posted February 01, 2006 09:38 AM              

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OK this is a bit different, so bear with me.
Oh! and sorry that there's no picture…I’m afraid to ask for permission lol

I was 13, he was……much older well actually he was young, but old compared to me.

Anyway, this was not an average crush. I met him once and did the whole “I don’t like him” when I actually did. Then before I met him again, I KNEW there was something. He was just so lovely and it just took me over completely. I had no free will - all that mattered was him.

Then I didn’t see him again and it left this gaping black whole in my soul ( I didn’t mean for that to rhyme lol ). I was so sad, and spent 2 or 3 years…YES years brooding. It hurt so badly - no one ever had that affect on me till this day. He was the most incredible amazing person in the world…like no one else.

And today I found his birthday

ok so I’m kinda over him…sort of. But do you want to take a stab and guess his Sun?

*edit

Ok I lied, I’m not over him

You can also guess his Moon, it’s either 2 signs lol
And whoever gets his Sun or either Moon will get……ummmmm…….something nice.

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posted February 01, 2006 12:29 PM              

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One out of 12 signs....lol...

First time when I read it I thought Virgo because of this sentence.

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I met him once and did the whole “I don’t like him” when I actually did

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Second time when I read it I thought Aqua or Gem.

It's such a wild guess..hope it's right

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posted February 01, 2006 01:47 PM            

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Well.... you say you keep meeting him on and off and continually think about him and meet again? etc etc... so my guess would be a sign sextile to yours- either Taurus or Capricorn? Cos I read you'll cross paths again with sextile.....
Or maybe trine, since you're fated?

How can we reallly guess though? I mean, you haven't actually told us much about him!

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posted February 01, 2006 02:01 PM              

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Oh fb thanks for replying he’s not a Gem or Aqua, but does have Gemini somewhere.

I didn’t want to describe him because I know most of it will be misleading. But I will anyway.

* he’s calm and laid back
* has stunning eyes - it’s why I fell for him in the first place
* he’s a peace maker
* has loads of friends
* very close to his family
* he’s a lover not a fighter lmao no but seriously…he is
* a little crude and not very respectful to women, but he manages to do it in a charming way….like not really offensive. Otherwise I’d hit him!!
* despite all this he’s LOADS better than his friends. I mean he’ll say certain things, but wont disrespect any female in front of her. And what he says is no where as bad as his friends. So he’s basically an angel next to them
* many many people trust him. He’s known as someone who never lies
* he’s not afraid of controversy, he will and does stand up for himself if he has to.
* he does not care what other think of him, even tho he says he does. He’s oblivious to what other think.

That’s all I can think of.
It’s amazing how much an obsessed teenager can find in a short period of time

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posted February 01, 2006 02:02 PM              

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MNF you guess his Sun I didn’t see your post

I didn’t have to write all this stuff up : /

He’s a Taurus Sun.

ugh there's something wrong with my browser.

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posted February 01, 2006 02:26 PM              

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I was going to say Pisces

Are you a Cancerian, Waternymph? That 'brooding for years' thing sound s bit Cancery..?

(it can only be one of thing with a name like that, yet i bet i still manage to get it wrong, heheh!)

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posted February 01, 2006 02:30 PM              

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(sorry, that was suppossed to be 'one of *three*'

My spelling skillz is weak, but that's what 3 hours sleep'll do for yer)

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posted February 01, 2006 03:58 PM            

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Yey! Thanks WN!

FT, WaterNymph's a Fish
(Sorry for butting in.... couldn't help it )

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posted February 01, 2006 04:18 PM              

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Hi again MNF!

(for want of a better abbreviation! )

Thanks for the 'butting in', the suspense was killing me!

(and btw, afraid i've no idea if that Yamaha shop is still in Shalford. Why, are you of the Muscial persuasion?)

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posted February 01, 2006 04:29 PM            

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Hey
S'okay. Everyone abbreviates to MNF and I think it sounds cool

Yeah... I used to go there! I was taught by a teacher with knobbly knees and a ponytail, do you know him? Haha.

Ahhh I loved Guilford... well, from what I can remember from my childhood. Hmmm, the band I'm in should so totally play there one day! Know any good venues?

