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Mama Mia
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posted June 05, 2006 05:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What I noticed here on the forum we hardly ever talk about our children we help and comment on each others lives but we rarely mention our childre..

I have talked about my Pisces son b4 he is something else he really is. He is so into women it makes no sense.. Every night he is trying to call 2 and three different girls in his class. And talk about aggressive he is so that. As soon as he see's ppl he jumps at them like they are money or toys or something. He is always in ppl's face. I mean it is good and all but he is to extreme with it he really is. He is even into older ladies like grown women.

We were washin clothes yesterday and he saw this lady in the laundromat and he instantly latched on to her and he was following her around talking to her like he was a grown man. He tells her you are cute all you need to do is comb your hair. I was so embarrassed..He talks alot a whole lot.

He is very sneaky and I catch him doing things all the time, but I am real sharp so he cannot pull one over on me. Plus I too am Pisces and I know how things work..

He stays in trouble in school running his mouth and occassionally fighting with other boys..What am Igoing to do with him..His chart speaks for itself..

Planetary positions
planet sign degree house motion
Sun Pisces 21°15'29 03 direct
Moon Capricorn 12°56'27 01 direct
Mercury Aries 03°47'12 03 retrograde
Venus Aries 22°34'38 04 direct
Mars Scorpio 11°58'00 11 direct
Jupiter Aries 06°15'57 03 direct
Saturn Taurus 01°09'14 04 direct
Uranus Aquarius 14°52'43 02 direct
Neptune Aquarius 03°32'54 02 direct
Pluto Sagittarius 10°29'46 12 stationary (R)
True Node Leo 21°48'40 08 direct


House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Sagittarius 18°08'08
2nd House Capricorn 23°48'50
3rd House Pisces 04°29'32
Imum Coeli Aries 10°10'01
5th House Taurus 07°24'00
6th House Taurus 28°56'20
Descendant Gemini 18°08'08
8th House Cancer 23°48'50
9th House Virgo 04°29'32
Medium Coeli Libra 10°10'01
11th House Scorpio 07°24'00
12th House Scorpio 28°56'20

Major aspects
Sun Square Ascendant 3°07
Moon Sextile Mars 0°58
Moon Square Jupiter 6°40
Mercury Conjunction Jupiter 2°29
Mercury Sextile Neptune 0°14
Venus Trine Ascendant 4°26
Mars Square Uranus 2°55
Jupiter Sextile Neptune 2°43
Jupiter Trine Pluto 4°14
Saturn Square Neptune 2°24
Uranus Sextile Pluto 4°23
Uranus Sextile Ascendant 3°15
Numbers indicate orb (deviation from the exact aspect angle).

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pidaua
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posted June 05, 2006 05:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pidaua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
oh, I'm sorry Mama...I wish I could help, but I don't have any kids - only nephews. My Scorp Nephew is very curious of people but I haven't seen him too "fresh". He's only 3 1/2 though and he did grab my breast and ask what it was LOL..

Have you asked your son why he is acting this way?

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posted June 05, 2006 05:34 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is his father around to help raise him?

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Mama Mia
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posted June 05, 2006 05:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Pid..


Aphrodite:
Somewhat he lives out of town and he knows what I have been going through with him. He is going to go a be with him when school gets out for summer break in about another week..

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nove731
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posted June 05, 2006 06:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for nove731     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Haha, he sounds just like my best guy friend. Granted, he's 16, but I do remember him acting that way when we were about 9 or 10. Hahahahah

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posted June 05, 2006 07:29 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh dear…he sounds cute though, maybe it’s a phase? In a couple of years he may calm down

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Natasha Patrick
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posted June 05, 2006 08:39 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi there i am also a pisces with a 8 year old pisces son can i please tell you that i am glad to hear i am not the only one dealing with this sort of thing my son is exactly the same and at the moment i am pulling my hair out he has gone to bed early for the past 2 weeks, being a pisces my self i understand that he is rebelling but i honestly didnt expect him to be this way at such a young age

well it looks like we need some luck
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posted June 05, 2006 09:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
His Sun, Mercury and Venus are all conjunct Albert Einstein's.

