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~nae unregistered
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posted March 01, 2006 04:36 AM
Sometimes when I'm scooting around this site I find discussions about Aquarians, and I get the distinct impression that a few people around here dislike us Aqua's because of our, um, lack of sensitivity or emotionality? Well, I can think of a few famous aquarians who might challenge this notion: Oprah Winfrey Sarah McLachlan Carol King Sheryl Crow Garth Brooks Rob Thomas Jane Seymour Jennifer Aniston Geena Davis Charles Dickens Lewis Carroll Mozart Schubert Presidents Lincoln, Roosevelt, and Reagan Charles Darwin (ok, i'm starting to get off track now, but you get the idea with the first few!)Of course, I did find one exception... Paris Hilton!!! ------------------ Rising sign Scorpio Sun sign Aquarius Moon Pisces IP: Logged |
shop22much Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted March 01, 2006 05:24 AM
i dont dislike aquas at all, i always enjoy talking to them(esp mercury in aquas)...they always keep you guessing, have an intelligence rarely seen in today's society, and they seem to always think outside the box.... first guy i really cared for was an aqua/gemini moon, and though he hurt me deeply- we still remain friends(friends for almost 5 years..wow)...i do agree with their detachment being a huge turn off- most women want stability in a man- not a man who flip flops on how he feels depending on how ****** you treat him or not(aquas love b/tches i tell you!)...sooner or later the guards have to come down...nobody wants that in a relationship(lack of stability)...well most dont i assume..IP: Logged |
Touchstone unregistered
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posted March 01, 2006 08:24 AM
I get on great with Aqua's. Always have done. Two close friends are Aqua's IP: Logged |
oddball unregistered
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posted March 01, 2006 08:49 AM
Aquas do care. They just don't let you know they care.IP: Logged |
WaterNymph unregistered
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posted March 01, 2006 09:18 AM
But if they don’t let you know they care, then how do you know they care? IP: Logged |
proxieme unregistered
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posted March 01, 2006 09:30 AM
You have to catch them looking at you tenderly when they don't think you can see.That seems to be big w/ my husband, anyway. (And don't let them know that you caught them...just notice.) IP: Logged |
WaterNymph unregistered
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posted March 01, 2006 09:43 AM
One thing I’ve noticed is, they seem to almost be ashamed if they feel strong emotions ( unless it’s anger ). I suppose they like to feel in control…don’t we all.“And don't let them know that you caught them...just notice.” Ahh I have done that many a times - and many a times they’ve run away IP: Logged |
Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 117 From: Registered: Feb 2010
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posted March 01, 2006 09:53 AM
I have quite a few Aqua friends girlfriends and one special Aqua guy. The aloofness is what gets to ppl. They care they really do and it is deep. Yes Prox those tender stares is a good implication of what they feel. I have mercury in Aqua and so does he and we just talk with our minds..WN, yes they will run sometimes when they know you know how deeply they feel about you.. IP: Logged |
sue g unregistered
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posted March 01, 2006 10:42 AM
nae,I have a very strong connection with an Aquarian......... This person has helped me more than most I have met in my life..... We are very different in ways but that is where the healing is taking place......I am being taught to stand back more and be objective...... All of the Aquas I have know have left a very strong impression on me..... I find them intriguing, intelligent and "original" I admire them ! IP: Logged |
Cardinalgal unregistered
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posted March 01, 2006 11:07 AM
Hi nae I think it's just a question of different methods/levels of expression of emotions. I am an air sign but I have a great deal of water in my chart so I find it easier to express my emotions perhaps than those with more air signs present. My partner (people must be so bored with hearing this! ) has 4 planets in Aqua but he tries his absolute best to express his feelings when he knows it's important. I appreciate that so much because I know it doesn't come easily to him. I love the Aquas I know very much! IP: Logged |
Hexxie unregistered
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posted March 01, 2006 12:02 PM
