Lindaland
  Astrology
  Taurus man-pisces woman??

Post New Topic  Post A Reply
profile | register | preferences | faq | search

UBBFriend: Email This Page to Someone! next newest topic | next oldest topic
Author Topic:   Taurus man-pisces woman??
monmonitaa
unregistered
posted April 08, 2006 04:38 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi,

I've been friends with this taurus guy for almost 4 years now. When I first met him i was really attracted to him, but then I was put off him by his seeming coldness and insensitivity.... he hadnt had a girlfriend in years and seemed like one of those "not in touch with their emotions" nightmare men! As we both grew older we kept getting in and out of relationships...and the more he grew the more he opened up to me, and i quickly saw that the coldness is only and act n that he was actually such a sensitive softie inside.

And in my mind i couldn't help thinking how good of a couple we;d make since i always felt i had more in common with him, than with whoever i m with, in terms of views of life n wavelength..n i continued liking him even throughout my relationships..however it was never the case that we're both single at the same time...And more over 2 yrs ago i moved away from home...so it would be long distance which i dread..n as the time passed by it was TOO TOO LATE because we were FRIENDS..we counselled each other bout relationships and stuff...

However now that i m moving back home...and now that we;re both single.. i cant help thinking i really want to be with the man i;ve always wanted ...but i dont want to needlessly fill myself with fantasies anticipation and illusions ..

The point is I CANNOT READ HIM AT ALL like sometimes he ll say things as..: Oh so ur taken again? I dont have a chance then?...... and me being v smiten by him...would just freeze when he says that...then HE d laugh and be like Ahahahha gotchya take it easy! Or once he said.... it just looks like we;'re gonna get married doesnt it? N then again when i freeze he says he s joking again! ... and it hurts me! coz u dont play with ppl's emotions like that! Right now he s doing all he can to make sure when i get back home i have a good job n everything... he s being v supportive. But i m scared that he s just being a good friend n i m acting like a lil girl with pig tails who wants to turn her friend into her boyfriend.

IP: Logged

monmonitaa
unregistered
posted April 09, 2006 12:43 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
haaaallllo?!

IP: Logged

13anshee
unregistered
posted April 09, 2006 01:07 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i know how you feel
i used to be like that too
over analyse the situation
seriously, if you like him, like really like him NOW then do it
what do you have to loose?
if he says no you still have a good friend
wounded pride, but it won't take long for that to heal

and by the sounds of it, i think it's fated taht after all that time you just convieneintly happen to both be single

shoot for the moon, even if you miss you'll land amoung the stars

IP: Logged

monmonitaa
unregistered
posted April 10, 2006 06:02 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks alot for the boost!

but I REALLYt dont have the guts.. its not just about wounded pride its about making a comfy friendship awkward....its also about ruining this perfect fantasy i ve always had about him...and all my relationships were about fantasies turning dramatically ugly... but i kind of expected it before coz i never chose someone who s suited to me....but this time if it does.. i ll get down on myself and all my theories about relationships and hope n love....So part of me would rather keep it this nice mystery...

IP: Logged

hippichick
Knowflake

Posts: 588
From:
Registered: May 2009

posted April 10, 2006 10:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Mon.

I recently started dating a Taurus man, I am a Pisces sun female. I had my eye on him for so long, but after doing my research, i learned he was living with a girlfriend, so I respectfully backed off. But when I got wind of the grilfriend being an x, I made my move. A group of us were going out after work, so I invited him. He took my ph no. and later called and could not make it, but was very eager to set up a rain check.

He told me on our 2nd date last weekend, that he is glad I did what I did as he is very slow to make the first move.

I do want to add, though, this being the first Bull I have dated, Nililive responded to my post on SU regaarding Bull men and he said that the fish girl and bull man union was "surreal." Did not know at the time exactly what he ment by that, but I have found out. I get into this woozy, dreamy state around this Taurus man, which in retrospect I felt like I was drinking alcohol, but have not had a drop around him! I have memory lapses and feel almost high, I definatley do not feel "normal" around him! After contemplating this, I think that his very earthy presence kind of captures my woozy, watery nature and instead of stabelizing it as traditional astrology would have one beleive, it intensifies it as my water has no place to go, captivated by this quite captivating earthy man!

Good, luck! I have several Taurus girl friends and they really are wonderful folks!

IP: Logged

monmonitaa
unregistered
posted April 10, 2006 11:00 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh hip chick this is really re-assuring!

Well he told me he s not over his ex...but yet he has feelings for another girl. HE didnt tell me who this other girl is, although i usually counsel him in relationships and he tell me about his crushes...so i dunno what he meant...

But really ur post was v uplifting... if u could give me a link to ur old post n what they told u it d be lovely.... but if u cant odnt worry about it

IP: Logged

Nihilive
unregistered
posted April 11, 2006 11:54 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I already vouch highly for this union. I am a Taurus Sun with a Pisces Sun and it couldn't be better.

IP: Logged

monmonitaa
unregistered
posted April 11, 2006 05:31 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lol u have two suns? Never heard of that one before!

i m guessing the second sun was SON?

yeah theoretically speaking it sounds like union is a good combination of ... the lsot dreaminess,,,with the stable rational warmth of taurus..

IP: Logged

pixelpixie
Newflake

Posts: 8
From: ON Canada
Registered: Apr 2009

posted April 11, 2006 05:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just be friends, be yourself, be honest.

No expectations, a day at a time..
He cares for you.
Flirt back, see how much....

IP: Logged

monmonitaa
unregistered
posted April 11, 2006 09:43 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Flirting back? ... SO u think from what i said...in TAUrean language, this actually means flirting?

IP: Logged

hippichick
Knowflake

Posts: 588
From:
Registered: May 2009

posted April 11, 2006 11:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mon

From what I am finding out, these guys like to take things very slow. It feels quite deliberate, but slow and steady.

I definately agree with being friends first. We have agreed not to have sex until we have gotten to know eachother better and we have spent twice now, some very intimate time together without sex and it feels wonderful! Words can not even describe!

At my age, 44, I am not messing around anymore with emotionally, or otherwise unavailable men so I am determined to take this one nice and slow as the Bull wants and make it last.

It is interesting, that you mention his other invlovment with other women. My guy is is recently out of a relationship that was a long time in ending and he has told me he is "dating" friends now, and that he is not "looking" for a long term relationhips. However, I think the later two are just his way of taking things slow, which is fine with me, I would rather have him ready for me full and true when the time comes.

I am finding that this connection, Fish and Bulls is quite fine, as I mentioned I have a few Taurus girlfriends and they are good friends, one since high school. The connection I feel with this guy is quite magical, not like any other connection I have flet.

The other thread I speak of is on Soul Unions titled "Bull Men." It is farily recent.

Terri

IP: Logged

hippichick
Knowflake

Posts: 588
From:
Registered: May 2009

posted May 09, 2006 10:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Monmon

What ever happened to the Taurus guy?

IP: Logged

All times are Eastern Standard Time

next newest topic | next oldest topic

Administrative Options: Close Topic | Archive/Move | Delete Topic
Post New Topic  Post A Reply
Hop to:

Contact Us | Linda-Goodman.com

Copyright 2011

Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com © 2000
Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a