Einstein:
Sun in Pisces 23'30
Mercury in Aries 03'08
Venus in Aries 16'59

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writesomething
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posted June 05, 2006 09:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for writesomething     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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BlueTopaz124
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posted June 05, 2006 10:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BlueTopaz124     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
MM...part of it is the age. Boys at that age are fairly comfortable around women, partly because he is able to identify so closely with you and how he relates to you. He has you pretty much to himself, doesn't have to share you with dad. He is, in part, relating to them the same way he relates to you, but sees them as women apart from you as his mother. He is also trying out his relating skills to girls/women and see what 'works'. Plus, having Venus in Aries and Mars in Scorpio - women, look out right there - fire and water and instant steam all in the same person. He's direct in manner for sure with Mercury in Aries & Ascendant in Sagittarius. A lot of direct-acting fire. His Pisces sun will soften the edges a bit and likes to connect and relate to people, plus with your Pisces influence to help him reflect a bit more. This is why you see him as all action, it's his Aries, Scorpio & Sagittarius in him. Fire and dynamic Water (Scorpio) doesn't know any other way to be except out there. When he's with the boys, though, you won't see much softness or reflection, he has to compete with the other boys, it's their nature. Mars Scorpio could give him a bit of shrewdness or cleverness native to this sign, but not around a Mom who has eyes in the back of her head...he won't get away with much.

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Mama Mia
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posted June 06, 2006 09:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks guys for your replies they mean so much..

Natasha Patrick, Well you do know what I am going through now don't you..

Acoustic GOD, I knew when I was pregnant that my son would be special I felt it in my spirit I mean famous special..He has a huge destiny ahead of him he is going to be something great, Whatever he does it is going to involve ppl. He just loves ppl. I would imagine he gets that from me I love ppl to ver much interested in ppl but I am aware of the lines..Ppl have given me their phone numbers and asked can he play with my kids bc they have so much fun with him..I have countless stories that would crack you up about him..The thing that I hear most about him is he is so smart..I thinks sometimes to much for his own good..

Blue that really made me think, that was great how you analyzed that for me.. Thankyou..

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Battle of Evermore
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posted June 06, 2006 12:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Battle of Evermore     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow....that's interesting. Well, at least he'll probably be able to make his way in the world. I don't know, I think some kids really have to get their egos injured before they come to their senses. I have a ton of Leo in my chart, and that's pretty much what it took for me when I was younger.

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Rev. Alice
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posted June 06, 2006 01:38 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Here is something from my web site, addressed to todays youth and their parents.

Since the late 1970's most children born have been very different from earlier generations. The new children enter life with the awareness of an adult already in place. Unlike earlier generations, they cannot be conditioned to some idea which adults hold for them. They are who they are and will resist attempts to change them....even as you would, if someone tried that with you.

Older generations depended on parental bonds and conditioning to help them structure their self-image and sense of identity. Programing your child was considered a primary parental duty. But evolution marches on and in the early 1970's humanity reached a turning point. At first there were only a few of these new-type individuals, but indications are that by 1980 eighty percent of new births were Indigo.

These children need and desire much less personal focus than older generations did. Too much focused attention, or being surrounded by too many people for too much of the time, can present as A.D.D. or A.D.H.D. Toddlers often need more space than would have been thought appropriate for children in older generations. They have a highly emphasized sense of identity and/or self-worth that cannot be shaken. They are not blank slates for parents to write on. Any attempts to do so–intentional or not–meet with resistance. Consequently, these children are sometimes considered hard to handle, by adults expecting compliance.

The most important task of parents is to help these children deal with their immature bodies, because their minds are not immature. They may, for example, remember that they know how to drive a car. Still, you cannot drive if you cannot reach the pedals, and if you figure it out, law enforcement officers will object! We recommend that parents try to imagine waking up one morning in an infant or child body while still in their adult mind. What would frustrate you?

Around 1995, another change occurred. These children have the same adult consciousness, but are more sure of themselves and less combative. If you try to change them, they will just ignore you and go on about what they are doing, usually quite peacefully. These are called Crystal Children. Of most significance is the fact that they are naturally telepathic to an extent that many do not learn to speak at the expected time. It is important for parents to notice that, even though the child appears not to hear, it does respond to communication–in its own way. This can avoid mis-diagnoses of hearing handicaps or autism.

For all of these children, the key is to talk to them, and keep talking. Talk about what you are doing when you change and feed them. As they grow older, set rules–physically they are children–but explain these rules as you would to an adult. If the explanation is that you need them to do this for your comfort, say so. Never answer with, “Because I said so.” Be absolutely honest. These little ones will know if you are not. Do not try to hide anything. They will know it. Parent them with absolute integrity and honesty. It is OK to make mistakes. You will. Just admit them and try again. Your child will appreciate and love you for it.