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posted February 01, 2006 04:32 PM              

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Actually, i like 'MNF' as well. it sort of reminds me of the noise a cartoon character might make if you whacked him over the head with a comedy anvil..

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posted February 01, 2006 04:32 PM              

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Actually, i like 'MNF' as well. it sort of reminds me of the noise a cartoon character might make if you whacked him over the head with a comedy anvil..

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posted February 01, 2006 04:32 PM              

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Actually, i like 'MNF' as well. it sort of reminds me of the noise a cartoon character might make if you whacked him over the head with a comedy anvil..

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posted February 01, 2006 04:32 PM              

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SORRY! i don't know what just happened with the mutiple posts, there! :O

What i was going to say (before i said that other thing about 4 times over!) was that this is quite a good live venue:
http://www.beerintheevening.com/pubs/s/43/4316/Pews/Guildford

There's a marquee outside in the summer that bands play under. It's quite cramped, but a good atmosphere!

What's your band called, and what sort of mooosic do you play?

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posted February 01, 2006 06:20 PM              

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Hi WN, cool that you found out his birthday hee you sound very smitten I know the feeling

I don't know about his sun.. but I'm thinking you guys would have strong venus/mars.. venus/pluto.. venus/neptune.. mars/neptune.. contacts

Since you have Venus/Mars in Aries.. I was thinking maybe he has an Aries Mars and Libra Pluto.. and maybe Venus in Pisces

The description you gave makes me think Cancer, Sag and Libra sun lol

:edit: Just saw his sun is Taurus.. does he have a Gemini moon?

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posted February 01, 2006 10:50 PM              

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WaterNymph

.. thought i saw a post some where that you didn't get along with taurus guys ? .. for some reason .. maybe i'm mistaken .. .. but you want this guy back ??? .. you want to know how to reach a taurean teddy bears heart ?? .. .. .. .. so what's the story as i seemed to have missed a fair bit .. .. just out of curiosity .. .. have you got transits on .. that are maybe bringing that guy back into your mind .. ... .. .. .. taurus sun .. well it's basicly a simple sign .. doesn't like 'complications' or a messy love life .. .. normaly likes: .. nature .. food .. and sex .. .. all preferably to or with .. music ..
so what do you need to know ?? ..

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posted February 02, 2006 05:30 AM              

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Oh and he has a Taurus Moon.

And when I said

“he does care what other think of him”
That was meant to say “he does not”

MNF here’s your prize hun!!

FT it’s funny you thought I was a Cancer, I have a singleton Moon

Lauern we have loads of aspects. Including

His Venus sextile my Venus & Mars
His Mars trines both my Venus and Mars ( altho one of those aspects is slightly bigger than 3 deg )
My Sun sextile his Sun & Moon
My Venus sextile his Pluto

Those are all the aspects within 3 degrees.

HD I wouldn't say that about Taureans I prolly said…I don’t know any, they must not like me. Or something like that. I have a serious soft spot for earth signs.
I met him not to long ago and now managed to get his b-day.

“doesn't like 'complications' or a messy love life .. .. normaly likes: .. nature .. food .. and sex .. .. all preferably to or with .. music ..”

I like simplicity…and so does my earth Moon

I never ( unfortunately ) went out with him…he prolly saw me as a child, like his little sister! So it never got anywhere.

What’s the best way to approach a Taurus? And make a good first impression…because you guys don’t forget!
What makes him feel secure? What would irk him?
What is something I should never do…and what should I do often?

Sorry about all the questions

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posted February 02, 2006 05:50 AM              

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Oh and I know some people might think

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“what happened to the Cancer? tut tut such a typical Piscean “

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Stop rolling your eyes, the Cancer’s been moody and doesn’t seem to want me anymore *cries* so stop judging and start crying with me

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posted February 02, 2006 02:11 PM              

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*** I wouldn't say that about Taureans ***
.. probably due to my procrastination at visiting the opticians .. :-))

WN ... yeah i did forget the 'security' aspect ..

