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Topic: Are all Gemmie men bad in bed?
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Shuz
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posted February 18, 2006 04:45 AM
 
O.k so I hate to genralise. Unfortunatly, the last three (count them 1...2....3!) Men I have been intamate with have all been Gemmies. I have found them all quite intreging and sexy (interletualy speeking) and gone to bed with them thinking great passion lies within and being sadly wrong! Perhaps Im expecting too much? I suppose on reflection, the passion is there but it isn't in full swing or some thing. Can any one shed light on this for me? Tell me there is gemmies out there who r good in bed 
Shuz
P.S Im a scorp sun
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SecretGardenAgain
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posted February 18, 2006 04:53 AM
Ah Shuz cant speak for Gem men , but Ill say a couple of things. first of all, who can match yall scorps sizzling sexuality?  Second, if that is true, it certainly doesnt extend to Gemini women  At least not ones with Venus rising, Pluto on the rising and Scorp stelliums in 2nd houses.  Third, Ive never been with a Gem man in a physical way but I have with a Virgo (ex husb) and he was HORRIBLE physically. Ashtray mouth ick. And his hands so didnt know where to grab, he used to either tickle or hurt me always, and it was just weird. Conversation on the other hand, was always heated with him, regardless of whether it was positive or negative. Maybe its a mercury thing. Love
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Betelgeuse
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posted February 18, 2006 05:13 AM
NO! lolIP: Logged |
Betelgeuse
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posted February 18, 2006 05:38 AM
Hey Shuz maybe I should add to that!Its worth checking out a mans Mars placement - this will show how his sensuality shines through and expresses itself. Example - Mars in Scoprio will bring an intensity and charge - Mars in Taurus will bring an earthy sensuality etc.. I dont think there are any rules in particular, but it MAY help if a Gemini man has some water of earth placements to held 'ground' his air a little.
Fire placements will bring excitement and passion, spontanunity and fun! My attitude to lovemaking:-
LOTS of foreplay, the buildup starts hours before we touch with subtle looks, smiles and touches.
I much prefer slow, sensual kissing - and my kiss will show exactly my feelings.
I alternate between strong and soft in intinmacy - soft touches/caresses, strong movements when an impulse hits me - theres no rules, its just like an ebb and flow.
No thinking - my normally active Gemini mind switches off during lovemaking, and I just go with it. I love to touch and be touched, although I prefer to give rather than recieve - maybe because I value physical sensations so much (because I love them myself) that I feel I want my girl to experience those sensations too.
Erm what else - Not keen on talking during lovemaking - I dont mind laughs, giggles and sighs - but definitely NO dirtytalk, controlling talk, analytical talk - they all are turn offs for me and take away the magical mood.
Hmm I normally 'take control', but that control has only one purpose - to tune in to her mood and move her - but I am also versatile and non-fixed enough to yield - but its my intincts to 'lead' in lovemaking - Like dnacing the tango - a man leads. Old fashioned I know :P
Huh, I cant think of anything else.. but when I am intimate, I dont think, I FEEL instead - my impulses and heart drive me. MY placements:- Sun Gemini
Moon Aries
Mars Taurus
Venus Taurus Sorry! Im just trying to defend the bad rap Gemini has in bed, I ASSURE you not all Gems are like this IP: Logged |
Iqhunk
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posted February 18, 2006 05:58 AM
Hi BG,
Maybe you should go to Australia and give the doubting Shielas some practical proof of the Gemini Prowess Your approach to sex is very much that of very highly evolved men, lot of divine feminine appreciation in it. Did you read about the important Asteroid conjunction in your chart that indicates this? ISIS conjunct OSIRIS in 22 Leo sextile 22 Libra True Node.
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Betelgeuse
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posted February 18, 2006 06:05 AM
lol IQH!!! You make me sound much better than I actually am, but I'm not complaining By the way, you do have quite an ability to see the positive in people/life IQH, its great!No I havent checked out the asteroid placementsd in my chart? Theres so many of them on astro.com, that I get lost in the meanings and interpretations! " ISIS conjunct OSIRIS in 22 Leo sextile 22 Libra True Node" Where can I found out more meanings for these asteroids? Or would you be kind enough to describe them in your own invigorating way? At present, I have no idea what this means! IP: Logged |
Betelgeuse
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posted February 18, 2006 06:06 AM
Ohh, write it in the kundalini thread, so we dont take this one too far off topic Cheer mate. IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
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posted February 18, 2006 06:12 AM
In super-simplified generalizations I think of Earth & Water as having drive and being sensual, and Fire & Air as having variety and kink. (I've got all four in good measure, so I'm down with whatever.) IP: Logged |
hot_ice
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posted February 18, 2006 09:41 AM
I dont know,never slept with myself...But on a scale of 1-10 I'd give myself 11... IP: Logged |
zeldatiara
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posted February 18, 2006 02:03 PM
almost all gem men that i've known have been very stimulating for me intellectually- which is a HUGE turn-on for me, unfortunately, our intellectual chemistry never took off in the bedroom, not with any of 'em. of course, i have no idea why, i think it was the combination wasn't a match, and i didn't know anything more about their charts than that were gem. so i can't say why it didn't work.