RECOMENDATIONS:
web site and books of Lee Carroll
web site and books of Doreen Virtue
Higher Vibrations--an MSN group moderated by a teen who lives these conditions.

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Venusian Love
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posted June 07, 2006 11:55 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Definitely the Aries and Sag.

I heard children born from the 70s and up are indigo and crystal children.

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marsconjunctmercury
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posted June 07, 2006 12:24 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sounds like he has ADHD.

http://www.nimh.nih.gov/publicat/adhd.cfm

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posted June 07, 2006 01:12 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pisces female here.... I have venus aries and your son has his rising and sun mutable signs and so do I... When I was younger I was pretty shy due to my cancer moon but I couldn't sit still, doesn't mean he has adhd!!! He loves sports and will always be very active!

From reading his chart he will do as he pleases and he doesn't set any limits, he will go after anything he wants and he loves to chase after what he wants, even older girls/women! LOL I bet he is adorable!

I think he has a very balanced chart and I think he will be fine, he's going through a stage.

His north node in leo makes his south node aquarius, he is a bit of an odd ball but aren't all pisceans to begin with!

Taureans, cancers, capricorns and aquarians will be very drawn to him, he will share spiritual connections with scorpios.

I wouldn't stress over the little guy too much, I think he will be fine!

~Aqua~

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posted June 07, 2006 01:19 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi mama mia

Would you be kind enough to reveal his birth details so that i could personally cast a chart for him. I know you used astro.com which is brilliant yes, but i use a different house system, as well as, different methods of astrology (i combine vedic astrology with western/tropical astrology).. i would love to shed some light and hopefully help you in anyway i can.

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Mama Mia
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posted June 07, 2006 01:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Heres a few pictures of him.. Thankyou Divine Goddess..3-12-1999 Chgo, IL 1:10 am..

Also Aquamarine I am not even going to receive him being Ad whatever..

http://i21.photobucket.com/albums/b254/Mia225/thefamily040.jpg
http://i21.photobucket.com/albums/b254/Mia225/thefamily034.jpg
http://i21.photobucket.com/albums/b254/Mia225/thefamily069.jpg

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villy
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posted June 08, 2006 10:27 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nice snaps MM.
I am not sure if disclosing my childhood state wud be of any help (as each would have his own state). Below are some of the common things for me with your kid –

Sun Pisces 20.52
Mercury Aries 2.29
Venus Aries 2.39

Ascendant Sagittarius 13.52
II Capricorn 14.05
VI Taurus 19.04
VII Gemini 13.52
VIII Cancer 14.05
XII Scorpio 19.04

I don’t remember things before age of 5, however my parents always used to say I was favorite of all (neighbors n all). Actually the locality was such that we used to go to everyone’s home without invading anyone’s privacy.
However around 5 (don’t recollect all memories but few), we had moved to a different place, and that too a building. So it was more enclosed. Besides that my parents had issues, which might have led me go inert gradually. Plus my dad was bit strict with studies as the top priority.
I do recollect something .. of someone commenting of me being attracted to bosom when small. Other than that I don’t think there were any incidents with others as I become more of inert type (due to some of the above reasons). However I did start self-play quiet early probably 8 or 10 (I don’t know if this is common with all boys or something to do with my natal chart) and probably developed more desire for opposite sex (being inert and shy everything was internal). I guess with Aries Venus my heart was like on my hands (all internal.. never portrayed my feelings to anyone, apart from the ones in adulthood). Every gal would be attractive …like an object of affection.
From 22 … I have been much more control of my inner desires/thoughts (not that my desires caused anyone hurt anytime). Learning to be more assertive of my feelings not keeping too involved in piscean dreamy world.
(And I don’t want to scare you with this, however my mom loves me a lot ..overloved and very emotional about me… however the inertness that I went through has caused me to not have same feelings for her or reciprocate to her in same way. In childhood it was like mummy only person and gradually with age I become so far away from her that I have grown the distance… though she hasn’t)

I think it is good that your kid is of outgoing nature (hope not too much …causing concern to you –that’s where you need to keep your eyes on for) rather than developing inert emotions which restricts him socially later on. Maybe its just passing phase for him and after a year or two he will get into some meaningful stuff (studies/sports etc). Find what he likes in studies/sports and get him involved in that. I was good at Maths. I don’t know whether I liked doing that at that age however if one is good at something, it might be a good distraction from other stuff. Music/swimming/astronomy – give something interesting to ponder upon which helps him having balance.
Regarding school trouble … not sure … does he tell you all about his thoughts n stuff … maybe trying to get out his feelings might help knowing on school front. Ask him to write stories/poems/painting … it will get his thoughts out rather than acting those in reality (probably this might be kind of a psychological technique of getting someone’s inner bugging thoughts out-freeing up his mind).