.. and i reckon deep down inside it be 'emotional security' .. obviously they have a need for financial security as well .. that be well known about taurus in general .. ... but should that security ever be threatened .. or perceived to be threatened .. that's one time when 't' gets somewhat fearful and potentialy angry ..
anyhow will give some thought to your questions .. is there a big age difference ?? .. that synastry you posted looks .. nice .. .. .. a chart would help .. even without 'b.time' .. i mean even if you posted his b.day there are loads of ppl born on any given day .. so he aint going to know .. exactly .. is he ??
when it comes to romance w.n. .. the 't's' can be a bit on the slow hesitant side ... if you can come across as being a 'stable' option in the romance dept. .. i.e. not 'flighty' .. not 'game playing' .. then youv'e got a chance ... .. could depend where his head is right now .. as in terms of what he wants in the 'love' area .. he could be going thru a phase of some sort .. so with the chart .. or a chart .. you could have a clue .. .. if 'now' be the right time to take some 'action' .. if that makes any sense ..

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posted February 02, 2006 02:12 PM              

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edit*dbl.post.post*accident
.. or .. reserved parking space .. mmmm ..

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posted February 02, 2006 03:12 PM            

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Oh happy Dragon! Thanks for saving the the parking space..... but did you have to be so crooked?

Yes, he does sound like a Taurus, doesn't he?
*sigh*

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posted February 02, 2006 06:35 PM              

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pixelpixie
** .... but did you have to be so crooked? ** **
.. notice how the obviously taurean hd icons are either cross-eyed .. or staring at a blade of grass ?
.. there was a thread back a few days about the zodiac zoo and the bible .. one .. er .. hypothesis was that taur. was son of mr.big .. (at one stage .. after being chopped as the frisky ram) ... and scorp was .. ooooooo ... the dark one .. although being a virtual night owl i rather like the dark .. ... after reading that .. can't quite get the image of the 'good one' and the 'evil one' .. walking hand in hand down the boulevard .. having a good old laugh ..
.. crooked .. yer probably right at that ..
oh .. not quite finished gtr excercise ..(for mnf) .. but 'tri atma' broke a string and have been replaced by .. guitar kareokee .. 'like a rolling stone' .. and the trak be in tune to Cmajor ( C. Dmn. Emn. F. G. etc ) .. anyhow trak be on server .. have a sing along .. a tribute to Bob.D. from MN * *
* http://www.happydragon.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/jkbx/l.rll.stn.mp3 *
... ** Yes, he does sound like a .. T ** ...
.. he maybe a scorp in disguise .. *{{ 6double sighs9}}*
b.t.w. .. ran into a mate .. he had his 2yr old daughter with him .. last time i saw her she was about 6 wks old .. her mom is a scorp sun .. she (the daughter .. 'milly') .. could be your little ones' sister .. they look so alike .. (she be a virgo) ..
s.h&d

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posted February 05, 2006 12:37 AM              

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*WaterNymph*
re: "mr.t" listed queries in yer above post :

ok ... mmmm .. it's late (timewise) .. am in bit of a flippant mood .. but shall control the urge if i can :-)

