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Azalaksh Knowflake Posts: 982 From: New Brighton, MN, USA Registered: Apr 2009	posted January 17, 2006 02:47 PM Lou G ~ You wrote: But I really like him a lot & if he's not a psyco, I'll regret leaving him. He's very smart in school. He's on the honor roll, he works 2 jobs over the weekend & he's going to an out-of-state university in August....Should I just ask him some questions to try to figure him out better? Like the other people here, my 2 cents says "Run -- Don't Walk". I see a manipulator here. Don't assume that his mask for public consumption will stay on when you two are in private. Do you really want to take a chance with the rest of your life -- that he's not a psycho?? And btw, "psychos" can be on the honor roll and go to college, "psychos" can have normal jobs, and "psychos" can even look like responsible human beings. Besides, isn't how he treats you more important than what grades he gets or whether he's employed?? Why do you think he will tell you the truth to these questions you want to ask him to figure him out better?? He may tell you only what he wants you to know, or what he thinks you want to hear..... My Pisces-Moon radar is going off like crazy, LG -- get yourself away from this guy!! You're a beautiful young lady and there are LOTS of wonderful guys out there..... Good Luck 'Zala IP: Logged
Stargazer Knowflake Posts: 46 From: just left of center Registered: May 2009	posted January 17, 2006 03:55 PM Sweetie this man is not an "Eagle", How smart he is or how many jobs he has is of no merit. Please know that i understand the Scorpio appeal and have been under a spell or 2 myself over the years... but astrology aside.... It is a fact that 1/3 of all women murdered in the US are killed by their husbands or boyfriends...He is exhibiting classic signs of someone who could do far worse than being "mean to you" I think getting to know him better would be much more anxiety producing than illuminating... I would run not walk away from him as soon as possible... IP: Logged
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 4416 From: Pleasanton, CA Registered: Apr 2009	posted January 17, 2006 03:13 PM Squaring Suns...what fun! Well, everyone else has chimed in. I knew a college-aged Taurus girl, who was going out with my boss' son, a college-aged Scorpio. He was known to be physically abusive with her, and she eventually got it, and dumped him. IP: Logged
Lousianagrl unregistered	posted January 17, 2006 06:02 PM Alright well I'll keep all your advice in mind while I figure out all this. Thanks Z'ala.. I'm having trouble understanding this mess. I guess I'll leave him, but I'm not sure how to! Ugh.. ------------------ aquarius sun, pisces rising & venus, scorpio moon, pluto & eros Let your love be like the misty rain, falling softly, but flooding the river. ~Madagascan Proverb IP: Logged
pixelpixie Newflake Posts: 8 From: ON Canada Registered: Apr 2009	posted January 17, 2006 07:08 PM Take up a new hobby.. make sure he knows how enthusiastic you are about it, and how much joy it brings you, devote lots of time to it.. eventually, more time to IT than to him.. that way you can eagerly get away, pride intact, no confrontations, just a gradual growing apart..... be casual about it. I agree with Zala ( big surprise!!) In that.. just because the public mask is an honourable one, doesn't mean he is honourable. Lots of people struggle, have many jobs, go to school, etc.. lots of people don't threaten their girl with death either. Believe what he tells you with his actions and what you tell yourself with your curiosity and questions about him... Should you really have to question someone so much? if the questions ae there, so negatively, then the answer is to go. IP: Logged
Mystic Gemini unregistered	posted January 17, 2006 07:45 PM My ex scorpio was like that. He'd tell me he was gonna kill me many times. Over stupid crap. He started getting crazier after. Came to my house all drunk one night throwing bottles in the street because my mom told him I wasn't there. I was. I knew he would put his hands on me. He had before. ------------------ Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus 29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra ��) �.��.���) �.��) (�.�� (�.�� * Lost in the peace of serenity Blind my eyes I cannot see Lost my soul but found my heart Again a time, when I shall start IP: Logged
LibraSparkle unregistered	posted January 17, 2006 07:53 PM Hey you Scorpios... I just wanna say that I really dig you guys, and that I am sorry you get such a bad rap. IP: Logged
Scorpionic Web Knowflake Posts: 67 From: Philadelphia Registered: Apr 2009	posted January 17, 2006 08:17 PM Yeah, all this talk about physically abusive Scorpios is really surprising to hear. IP: Logged
Venus unregistered	posted January 17, 2006 08:58 PM Whatever the reasons are for his behavior - it cannot be denied that he is a control freak. What right has he to stop you going where you want to go with your friends? Get rid of him now. Venus IP: Logged
MoonDuchess88 unregistered	posted January 17, 2006 09:01 PM Thats not normal humor for anyone, he sounds psycho. My guy wouldn't joke with me like that. Seriously, he's 20 years old, he should know better. Even ppl that know him have nothing good to say about him. That's always a bad sign. Ever heard of the saying "walks like a duck....talks like a duck....." IP: Logged