I Aquarians!!~The End~ ------------------ `Who are you?' said the Caterpillar. This was not an encouraging opening for a conversation. Alice replied, rather shyly, `I--I hardly know, sir, just at present-- at least I know who I WAS when I got up this morning, but I think I must have been changed several times since then.' ~Lewis Carroll :::Libra Sun / 29* Gemini Rising / Aquarius Moon::: IP: Logged |
Touchstone unregistered
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posted March 01, 2006 04:01 PM
My two male Aqua friends have moon in Sag and moon in Aqua. Both are extremely friendly and accepting of others. You can say anything to them without shocking them! Truly broadminded, the pair of them They treat me like 'one of the lads' and I love it (tomboy that I am). IP: Logged |
Lousianagrl unregistered
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posted March 01, 2006 04:51 PM
I love aquarians. But then again I love every sign, lol. Well I wouldn't say 'love' but I like talking to 'em all. They all think so differently- like I know these two guys who are best friends, a gemini and a scorp, and I used to think they were soo alike (they both talked like the Scorpio, of course). Then I would be with them and the gemini would be very talkative with his hands and dramatically exicting, whereas the scorp would just stand there with his arms crossed and a sneaky smile spread across his lips. lol.Also I can see why an aquarius would hurt one's feelings because I know an aqua guy who talks to EVERYONE. Him and I will be joking around then all of the sudden he will go to someone else and it stings me for some reason. But then I think "I do the same thing to people without even thinking about it" Has anyone ever had an aquarius teacher? ------------------ Aquarius sun, Pisces rising & Venus, Scorpio moon My man is like the rolling thunder, passionate like a wild flame His love is strong, like the heat of summer, he calms me down like the cool, cool rain His deep, wonderful ways amaze me It's no wonder why I love my baby My man'll never leave me, he always tells me so It's no wonder why I love my Scorpio IP: Logged |
Rede411 Newflake Posts: 4 From: Framingham, MA USA Registered: Jan 2010
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posted March 01, 2006 04:52 PM
I Love Aquas as well and Oddball hit the nail on the head. Aquas do care...very deeply in fact for not only one but all us...just that they don't show it. I myself am the same way....only a selected few know how deeply I care..sshhhhh!! Aries sun/Aquarius Moon IP: Logged |
BlueTopaz124 Knowflake Posts: 207 From: Portland, OR, USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 01, 2006 08:13 PM
An Aqua I was involved with recently really would show he cared, and that was one the the 'selling points' that drew me in to him constantly, is his level of caring; he has a very tender open heart if you know him on a personal level. I do agree though that an Aqua can act as though they don't care and are without mercy...When it's all business though, look out, he can disconnect his feelings faster than pulling the plug on the cell phone charger... IP: Logged |
Beowulf unregistered
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posted March 02, 2006 04:48 AM
Hello people... I'm new here! Just introducting myself. Fascinated by this subject because I'm passionately in love with an Aquarian: Sun, venus and mercury in 3rd house, Scorpio Rising, Gemini moon in 7th. The main problem is her sun does not aspect her Ascendent! And I'm told this means that she finds it really difficult to express who she really is. To compensate, she seems to put up the 'mask' of the sex goddess, which I feel is uncomfortable for her. But it's what everybody around her seems to want her to be, although she has Saturn in her 8th house!! Sex problems, maybe? However, Saturn is trine her ascendant. She does give me those stares when I'm not looking at her, even taking photos of me using her mobile phone. But when it comes to actual closeness she is as cold as the north pole. Can anybody help me understand how to cope with this. IP: Logged |
gert unregistered
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posted March 02, 2006 06:38 AM
I have an Aquarian buddy who has moon,mercury,mars in Pisces. He behaves so odd at times,a bit over sentimental and irrational.Just the other day we had a fight and he said that I was self -centred and selfish.I didn't understand where all that came from until he added that everytime I am going through a crisis he has to be there for me and I don't do the same(not true at all,moon in cancer here). I was really hurt but apologised,even though I didn't believe most of what he was saying.He used to be as cool as a cucumber,keeping all his sentiments within but now he keeps on bringing old issues to the fold even though I thought we had already resolved them. Sometimes I think he can be quite emotionaly manipulative and demoralizing with his antics but I am a patient guy. Aquarians are not as unemotional as people may think.They just find original and more "constructive" ways of letting emotions out.
