posted January 30, 2006 10:12 AM              

I think the worst was when I dated this older guy, and his Pluto opposed both my Venus and Mars. Didn’t end nicely.

I also find the Venus conj Pluto a really bad one. I had this with someone around this time last year, and it was terrible.

posted January 30, 2006 01:23 PM            

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"The square and opposition are rather similar in nature to the conjunction, but more problematic. The emotional rollercoaster can be trying—particularly for the Moon person. The Moon person finds Mars overly aggressive, pushy, and defensive. The Mars person feels the Moon person is too demanding and needy. The couple reacts in instinctual, spontaneous ways to one another—to a point that there is little reason or logic involved. With a propensity to react to each other without thinking, it is easy to imagine that plenty of hurt feelings are a by-product. Defensiveness, nagging, and "immature" behavior are all strong possibilities with this combination. Co-dependency issues are also quite possible. These people arouse each other's passions—both pleasant and difficult ones. The Moon person might want a promise or a commitment from the Mars person, and find it challenging that Mars prefers to take things one day at a time. The Mars person's displays of independence and self-assertion can be seen as dominating by the Moon person, and it can threaten the Moon person's very sense of security. The negative and angry interplays between these individuals will play out most powerfully when they live together—things can actually get a little nasty. Particularly with the square, the Moon person might tend to complain and dump emotional hurts and frustrations on the Mars person. The Mars person has a way of pulling out dependency in the Moon person. Even if the Moon person is an emotionally "together" person with others, the chemistry between Moon and Mars is such that Mars tends to draw out any needy and/or fearful/depressed feelings in the Moon person. It's simply very hard to relax in one another's company. Resentment towards one another, over time, is likely. This is a very temperamental combination."

posted January 31, 2006 07:12 AM              

Stargazer it’s funny, anyone who’s 8 or 9 years older than me will have their Pluto opp my Venus & Mars not good

posted February 01, 2006 05:02 AM              

But it is usually the Pluto who initiates the sparks of venus and then I am not sure how Venus responds! These are the aspects of instant attraction or instant Karma as John Lennon says