posted March 25, 2006 04:34 PM
Uranus square Urnaus occurs twice in one's lifetime; at around mid to late 20's and late 50's to early 60's. In the first one , the panets are seperating, and this marks your coming of age, your moving from childhood into adulthood. You have left the cocoon of your immediate family and moved into establishing our own place in life. At the very least you have taken on responsibility for yourself, and it can be quite a disturbing time, while at the same time exhilarating. You probably feel that you can be and do anything in your life that you want during that time.
The second Square is a when Uranus is moving back towards a conjunction with itself, and causes you to look back over your life and reflect on what you could have accomplished. It is a very personal evaluation, based on how you feel internally about our growth, not how others feel about it. If the self-evaluation does not reflect favorably on your efforts, you may decide to actively make some changes in your life. People often retire or change jobs completely under this effect. What ever you do, you will do it in a way that will allow you to get enjoyment out of it. Working for the old mighty buck just won’t appeal to you any more.
I suspect that the first case reflects your situation.
The effects of Uranus Conjunct Venus can be quite spectacular. You will feel a deep need to seek new freedom and excitement through your intimate relationships. If you are currently in a relationship and it's not fulfilling your inner needs, you may want to break away from its rigid expectations and find a new and fresh relationship. However, you may find that the old relationship can be made over if both of you are willing, and become that new exciting relationship you crave. Every relationship settles into routines after a time, but good ones can re-ignite the passion and feelings that they started with, if both individuals care enough about each other. The nature by which your relationship can be renewed depends upon your temperament and needs. Whichever way you go, your need for a deep and passionate relationship right now will not let you stay in a status quo type relationship. By the time this aspect is pasted, you will make the changes you need in this area of your life.
So you see, neither of these aspects is a gloom or doom situation that some may have you thinking that they are. Uranus's job is to get you off of the dime, so to speak, to get you living again in a new and more involved manner.
Good luck, I've been through both Uranus Squares, and benifited from my experiences.
Lanny