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hippichick Knowflake Posts: 588 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted March 02, 2006 06:51 AM
BeowulfWelcome! I too was/am quite taken with an Aqua, however male, but the jist is the same. After much research (there is alot on this forum about Aquas) and much self study and contemplation I do not think they are so much cold, I refered to mine as "iceman" several times as they just come off that way due to their innate ability and need to repress emotions. They can be very warm and feeling, but about the time they begin to let it slip out, they run and they run from themselves. I think they are afraid of deep feelings, emotions. They are not comfortable at emoting, it is a plane on which they choose to not function. You have to learn alot of telepathy in dealing with Aquas and you for sure have to have a life of your own and not look to them for emotional gratification. All in all, it is an energy thing, it is just the level on which they operate a "frequency" of sorts. I love Aquas and there is much to be learned from them as all sun signs. I always have a few in my life and with my Pisces sun and venus I am highly Aqua myself with a close conj of Mars, Jupiter and Merc in Aqua in the 3rd with Saturn lingering several degrees before, so I come off quite cold and aloof at times myself! And for the stares, she is studying you, making sense of it all on a highly intellectual level, where they operate! G'luck!!!!!!!! IP: Logged |
astro junkie unregistered
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posted March 03, 2006 12:31 AM
Welcome BeowulfIP: Logged |
Aphrodite unregistered
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posted March 03, 2006 12:55 AM
I dunno, Aquarians being caring? I've found that they are only "caring" if you are doing what they think is right or they are helping you along to get you to think that they are right. Aquarians tend to look caring to outsiders when they get what they want and things are going good. If they don't follow their own rules in principle, they expect you to let them be. But oh no, if you were to do contrary, they point it out saying they are being caring. Uh huh.IP: Logged |
BlueTopaz124 Knowflake Posts: 207 From: Portland, OR, USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 03, 2006 12:59 AM
Aphrodite, I know exactly what you're talking about with Aquarians...I've seen exactly that behaviour in some of the people I know under this sign. Kind of a do as I say, not as I do sort of thingieIP: Logged |
Love Knowflake Posts: 54 From: Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 03, 2006 01:53 AM
I have just started...well...I would not say dating, but making friends with an Aquarian guy. And I have to admit that at first I was not at all interested in getting to know him better simply because he was an Aquarius and I am a Cancer. My experience with Aquarians in the past has been that I like them, but they are hard to get close to and can be pretty detached.This guy, however, seems fairly sensitive so far. Maybe that is mostly due to his Venus being in Pisces. Either way, I feel much more comfortable around him than any other Aquarian I have ever met. Love
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sweetlibra unregistered
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posted March 03, 2006 03:22 AM
how romantic proxieme Aqua moon here and I loveee Aquas IP: Logged |
Texas White Star unregistered
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posted March 03, 2006 01:57 PM
I am an Aqua. We love, We drink and We be merry. But we also do not let our guard down. The reason for this is the fear of being rejected. We are aloof, We are sensitive, and We do care but not the way most people think we should. We are prone to be around children who can accept our love for what it is, pure. We are teachers, we are intellect, we are intuitive. We know when to reach out and when to back off. We know who we are and what we want. But we never want to see anyone in agony or pain. So therefore, we are healers. We can reach out and touch someone with out their knowing. Just a wisp of wind on their persona to let them know that we are here and we care. I could go on and on, but dont want to bore anyone. TWS IP: Logged |
sue g unregistered
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posted March 03, 2006 02:08 PM
TWS healers indeed IP: Logged |