I think part of the reason for my OCD was I was very shy and sub conciously needed something to control..and my room was something I could control, it was my ship..My ship creativity wise, emotionally (hence the orginizing and trashing of) and my refugee from the bullies of grade school. Even today, if I am not careful, I find myself washing my hands all the time and putting on mosterizer and sometimes even looking in the mirror a little to much (even though I can say with confidence I am a pretty good looking dude). So yah, OCD is defiantly something I need to be aware of..I could probably attribute that to my Cap attributes more than Aries.haha, funny you should mention the aries being the baby of the zodiac. I do look quite youthful. I am 21 and still get carded for lotto tickets! My astrology book also mentions cap rising people often look older than usual when young and younger than usual in older age. Looks like I am headed down that path. I even tried to grow facial hair to no avail to add a few years (to at least avoid being carded for lotto tickets!) Overall, my aries moon has been good to me. Its helped me realize many things early in life and get all that negative energy out early. IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force Knowflake Posts: 122 From: England Registered: Oct 2009
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posted January 11, 2006 02:44 PM
Aww, poor Carl! I'm sure the facial hair will come to you soon!!Yep I'm a Cappy rising too but people think I'm older more often than they guess my age right. Betelgeuse- s'okay, I knew. Just joking IP: Logged |
amisha121877 unregistered
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posted January 11, 2006 04:12 PM
thanks betelgeuse!!!!! that was inspiring.pidaua - true on the tongue tip. also, my grandfather (dominant and true male influence as a youth) is a cappy. so, order and God forbid if you "screwed" up / no jumping on beds either, loud music, short skirts and all, hanging with riff-raff or throwing food away - at least in his presence although it gets back to them because they have spies everywhere. lol - i never thought about that trashing things before when getting angry - hell, i didn't want to have to clean it up or pay for it when it was all over either. "I didn't have a bad temper. I was more the kid that would just walk away and do my own thing. It took someone hurting my family or friend for me to jump into action - but if I had to defend myself I would." very true. so aries mooners aren't tasmanian devils and all although i liken him to aries moon. although if i could get my as* back in gear as far as working out and sports again knowing full well that the hardest part is the 1st day/week and after that - whala - it would REALLY be a relief to the system - my temper can be swift and sharp and so is the mental shadowboxing, shadow kicking. do i have ocd? i don't sit on seats (or carpets) that have rips in the fabric, tape, gum or grim on them, cracks in them or like to step on indoor floors that are cracked, not leveled, or have gook on them.
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carlfloydfan unregistered
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posted January 11, 2006 09:34 PM
OCD is performing actions to make up for constant thought(s) that you feel guilty for having. For example, if you feel bad for always thinking about sex, you may do or say something to divert yourself from those thoughts. Or if you feel dirty you wash your hands...and it becomes excessive and disrupts your way of life. the key is OCD disrupts your life and causes you to break out of daily rituals. Another example: You can't close a door without tapping it three times. For me, everytime I use to get sad about lack of friends in middle school or feel lonely, I would clean/organize so I could avoid those thoughts (and feelings). But it became obsessive. Of course some people naturally grow out of OCD. I did when I got friends in late MS and HS.Okay its been a few years since psych class..good explanation but examples could use work...I think IP: Logged |
silvermoon unregistered
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posted January 11, 2006 10:04 PM
Let us not forget that the inspiration for this site, Linda Goodman, was born under the sign of Aries! silvermoon IP: Logged |
astro junkie unregistered
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posted January 12, 2006 01:57 AM
Yeah! ... step off all you Aries haters ... hee hee ...------------------ ... it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness IP: Logged |
WaterNymph unregistered
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posted January 12, 2006 05:42 AM
I think Aries Moon is a perfect example of…you are your worst enemy…until they can control their emotions. I know only two, and they can never stay cool and calm...I suppose it’s ok if you’re ten…but come now, it’s just silly at 23. And to make matter worse, they both turn red easily lol Linda was an Aries Sun not Moon I think her Moon was in Scorpio…not official tho. *edited weird I typed Linda is instead of was IP: Logged |
CancerMoon unregistered
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posted January 12, 2006 06:09 AM
I've been a lurker... But enjoy this board a ton!! I wanted to Add I am Also an Aries Moon (Cancer Sun, Scorp Asc) And I am the most cool headed person I know in 90% of situations that would rage most Aries moons.. But I think mine come more with the dumbest of things.. I get more angry over stubbing my toe then someone saying something that would deserve an explosive come back. I don't know maybe the water helps??? LOL IP: Logged |
noreenz unregistered
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posted January 12, 2006 09:41 AM
Welcome CancerMoon!!Thank you to all those Aries Mooners who have grown out of the violent hot headed stage, you give me hope for my Aries-Sun,moon,merc,venus 12 year old daugher. Now, if only I could find a way to fast forward 10 years............wait, that would make me 10 years older too, lol..can't win. IP: Logged |
Peri Knowflake Posts: 1848 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 12, 2006 10:04 AM
Welcome CancerMoon P.S. If your natal Moon is in Aries why you're CancerMoon then? IP: Logged |
salome unregistered
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posted January 12, 2006 11:11 AM
Beteljeuse ~thanks for expressing that the way that you did... quote: A lunar Aries could not hide his feelings if he tried! They trickle out of him/her like a solar flare. These people have one very special gift, they share it with their sister sign of Sagittarius - The gift of actually KNOWING there is magic in this world.
i feel a reluctant resonance with your description of aries moon...you put it in both a real and charming way. salome aries sun, moon aries saturn capricorn ascendant libra mars http://i22.photobucket.com/albums/b326/saffron114/salome/5aacd5c9.gif ------------------ I'm walking through the desert And I am not frightened although it's hot I have all that I requested And I do not want what I haven't got... I have water for my journey I have bread and I have wine No longer will I be hungry For the bread of life is mine sinead o'connor IP: Logged |
amisha121877 unregistered
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posted January 12, 2006 02:05 PM
carlfloydfan - OK - so your expla on OCD makes a lil bit more sense - so then could someone who always seeks something to fix, work on, study, or read in the heat of emotional confrontation or when they have been reprimanded or questioned on the lack thereof - would that be considered a sign of OCD? would OCD be considered another word for avoidance?WOAH - bless you noreenz i definitely shouldn't be Aries - Sun, Moon, Mercury and Venus but wow, if I was, if I was.......hmmmmm, salome - i appreciate those o'connor lyrics. IP: Logged |
Betelgeuse Knowflake Posts: 33 From: England Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 12, 2006 03:00 PM
Salome Your chart has a pattern almost identical to mine, except different planetry aspects of course.IP: Logged |
astro junkie unregistered
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posted January 12, 2006 06:35 PM
Welcome CancerMoonIP: Logged |
bohemianjazz unregistered
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posted January 12, 2006 10:01 PM
Wow, I never knew that Aries Moon has a bad rap. But I do notice that no matter how bad I am, people always seem to want to help me.------------------ 3rd Decan Scorpio Sun, 1st Decan Aries Moon, 1st/2nd Decan Aquarius Rising IP: Logged | |