Hope it helps
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posted June 10, 2006 10:55 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
mama mia.... awww!!

He's cute, Pisceans always have beautiful, magical looking eyes and he sure does but he has such depth and mystery behind them because of his cap moon!! Very cool, he has pisces eyes with cap smile! haha

He will be one, big, fun, challenge but a Pisces mom can def. handle him!!

~Aqua~

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posted June 10, 2006 11:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for D for Defiant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Rev Alice,

Thank U! I can identify with the info.

No, the boy does not sound like he has ADHD to me. No way I mean- have you study ADHD? No, not him. It's highly unlikely that he has it. Although there's always a possiblity.

The Mom,

You mean your son's ruling planet is Pluto?!

Sun in p, rising sign in sag, venus & mercury in aries, mars in Scorp...man! Girls have to watch out! All in all, at least your son should be an interesting human being.

Moon in cap...either respect, or issues with his father. When the prominent male figure of his life can be an issue for him, he would probably find himself having issues being a male, or himself as an issue to deal with. just my two cents.

All the best to your son. just keep trying.

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Rev. Alice
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posted June 10, 2006 02:19 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Check out the info under "Developmental Disabilites in a Chart"

At least some of it should be of use to you.

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posted June 11, 2006 05:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for D for Defiant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh man I am so embarrassed...

I thought we were talking about a teenager for heaven's sake! 7 yrs old well...marsconjunctmercury I think you probably was right to suspect that the boy may have ADHD, forgive my previous ignorant comments...so Mama Mia I also suggest that you check out the web link given, the one of National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH)...I would also suspect that it might be some other child psychiatric disorder or there might be some sort of comorbidity...just get the right info and get help from the right people that's all I can say.

Mama Mia,

Would you be so kind to confirm whether Pluto is your son's ruling planet? Because if that is the case, then unfortunately, I have to say that he's got a long way to go before turning all his afflictions into miracles, that's the definition of the Pluto ruling planet. The individual's childhood, adolescence and early adulthood would generally be all quite turbulent. There will be a great deal of challenges to overcome over the years as the trials of the soul in his/her early incarnated new life. Plus the planetary influences of your son are all quite "strong", the conflicting aspects being also "strong". IMO he's not going to have it the easy way. He'll probably have a hard time, but should he manage to get there in his mid-twenties (IF Pluto is indeed his ruling planet), he'll make it big. It's likely that he'll be one of the rare few who are invincible. Pluto rules the nuclear energy, after all.

But meanwhile, seriously, Mama Mia,if your Piscean intuition tells you that your child does seem to have an issue there and he just doesn't behave like the average kid, any doubts, any worries...take him to a child psychiatrist. And make sure you go to a good one- not necessarily by reputation among the "civilians", but whether he/she is compentent, child-loving, intuitive, experienced, tolerant, and above all, ethical...you can perhaps get some inside information from the insiders. After all, they know best. Better than the "outsiders". Wow I apologize for my carelessness and negligence- GO GET HELP FROM THE MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONALS ASAP.

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posted June 11, 2006 09:31 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
MM,

I think with Sagi Ascendant, Venus/Merc - Aries and Fire/Air/Earth equally distributed in his chart, he surely won't be like some of the Pisces who are seen as complete loosers.
He surely wouldn't keep himself bogged down by any events with above placements and would surely have a positive attitude to life. Nothing to worry (For any other issues you are there to take care )


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Mama Mia
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posted June 12, 2006 02:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Again Thanks for the helpful hints..
I will check into some of these things..

My son is ok he has his good days and his bad days. My son is a genius. Most kids his age does not have a clue as to the level he is on. He has alot of energy that has to be channeled in the right direction. He does not have mental health issues or anything like that. I do really think that he is to smart for his own good though. That and being overly aggressive is a bit much..

I have a 14 year old same way when he was lil he is a Leo/Cancer and he out grew all that totally. He just going through puberty like most 14 year olds. I have no issues no behavioral issues with him in school..

D for D: He has a great deal of respect for his dad..I don't think he has any issues towards him..

I will take the bitter with the sweet and ride this out. It will get better as he gets older. He has a praying mother to makes sure that happens..

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