.. generaly speaking .. if its a short term lust experience yer after .. and he's young or unhappily married .. then playing and dressing the 'tart' may work .. .. or ..
.. if ye seek a long term relationship .. then """ as a rule """ (untill you get to know him better and visa versa ) .. :
**What’s the best way to approach a Taurus?**
1 .. ** as a friend .. don't make it too obvious your after romance ... but don't hide it totaly .. just don't try and make too big an impression .. unless in private maybe .. .. try to project 'quality' or 'quiet taste' whether it be jeans 'n t shirt or evening dress 'n silk for that special occasion .. .. ... ** with an icecream cone in each hand .. one for him .. and one for you .. .. .. .. you know what .. suggest going out for a good meal with him .. at a 'casual' yet high quality ( food and atmosphere) restaurant .. ... that's one sure fire approach .. .. choose a venue that doesn't get overcrowded .. a place done out with 'natural' furnishings e.g. wood instead of plastic (or whatever ) .. if it has an interior water fountain and soothing music .. with a few indoor plants spread about the place .. .. you might be on to a winner :-) .. use your knowledge of astrology to pick The day ..
**And make a good first impression…because you guys don’t forget!** .. and ..
(A)**What makes him feel secure? (B) What would irk him?** ...
look as if your heart is in tiny fragmented bits .. tinged with blue ( color coding to follow ) .. and give the impression that he is just the right guy to glue it all back together .. .. .. avoid flirting or coming across as 'over friendly' to other males in front of him (or for that matter .. behind his back) .. ... in the face makeup department go easy on the coverage .. try to look natural .. not too flash .. or if your into loads of warpaint then be creative yet subtle .. i.e. 'inviting' .. that goes for dress as well .. don't reveal too much .. keep it a mystery .. .. (B) .. if yer into lapdancing on pub tables whilst ferdi watches .. do it at home .. not in a pub in front of his mates ..
(A). .. the idea that his beloved is not about to do a vanishing act .. .. (B). .. vanity .. attention seeking .. overly emotional theatrical displays of temperment .. spending all his money without his knowledge .. that unless he has a lot of fire in his chart then he may admire or relate such qualities ( but not the money scenerio i would have thought) ..
(cont. next post )

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posted February 05, 2006 12:40 AM              

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**What is something I should never do…**
intentionaly make him jealous .. sexualy or emotionaly .. .. use cheap perfume .. wear a ton and a half of face cake (makeup) ... get stuck on the M1 in heavy traffic with him in the passenger seat .. talk too much at inapropriate moments .. .. fake orgasms .. .. or if you do .. put on a Big act .. make animal noises .. .. in theory that "the bigger the lie .. the easier it is swallowed " .. if he finds that complementary to his manhood .. then he will be unlikely to object .. .. he might even encourage you .. mmmmmm ..
**and what should I do often?**
be creative .. use your imagination .. shower often .. be natural .. :-)
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ok .. that is one very approximate and not too serious a guide to yer average mr.t . . . . .
.. realise that they come in all sorts of shapes on the 'emotional' needs front .. e.g. not all T's are the marrying types .. that is the bit of paper legal stuff don't mean anything .. or they simply don't want just one partner (that could be a rarity ) .. i mean you could end up with a Dali (the weirdly wonderful artist) or a tyranical genocidal political guru type (take your pick thru history) .. .. or .. you could end up with an 'eternal wanderer' given certain placements ... or your stereotypical ferdi farmer in devonshire .. ... yeah take him out for some tea and genuine devonshire cream cakes :-) .. in a sleepy village by the sea ... ..
ok i'm reverting to silliness again .. ( be 5am .. it figures ) ...
.. so idea ! .. post just a date for him .. that's enough for starters .. no place or time needed .. .. you can try using the sun position as asc. .. just use uk generic as 'place' .. ... thats one way to figure a bit more and make sure you don't have some radical maniac on your hands .. or if you do .. that your potentialy aware of it ..
.. anyhow you know some of the synastry ... .. so .. what's stopping you ??
i mean .. you have an earth moon ??? .. that should be an advantage in the attraction stakes from his point of veiw .. no???
//buy liz greenes book// .. the "astro physics for the romaticly inclined" one .. it should tell you how to round up a whole herd ..
be well and .. good luck ..
s.h&d.

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posted February 05, 2006 08:55 PM              

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<<<<<<<* he’s calm and laid back
* has stunning eyes - it’s why I fell for him in the first place
* he’s a peace maker
* has loads of friends
* very close to his family
* he’s a lover not a fighter lmao no but seriously…he is
* a little crude and not very respectful to women, but he manages to do it in a charming way….like not really offensive. Otherwise I’d hit him!!
* despite all this he’s LOADS better than his friends. I mean he’ll say certain things, but wont disrespect any female in front of her. And what he says is no where as bad as his friends. So he’s basically an angel next to them
* many many people trust him. He’s known as someone who never lies
* he’s not afraid of controversy, he will and does stand up for himself if he has to.
* he does not care what other think of him, even tho he says he does. He’s oblivious to what other think>>>>>>>

wow, that sounds like a Taurus I know....actually that sounds like alot of tauruses I know

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