Heart--Shaped Cross Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Nov 2010	posted January 17, 2006 09:38 PM Thanks, Libra Sparkle. I was just realizing my appreciation for Libras the other day.... again. Every sign has been my favorite. Every sign is unique and essential to round out this brilliant human drama. But I dont know any sign I can talk with more easily, or with more civility, high-mindedness, good-humor, and mutual respect, than with Libra. IP: Logged
Azalaksh Knowflake Posts: 982 From: New Brighton, MN, USA Registered: Apr 2009	posted January 17, 2006 09:49 PM Steve, you flatterer Works on me every time 'Z IP: Logged
LibraSparkle unregistered	posted January 17, 2006 10:02 PM Awww... Heart Shaped Steve! Mushy mushy gushy gushy to you too. IP: Logged
SweetCappie unregistered	posted January 17, 2006 10:14 PM Hi Louisianagrl, I'm sorry to say that I agree with everyone else. Don't second guess your intuition. This guy sounds psycho and you're too young to risk your life to be with him. I know and heard of many people who have great jobs, great school records but are abusive. There are plenty of great Scorpios out there and the ones I know wouldn't make a threat like that and to top it off say they meant it! Be very careful when and how you break up with him because I bet he'll try to stalk or harrass you. I'm not trying to scare you but just letting you know from my experience with my crazy Scorp Mooners ex-boyfriends (they were smart, great grades). IP: Logged
Iqhunk unregistered	posted January 18, 2006 05:47 AM LG, I objectively re-analyzed this whole thing using my 150+ IQ. My Brain Computer has only one resounding answer: LEAVE THIS BLOKE. And when Zala gives an advice, I would listen. You are just a child, for God's sake! Maybe you want to feel like a woman and this Scorpio is giving you that psychological feeling but there is a time to be a woman, and it is well past 21 [or 30!]. Till then please enjoy being a happy girl. You deserve much better. Your boy should get someone 18+. And remember Ted Bundy, the serial killer from hell, was an honor roll person too and he had a powerful Scorpio Stellium of 5 planets even though his Sun was 2 degrees Sagi. Get a nice, sweet, chivalrous, sentimental and boring moon child if you must have a boyfriend but please avoid this guy. He is manipulating your emotions to keep you attracted, the "strong bad" is a huge subconscious turn on for adolescent girls. Stick to the sweet and safe boys [Ones you can beat at arm wrestling] till you develop your personality in a wholesome way. IP: Logged
Lousianagrl unregistered	posted January 18, 2006 05:22 PM Geez guys I'm not trying to be older than I am or anything; & I really don't want to be looked down upon because of my age, okay? Well last night I stayed with one of my friends and he called while I was with her..I told him that I just wanted a break from him & that I didn't want him to call back until I was ready to talk to him. He was quiet at first, then he just said "Okay." and we hung up..I'll see him tommorow morning at school but I won't engage in a conversation with him. IP: Logged
Lousianagrl unregistered	posted January 18, 2006 05:39 PM Also, it's not like my 'boyfriend' (maybe I shouldn't quite call him that?) picked me out from a group of young people...Since I was raised with my cousin's who are 2 and 4 years older than me, most of the folks I'm friends with now are their's, too. and his best friend is my cousin's friend so that's sort of how we met. He didn't even find out my age until maybe our 3rd conversation..? He told me "I probably wouldn't have begun talking to you if I knew you were 14" I'm NOT taking up for the guy, I'm just letting you know that I am not the kind of ignorant girl that wouldn't figure a guy out COMPLETELY before she started dating him. After I had first microscoped his psyche I thought he was great; then he started saying all of the weird things I already told you about. IP: Logged
Happy Dragon unregistered	posted January 18, 2006 08:48 PM Lousianagrl: ... Hi .. i .. er .. mentioned this earlier .. ( earlier reply) went to daw up a chart but a missing that info * * could you possibly post the degrees to the following : aquarius sun, pisces rising, scorpio moon ? * * or for that matter .. post your chart pic/image .. or birth data .. i have mentioned the transiting Uranus to your natal Venus .. that would have been going on for sometime ... ( normaly 18 mnths or so ) .. the start of which ... you may have met mr.scorp .. ( only u would have that info ) :-) so look at it this way re: astrology and your interest in it .. your young .. therefore at advantage to note how astrology works .. given the Urns transit usualy is pretty disruptive and potentialy 'energetic and volatile' .. the energy is often 'impulsive' .. facinations .. falling in love with an unusual "type" .. romantic attractions seem to happen "out of the blue" .. maybe as if your love life just had a shot of "electricity" ... ... you may feel those sort of vibes .. ok .. you have 26 years advantage on me :-) regarding astrology .... treat the Urns transit as an astrological