posted May 03, 2006 09:15 PM              

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I can't seem to spur on any discussion with my topics of interest...

How about this one!

Anyone have a crush, someone you felt chemistry with, and the synastry confirmed it- say mars-venus contacts, and the other sexual attraction aspects and romantic ones- and you found out the interest/attraction was NOT reciprocated? I'm not speaking of a failed relationship, but of being deceived or fooled by what you thought was a mutual interest which you later had proven wrong...

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posted May 14, 2006 01:08 PM              

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I don't know, maybe it's because there are so many possible reasons why it's not reciprocated.

I know that in Synastry, a person's Neptune in the other person's 7th House can make the 7th House person a little hazy on the facts. But those things can be overcome too.

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posted May 25, 2006 05:08 PM              

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AJ, i still dont understand what does it mean if my neptune is in the other person's 1st house. And my moon in his 7th house, would that make things more confusing for him?

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posted June 02, 2006 12:19 AM              

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No, I wouldn't necessarily apply a blanket rule when it comes to Neptune in Synastry. I say the 7th because it has to do with partnerships, so aggrements should be made with care.

But if it's your Neptune in the other's 1st, that will take on a different energy. I mean, in every Synastry Chart, someone's Neptune is going to land in someone's House. Depending, Neptune isn't always going to be blamed for oppressive feelings, such as if it is combined with an artistic focus. Example: Neptune in the other's 11th House - kindred spirits, perhaps unhindered creativity.

It's good to just go over some basic interps. You don't have to memorize everything, but you'll get a basic understanding of how the House & Planets hustle each other.

If your Moon is in his 7th, I'd venture to say you've jumped headfirst into this. He knows your feelings for him are accessible at most times. What do you get a feel for?

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posted June 02, 2006 05:33 AM            

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Hi CapGirl,

No, I was never deceived by my gut feelings, but that is because I have very, very good intuition. So mostly, if I felt the vibe, it turned out to be true, but this is purely to do with the strong gut feeling I get around people. And if I feel that something is not quite right, than it turns out to be so, too.
However, I know some couples where the example is completely opposite. There is no indication in synastry of any massively strong attraction (no Ven/Mars, Ven/Plu, Sun/Moon strong links), but they were mad about each other, and one couple like this hase been married for 15 years now (i know them well, because it is my sister and her husband).
So, it makes me believe that astrology is just a part of the puzzle, and that there are probably many other intangible things that make love happen.
How about the psychological motivations (eg. men attracted to women that look/behave like their mothers etc), or simply a concious attraction to someone (say, someone has wonderful synastry, but perhaps the person is not their type). Because, I may have great synastry with someone, but if this person is fat, crude, or there is no chemistry etc, I will not be attracted to them, full stop. And, I know men and women who are instantly attracted to certain type of people (like say Latino looking, or Asian, or blonde and tall), so there are many other equations to think of besides synastry. That is why I think it is possible that synastry can't explain the attraction 100%, there are many other concious and subconcious factors in play. Just my opinion, Selena.

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posted June 02, 2006 08:48 PM              

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I couldn't check the synastry between me and Sagi female colleague, however 2 days ago only I was jolted when I had a talk with her (finally I told her of my feelings) and it was kind of negative answer that she had nothing for me.
After affects of knowing such a thing is like me getting feelings of betrayal by my own heart/feelings/instincts itself As my own feelings developed on these instincts that she too had some kind of feelings for me.
Yes, it could have been case of pure infatuation, still I can't make myself believe that she doesn't have any feelings but mere respect. I even think is she faking as it is difficult getting betrayed by one's instincts. I can't think that my own Piscean romantic imaginary dreams is the only cause and the instincts never played a role in it.

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