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EightBitGnosis
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posted February 18, 2006 10:42 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is driving me nuts. The Mars wants to be flashy, smooth, and ooze stong sexuality. The Venus wants to shyly court a nice girl who isn't that over the top.

One seems to have so many ideas about how the other should be, but the further I separate between the two the more it seems like no girl could ever fit what I want, because I'm starting to want opposit things.

Hell, it feels like I should just say "**** it", learn the stupid game, and just have impulsive egotisical sex with hot bimbos

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Leo sun(9th hs), 0' Virgo moon(9th hs), Scorpio Asc., Merc/Mars Leo(9th hs)

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shop22much
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posted February 18, 2006 10:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for shop22much     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
you want opposite things? just find a woman who is a walking contradiction- its not that hard...i think most women are like this...

hot bimbos? how old are you anyways? i dont think random sex will help you out at all...i wouldnt go this route...

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EightBitGnosis
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posted February 18, 2006 10:49 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I find it hard to access both of these elements in a girl. Girls if seem to love loves my super-leo mode it seems like there is no room for venus to move in. No indication on her part that she has any deep feelings.

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shop22much
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posted February 18, 2006 10:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for shop22much     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I wouldnt sleep around but if you dont want deep commitment, or something long term I'd just date around, get to know people, gain some experiences,
and always know- in the end- you will still be alone, and i dont think a cancer venus can really handle frilvious, no strings attached sex-
just be yourself-
if someone cant accept you-
why bother having them in your life?

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EightBitGnosis
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posted February 18, 2006 11:17 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

It seems like I've advanced and grown so much in most elements of myself except relationships. I never really did that well. Just a few run-ins through highschool that only served to give me a basic idea of my values.

I can't decide if I'm just in a stupid little town of uninspired characters, or if I'm being too egotistical and need to be more understanding how other people are expressing themselves.

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Leo sun(9th hs), 0' Virgo moon(9th hs), Scorpio Asc., Merc/Mars Leo(9th hs)

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astro junkie
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posted February 19, 2006 01:17 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
... can't keep up with the bimbo's anyways ... so ...

Why do you think the lovable you has something to do with only your Leo Mars?

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EightBitGnosis
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posted February 20, 2006 03:30 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

It ends up like this,

Leo is my passion. Leo is firey. Passion is love. Here's where the split comes. My Leo wants to be bold and sexy to show love. Yet my Cancer wants to be understanding and deeply aware of the girl I have my attention on.

My want for intimacy gets run over by the part of myself that lives for exciting passion, and vice-versa.

I do not mean the Leo part of me to be vain and careless with people's hearts, but my passion is part of myself I need to express.

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astro junkie
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posted February 20, 2006 04:08 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I DO understand what you are saying, I'm one of those girls who are a "walking contradiction" like shop22much said. I've got Venus in demure Virgo, and Mars in deliberate Scorpio. I've also got a Cancer Moon, a Singleton Uranus in Leo, my NN in Leo, and a Sun in the 5th House. We are working with similar energies.

So you do not consider your Virgo Moon to be similar to your Cancer Venus? Have you experienced pain from feeling like you were taken advantage of, perhaps, telling yourself if you'd kept your Leo Mars stronger, it wouldn't have happened?

Try not to feel so compartmentalized, and realize, the more you try to analyze a potential romance, the less chance the two of you will have to feel each others REAL vibes.

It all becomes a product of the whole, not based on just one or two of your behaviors. Don't feel like you are so weird. Life is a process and we NEVER reach a point where we exhale and feel we've arrived. Even if you feel that way, it's temporary, cuz there's always another challenge around the corner.

PS: Passion IS NOT always love.

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SavageScorpio
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posted February 20, 2006 04:44 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cancer venus most likely cannot handle frivilous over the top sex.... most water venus's have a very hard time with this (the ones I know of who can fool themselves into this mode require a lot of mind altering substances). Also, yes... girls doooo love the whole Leo mars, most definetly. I think Leo..mars is probably one of the most appealing placements...well not appealing maybe, entertaining. Leo mars like to have sex with mirrors everywhere and are extremely flamboyant and loud about their sexuality for the most part, it can be really overbearing/intimidating/scary...it just depends, .. well this is what I've observed from the people I've known with that placement. Cancer venus is also one of the most endearing placements... atleast you don't have scorp venus and aqua mars like I do, double fixed... (I have like 6 planets in fixed signs).. with the Leo mars you are likely to catch many girls attention, just be careful about who you ..let see the other side of you ya know.. look for someone who has the capacity to understand the depth that you have and who see's things the same way.

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