posted January 21, 2006 09:24 PM            

I'm too young to be married.

posted January 21, 2006 09:30 PM            

I'm torn between wanting to nurture the other person in the relationship and then wanting to be nurtured. The whole Scorpio/Leo clash is tough too. I end up attracting people who want to adore and admire and be around, when I'm extremely private.

Also I tend to overidealize relationships. It's like if someone looks at me a certain way they must be infatuated with me and want me, even if I know thats not the case I cant ever shake that feeling.

In relationships, for me it's basically a conflict of interests. It's like I may feel one thing about the relationship itself, but it conflicts with the relationship. If the relationship isn't serious, I may feel it's much more serious than it is, and vice versa.

Or if I feel we'd be better off going one way, and really due to the relationship's terms we should be going the other...

posted January 22, 2006 07:09 AM              

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posted January 22, 2006 11:27 AM              

I have this harsh aspect too, my Moon in Taurus squares my Venus in Leo.

I'm 21 years old and I'm not married and DON'T ever think about it!!!- I value my freedom a lot, and in my plans for the future there's not space for marriage- lol

But I do believe in love, and dream about finding my soulmate.

I'm trying to work on the hard aspect between my moon and venus, because I think I over-do my venus traits (maybe because my venus is also the apex planet of my t-square).

When I'm in a relationship I need the other person to be very demonstrative, sweet, expressive, lots of hugs, kisses, ya know, but at the same time, I got tired of that, and want my space and get upset when the other person wants to be sweet and caring... LOL

Yes, I guess, I'm hard to please...(or just plain crazy)

posted January 22, 2006 11:49 AM              

Im feeling the same way ive got moon in aqua and venus and taurus.

I need mental stimulation and to share ideas and really talk with my man, but then i get irratated when its just that,and vice versa B/c i need major affection(oohhh man i looove all the kisses,hugs,rubbing,touching..AAHH it's great!) .

posted January 22, 2006 12:06 PM              

Venus in Aries attracts a lot of air signs, that my moon is unhappy with. In general my moon is stronger because it's in Cancer.

posted January 22, 2006 12:08 PM              

Its' horrible, wouldn't know where to begin.

Terrible at relationships myself, but ironically my placements make it so easy to understand other people and theirs.

Like looking through a window at a family at Christmas on a cold snowy night.

Man, I sound depressing don't I?

Swerve

posted January 22, 2006 04:35 PM              

Not married but, I am in a long term relationship. Even though I have a Libra Sun, I do not think i'll get married! I guess we have sort of an unconventional relationship. I don't think that we'll be together for the rest of our lives this lifetime either. I suppose that sounds harsh, but it is part of the dilema that goes with this Moon square Venus placement I guess.

redbb - my Venus (and Uranus) is also the focal point in my t-square. Blech.

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`Who are you?' said the Caterpillar. This was not an encouraging opening for a conversation. Alice replied, rather shyly, `I--I hardly know, sir, just at present-- at least I know who I WAS when I got up this morning, but I think I must have been changed several times since then.'
~Lewis Carroll

posted January 22, 2006 04:54 PM            

Nowadays, I'm not so much not wanting to get married, but I want it so bad that I'm terrified of it. It freaks me out to the extreme...Most times I feel like I'd rather do without. Though, I see people who are married and I'm like I really want that. But then I have to think..