lesson ....... btw: Uranus transits in astrology are sometimes known as a "wake up call" suggestion ... keep a diary of the stuff that goes on in your life and the astrology transits that occur ... short ones are good .. as in: they only last a couple of days ... and you will feel them ... next time you feel a certain way .. check your transits .. note them .. ( before you know it .. you will be doing them for your freinds ) :-) .. the key is ... "feel first" .... then look at the transits ... as opposed to the other way around .. i.e. looking at the forecasts / transits .. in advance .. that way you get to learn by first hand experience ... tell your diary how you "feel" and .. .. note the transits .... OK m'aam .. for now .. check out the Uranus Conjunct Venus transit .. look up info on it ..... ... it will take your mind of other things .. for a bit ;-) ( split post .. continued in next ) IP: Logged
Happy Dragon unregistered	posted January 18, 2006 08:51 PM ( split post .. continued from previous ) here are some support links ... may help you to understand what is going on re: your romantic life :-) good for 'aspect' information .. maybe transits as well .. : http://www.cafeastrology.com http://astro.com http://www.aquarianage.org http://astrologyweekly.com/learn-astrology http://www.horoscope-x-files.com http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com http://www.astrology-numerology.com/astrology.html try 'looking' at your chart thru this site: http://www.geocities.com/wilsontctc http://www.isleofavalon.co.uk/edu/archive/ephem/ea-index.html http://www.astro.com/astrology/in_transits_e.htm http://www.san.beck.org/Astro.html#1 some transit info here: http://www.happydragon.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk one thing before i tend to dinner :-) ... .. I reckon folks round here .. would like to see you continue to be able to visit 'n post at LL .. as in : .. not ending up as an abuse statistic .. or worse ... ... you see folk round here genuinly Care .. about otherfolk .. and .. older folk tend to pass on their experiences .. lessons learnt .. .. to the younger ones .. .. its just a natural thing that happens .. so a small reminder .. now that youv'e got thru that lot : * * could you possibly post the degrees to the following : aquarius sun, pisces rising, scorpio moon ? * * or for that matter .. post your chart pic/image .. or birth data .. be well .. and relax .. or at least ... try to :-) ( not easy under an Uranian transit ) IP: Logged
Iqhunk unregistered	posted January 19, 2006 03:58 AM <<I reckon folks round here .. would like to see you continue to be able to visit 'n post at LL .. as in : .. not ending up as an abuse statistic .. or worse ... ... you see folk round here genuinly Care .. about otherfolk .. and .. older folk tend to pass on their experiences .. lessons learnt .. .. to the younger ones .. .. its just a natural thing that happens .. >> Spoken like a Speaking of keeping a diary, I would request you to create a new topic about your views/shareable personal experiences with transits. IP: Logged
shop22much Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Dec 2010	posted January 19, 2006 06:10 AM Im glad you are taking the views here seriously...everyone's radars are going off, I hope you find a simple boy, you're an aquarius..maybe try a gemini or aries(aries can be pretty intense in a fun beautiful way)...anyways good luck hun. IP: Logged
sthenri unregistered	posted January 19, 2006 06:42 AM I still say Libra mars is funny sometimes, I have known two men (one with no scorpio) with this placement who couldn't be calm-they loved confrontation. Natasha IP: Logged
BroodingMooodlin unregistered	posted January 19, 2006 05:45 PM When I think of psychotic manipulative scorps, I think of Charles Manson... Nah, but seriously, I think I love scorpios. My best girl friends since the third grade is a scorp and she has a scorpio stellium (hmm..but then again, she has a Pisces moon). I seem to get along really well with Piscean types but they almost always have a scorpio ascendant or moon or some Aries thing going on. But in any case, Scorps and I get along quite well and I'm an aqua sort of person. IP: Logged
poetsdream7 Newflake Posts: 0 From: St Petersburg, FL Registered: Apr 2009	posted January 19, 2006 06:08 PM Hi,louisianagrl, I didn't even read all of your post. I only had to see the part where you have "heard" things about this guy, and that he has threatened you with violence, to say the least. This is not something that you should play with or try to shrug off, as he tried to shrug off this comment after saw that he put fear in your heart. Instilling that fear is just the beginning;it is power...and he will use that to break you down...little by little, chipping away at the foundation of your self-esteem. Please don't make excuses or try to justify his apparent attempt to undermine you. Fear is the opposite of Love. Where there is fear, there is no room for Love. The physical abuse may not start right away, but the psychological abuse has already begun...the seed has been planted. Please take care... Much Love, Poetsdream7 IP: Logged
Iqhunk unregistered	posted January 20, 2006 03:26 AM Beautifully put, Poet! IP: Logged

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