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posted February 18, 2006 06:12 PM            

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posted February 18, 2006 06:54 PM            

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It depends on the guy, some like to be chased and some like to to the chasing. From my experience (non astrological) most like the chase, but most of those who like the chase are flattered, reinforced by a woman's return of the proverbial "ball." I think alot of it goes back to basic, primal male instinct to hunt, etc. Personally I do not have any problem with making the first move, or moves there after, just watch for signals of reciporication and let him do some chasing as well. Certainly a Sag sun will want to do some kind of "hunting!"

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posted February 18, 2006 08:05 PM              

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i think he feels connected to you and likes you..
chase him...lol
i don't know about your chart. are you guys compatible astrologically?
you know if he's influenced by aqua, he likes anything different...lol this guy is more sensitive than he looks.
on second thought, there is not need to chase him...it seems to me that the feelings are mutual here. so just go with the flow...

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posted February 18, 2006 08:27 PM            

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shops... i think your moon is very much alive as you did say the "magic words" .. i want you...however, it seems like maybe it was impulsive....
I mean, he did ask you out... so... go... then you'll know... meet for something casual.. like lunch or breakfast... I don't think what he said about under his skin is bad.. i would say that he's been thinking about you too..

I personally feel more comfortable in the role of chasee rather than chaser but then again i'm older... i think ts much more common today with younger 20 somethings... so, men are used to it but whether they like it or not is a different story... I would have to agree that a Sag would want to do the chasing but... i think he is intrigued at the notion that you came right out and told him (in your aries moon way) that you are intrigued as well...

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posted February 18, 2006 08:48 PM              

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Have you ever chased a man and it ended up working out for you?

No, I've never chased a man.

I've witnessed a Gemini Sun woman with a Scorpio Moon in hot pursuit of an Aquarius Sun man with a Capricorn Moon in an office setting. This was a weird situation for me to watch, because not only did become very jealous and mean to any woman who talked to him, but she came off very strong. She was always asking him questions and if he wanted to go with her to get lunch or coffee. She had given him roses from her mother's garden too. Everybody noticed her pursuing and were asking him if he was interested. He said to me that he was not interested in her romantically, only as friends. Then one weekend went and passed, and on Monday she was VERY quiet. I don't know what happened. It was like a switch was flipped and she was cold. I asked him about it and he says he didn't know what was up with her and that it seemed like she had cooled down.

I am a complete control freak- and I feel like I give up my control if I chase a man- or do I lay ground for it by chasing a man? I cant decide- has the relationship been long term? how long? what are your influences and his?

How do you mean that you are a control freak? What is it that you do?

My cousin admits that she is a controlling. She is a Capricorn Sun with an Aries Moon. She becomes uncertain and more conscientious when she is around independent types. Independent people are mystifying to her. Her boyfriend is a Taurus Sun with a Taurus Moon, and he is definitely not independent (for Meyer's Briggs readers, she's an ENFP, and he's an ENFJ). She expects him to always tell her where he is going, who he is hanging out with, and expresses her anger if he is hanging out with female friends. They fight quite a bit. In her mind, since they are together, his stuff is hers as well. Obviously they have arguments about that. She keeps tabs on his emails and demanded the password to his email account. He still keeps in touch with his ex, which she is not happy with. She gives him ultimatums to stop communicating with the ex, or else they are breaking up. It goes on and on. She recently found an email he wrote telling his ex to write to another email account he has. Oy.

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posted February 18, 2006 09:00 PM              

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I think it depends on what your “desired result” is, as well.. You should know what you want from him before you go on and chase him, otherwise you'll end up hurt. Msging "Iwant you".. kinda says “I want you” lol.. guys aren’t all that attuned to any subliminal msgs.. like “ I want you now.. and then I also want a relationship with you”.. specially a Sag. He prolly took that as literally as it comes. If you're cool with something physical with him only, if that’s what you’d like to get form it… then I’m sure you will and everything’s cool.. but if you wanted more.. if you wanted to actually be with him.. I’m not sure this whole “I want you” business is the best idea.

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posted February 18, 2006 09:21 PM            

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posted February 18, 2006 11:06 PM              

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his aloofness seems very serious...
well don't ignore him, but just keep regular contact and see what happens...he could be scared, maybe needs more time to open up....

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posted February 18, 2006 11:11 PM            

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his aloofness seems very serious?
do you mean in general from his chart or to me?

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posted February 19, 2006 12:22 AM              

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not from his chart...but because you keep mentioning it..

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posted February 19, 2006 12:26 AM            

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lol...yeah i know- im trying to avoid these types and i usually do....blah!

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