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globe trotter
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posted January 28, 2006 12:27 PM
 
Why am i always being misunderstood? I cannot get along with anyone who has any major planet in water. I have none, by the way. We were chatting with this new guy in town , whom is a friend of a friend, who wants to buy a house. We had no emotional/physical interst in each other. He said he saved a lot of money and wanted to buy in cash. I told him that it was old-school the way he wants to buy it and that it was cute in a way. He got mad at me that I called him 'old-school' and that I was not very careful with my words and he left saying he never wants to talk to me anymore. He has sun in Libra, but pretty much everthing else in Cancer and Scorpio. I had enough 'misunderstandings' with my cancer and pisces exes. I just hate being misunderstood. Previously, I would have gone out of my way to clear things out, but I just don't have the energy anymore because i know that it never helps. The more I try to express myself correctly, the more they get sensitive. IP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted January 28, 2006 03:12 PM
globe trotter -It seems like miscommunication, which includes non-verbal. Just like there are times when Water drenched Libra me will sound more forceful than intended, there are times when people read body language as somehow aggressive. If you've checked that, then he may be too emotional FOR YOU. You're talking, Libra Sun & everything else in Cancer & Scorpio? I'm a Libra with Cancer Moon & a Scorpio Stellium, and I would never take your comment as an affront. There had to have been something else. Everyone hates being misunderstood. Maybe what some do not understand about you is that your lack of emotional outwardness does NOT equal unequal strength. ------------------
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MysticMelody
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posted January 28, 2006 03:55 PM
Not much water here either, and at times I feel I am "cursed" with water signs, since my family has more major Cancer planets than I can stand at times. I know EXACTLY what you mean... it gets to the point when you think, why should I bother to explain and explain and explain and try so hard to understand them and cater to their sensitivities when they don't bother to EVER try to understand ME??? If you told the guy that you weren't trying to be rude and he didn't bother to even TRY to see it from your side, then OH WELL. Just thank God that he is someone you can stop wasting your energy on, instead of a family member who you are "stuck" with. I know we are meant to learn from each other, but geez, can they try to learn from us as well once in a while???? I love Scorpios, and I have my moon in the first house, but Cancer still gets me soggy constantly. For all the Cancer folk here, you are all clearly the enlightened sort of Cancer, or you wouldn't be here, so I doubt any of this applies to you. IP: Logged |
MysticMelody
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posted January 28, 2006 03:59 PM
Astro Junkie, I'm sure your Libra helps you to look at both sides, so wouldn't take offense. I think my Libra balances out my moon in the first house, too.
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MysticMelody
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posted January 28, 2006 04:40 PM
Ok, since I was wondering what I needed to learn from Water....
The Universe kindly led me to a post by Sun Child that mentioned the work of Masari Emoto (I think I spelled it right) and reminded me what I had learned the first time I had pleasure of experiencing photos of his work (while watching the movie, What The Bleep Do We Know). Here is a link to a page with pictures of the water molocules and some words of wisdom as to what we (I) can learn from water.  
http://www.wellnessgoods.com/messages.asp
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illusions_fool
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posted January 28, 2006 05:33 PM
Maybe lack of water influence will do that to you, because I've always wondered about that. I can identify with the being misunderstood, but I think it has to do more with the fact that I'm shy to the point of being asocial and people interpret it as arrogance. The only actual water signs I have in my chart are Scorpio in Pluto and Pisces Rising, but three of my personal planets are in the 12th House and Pluto in 8th, so that may be part of it.
Anyway, I hope you feel better knowing there are worse things to be accused of than being insensitive. Arrogance is not a flattering thing to be considered either, in fact to me, it feels worse. :/ And it happens on a daily basis. Hope things work out for you in that department though.------------------
~Rebekka ~Aquarius/Pisces Cusp Sun, Aquarius Mercury and Moon in 12th House, Pisces Rising, Aries Venus in 1st House IP: Logged |
Heart--Shaped Cross
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posted January 28, 2006 06:01 PM
A preponderance or absense of any element is bound to produce a person who is extreme is someway.I love all the signs for their unique gifts, and there are inestimable gifts which only water signs can provide. If you're ever feeling spurned and unappreciated by icy intellectuals, pragmatic nit-pickers and nay-sayers, and inattentive extroverts, and all you want in the world is for someone to sympathize and empathize with you, and comfort you with genuine, unmitigated warmth and compassion, take my advice, and find yourself a water sign to talk to (if any of them can still stand you). ~hsc
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GemStar
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posted January 28, 2006 06:05 PM
Perhaps you should list YOUR Sun sign, Moon etc....it is difficult to answer your question without your astro information. Off hand, I believe you may have some Aries or Sag in there....just a wild guess.....do tell! IP: Logged |
globe trotter
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posted January 28, 2006 09:12 PM
Sun = Capricorn; Moon = Aqua, Venus = Aqua, Mars = Sag, Mercury = CapricornI guess that says it all :P IP: Logged |
GemStar
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posted January 28, 2006 11:00 PM
Not quite....what is your ASC? If you truly want some answers that may help you regarding relations with others, a full picture would be helpful to view. Your chart can be posted from Astro.com (somehow...photo bucket I think) within a post. I am sure a few folks will take a look at your aspects and perhaps mention a few areas where it might be possible that your words are 'colored' in a sense that makes people 'misunderstand' you. Perhaps in the delivery of comments....or maybe Mercury square something.... Also....it is helpful to look at Yourself (and your chart) when trying to answer a question such as yours. It isn't always 'everyone else' who is in the wrong at times...We are all only human and here in this Life to rise to the challenges of our lives and chart potentials! IP: Logged | |
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