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MoonPixie
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posted April 09, 2006 12:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MoonPixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My parents last night have decided to seperate for the second time in the past 8 months.

The first time was early October 2005. I have no exact date but the time that my father left was around 12:30am.

The second time was yesterday (April 8, 2006) at 11:15 pm.

Their info:
Mom = June 22, 1952 Manila, Philippines 2:00pm
Dad = April 15, 1950 Davao, Philippines Birthtime Unknown

They got married on May 26 1984 around 3pm in Chicago, Illinois.

I was just hoping that if someone can interpret their charts for me and see what the hell is going wrong with them and if I'll have to be dealing with more of their ******** for the next few years to come.

They're fighting because my dad spent most of his money for retirement/savings from the past 20 years but doesn't really care too much because he believes that he can earn it all back. My mom is just really emotionally and mentally abusive at times so he's just sick of her anyways. But not she's nagging him about the money and doesn't trust him and questions everything he does.

Someone please do their chart... please.. I can't stand them anymore. I guess I'm looking for a reason to not hate them both.

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daydream32
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posted April 09, 2006 01:11 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
aww.....I'm sorry )-:

I don't know if I can interpret this though......I would need to know more information than just their sun signs. sorry )-:
www.astro.com is a good source though if you want to get charts and interpretations. Go to the free reports section.

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wilsontc
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posted April 09, 2006 01:33 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moon,

Your parents have many stresses, as you most likely already know. Most challenging are the many stresses to your dad's Moon (home, also emotions) and Mars (being, also anger). In addition, they have Uranus (friends, also rebellion) conjunct (energy is combined with) Venus (relationships), indicating they need to have "freedom" in their relationship with each other. Hating them won't help them solve their problems or help you handle their break ups. I wish you and your family the best.

Relating,

Tim

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noreenz
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posted April 09, 2006 01:37 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, all I can say is please see past all this. Understand that this is thier problem and security issues//money issues//trust are often the cause of separation. Understand that they are still both your parents and are both probably very good people, look for the good. Often, times like these will bring out an ugly side of people which of course is never easy to deal with. Please try not to judge either of them, as you are not in their shoes.

I am sorry you have to experience it all, but remember, many people grow apart.

Noreen

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pidaua
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posted April 10, 2006 02:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pidaua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moon,

I am so sorry for what you are going through. I will try to take a look at the charts - but you already have a couple of wonderful interpreters here.

Take care,

~Pidaua

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astro junkie
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posted April 16, 2006 05:08 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If they have that Venus Conjunct Uranus, they are the type who need to give each other space, not only for their own sanity, but for the sake of the relationship to work. Sometimes people don't feel they have a sense of freedom if certain things in their life do not align with their deepest desires. It's possible they can stay together if they find that sense of freedom, which can sometimes be fantasy/unrealistic, or it can be real but temporary. That's why the breaks are so important. It takes cetain people longer to work out certain factions in their lives. No one is at exactly the same level at the same time.

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... it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness

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Happy Dragon
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posted April 17, 2006 09:38 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
M.Pix .. resident volunteer astrologers ..

I don't know if it helps to know these (transits)..
however thought I'd list them just in case ..
maybe if mum and dad could understand the astro energies operating ..
they may see things somewhat different ..

the Uranus and Neptune transits are likely to last a while ..
the current Saturn transit in the Composite .. probably till begining of June '06 ..

MP .. am sorry to read of your folks troubles ..
can only imagine how it might be for you ..
(my folks fought a lot .. was fairly unsettling for me)

your parents transits :

without birth times
outer planets only ..
close orb i.e. under 1 degree ..
major aspects only ..

Listed as Transiting to Natal ..

your mums' 'transits October 2005
Saturn conjunct Lillith
Lillith conjunct Pluto
Lillith sextile Neptune

your dads' 'transits October 2005
Saturn square Lillith
Neptune trine Neptune
Neptune opposite Pluto
Pluto conjunct Chiron

Composite chart .. October 2005 transits:
Uranus trine Uranus
Neptune trine Mercury
Chiron trine Sun
Lillith conjunct Pluto

* * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *

your mums' transits April 2006
Jupiter trine Mercury
Uranus trine Uranus
Neptune trine Neptune
Neptune opposite Pluto
Chiron opposite Pluto
Lillith trine Chiron

your dads' transits April 2006
Jupiter square Pluto
Uranus opposite Saturn
Uranus sextile Mercury
Lillith trine Lillith
Lillith opposite Venus

Composite chart .. April 2006 transits:
*Saturn square Venus*
Uranus square Mercury
*Pluto square Saturn*

* * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *
M.P. your April 2006 transits ..

Chiron square Pluto
Lillith sextile Pluto
Lillith trine Neptune
* * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *

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