2 of them had really impressed some of my friends in bed! ; ) IP: Logged |
Rede411
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posted February 18, 2006 02:25 PM
Some of the greatest men I've err...slept with have been Geminis...all depends on the person and other placements...IP: Logged |
FT_Tam
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posted February 18, 2006 02:34 PM
Mmm, well the one Gemini i ,erm, ever 'got to grips' with was okay.Very sort of.. flexible. Isn't the rumour tho that you Gem fellas are rather more interested in the chase than the prize at the end, tho?  IP: Logged |
LeoSweetHeart
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posted February 18, 2006 02:34 PM
Betelgeuse....why can't more men have your love making style??? I agree with Iqhunk, it sounds like you really do appreciate the feminine energy in your woman and also in yourself. Is that something you can teach? haha. You definitely swayed my vote in favor of Geminis.IP: Logged |
sue g
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posted February 18, 2006 03:25 PM
Johnny Depp isnt.......The last few times I had him he was positively divine...... xxx IP: Logged |
lalalinda
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posted February 18, 2006 05:40 PM
what is sexy about Gemini is their minds.for good sex, look for someone whos Mars and/or Venus is in Earth or Water signs. IP: Logged |
Aphrodite
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posted February 18, 2006 05:50 PM
What? Are you joking around Sue G?IP: Logged |
shop22much
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posted February 18, 2006 06:02 PM
LOL SUE G....
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SecretGardenAgain
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posted February 19, 2006 02:19 AM
Ah lalalinda, I beg to differ. I think Id rather agree with Rede, for ex. the worst physical chemistry Ive had has been with a Virgo/Sag and a Taurus sun guy who is Taurus sun and venus!! he should have been sizzling...maybe he would be for some, for me he was just slow and wasnt a good kisser. Best chemistry Ive had is with an Aries sun male with mars in libra and venus in aqua (Im Gem Sun, venus in aries and mars in gemini). The whole air/fire compatibility in our charts might explain that, and AG said we do have a lot of variety, kink, energy and spontaneity. Any place and any time is fine to make out ... because our combo is just crazy good. A look is enough to ignite passion Love
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SecretGardenAgain
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posted February 19, 2006 02:20 AM
btw Rede thats interesting, you are an Aries i believe, and I mentioned also getting along best physically with Aries men. Theyre so sizzlin hot n sexy yum. Ive seen quite a few Aries/Gem sexually attracted at least even if the relationship doesnt last too long Love
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sue g
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posted February 19, 2006 03:56 AM
Am I joking around?Of course not !!!! IP: Logged |
Rede411
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posted February 19, 2006 10:24 AM
SG,I'm always attracted to Gemini men and yes my ex-hubby is a Gemini who I'm still very physically atrracted to.....I broke it off with him due to emotional reasons NOT physical....
I'm an Aries w/ a Gemini rising...Aries men sometimes do it for me because they're so "masculine" for lack of a better word....and passionate too! IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted February 19, 2006 07:35 PM
I haven't had them all:>But yes so far,
quick and dry, and not much for cuddling,
what's the point?
I knew one that like to talk on the cell during and after, or watch tv. I tell my dates about the story on CNN about the man who killed his wife because she kept asking him to cuddle after sex instead of watching sports. I believe he killed her with a hammer. Natasha
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Mystic Gemini
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posted February 19, 2006 09:58 PM
Thank goodness for my taurus placements ------------------
Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra *´¨)
¸.·´¸.·*´¨) ¸.·*¨)
(¸.·´ (¸.·´ * Lost in the peace of serenity
Blind my eyes I cannot see
Lost my soul but found my heart
Again a time, when I shall start IP: Logged |
libra78
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posted February 20, 2006 02:48 AM
Im not saying Geminis are or aren't good in bed- I really don't know, but I never met a Gemini who didnt think they were fantastic in bed... and I'm sure they are all not...IP: Logged |
sxycrzykewl221
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posted February 20, 2006 08:43 AM
my gemmie gets 5 stars!IP: Logged |
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