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Alisa
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posted June 09, 2006 04:20 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Many astrologers said that Saturn aspects in synastry are the most significant indicators of long-lasting relationship. Do you agree with that? Anyway, can anyone share your own experience what aspects you find most in long-lasting couples? Or do you find any aspects in composite chart that indicate long-term relationship?

What do you think of the following aspects?
-Venus trine Saturn double whammies
-Sun trine Saturn double whammies
-Moon trine Saturn in composite

Alisa

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LILYGIRL
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posted June 09, 2006 06:48 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Alisa,

I find Saturn aspects in both synastry and composite usually indicate a glue or cement in a relationship. But don't forget Saturn reflects and demands a seriousness and working--it's about responsibility. In stress aspects it can also serve as a "cooler" in a relationship, maybe a long term or serious relationship but nonetheless a cooled one. It can repress joy in the name of slogging through towards lessons. LOL.... Where is Saturn in the synastry?

BTW -I have a Venus Trine Saturn in my natal and with many loved ones. It seems to add a gentility and quiet staidness to things.

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BlueEyes24
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posted June 09, 2006 10:03 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Saturn is definitely present in longterm relationships, whether they are squares, sextiles, etc.

My boyfriend's saturn is sextile my sun, mercury, and mars, trine my jupiter, and conjunct my moon. My venus is square his saturn though :-/

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Venus De Milo
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posted June 10, 2006 05:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Venus De Milo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would say any Saturn conections, definitely. I've tested the theory on lasting realtionships NEEDING Saturn, and so far, none have broken the rule.

I also think Venus-Moon and Sun-Moon sextiles and trines (etc) show great love and affection. Especially the double whammies.

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Green Fairy
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posted June 10, 2006 05:23 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What about asteroids?

*damn you IQhunk *

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proxieme
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posted June 10, 2006 07:41 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
VDM - Would you say that orbs make a great deal of differnce there, or would just general in-sign stuff work?

(My Moon's pretty much exactly conjunct my husband's Sun, but our Venus/Moon stuff's a bit wider - His Taurus Moon's very close to my Venus/Chiron/Eros group, but my Moon's kinda far away from his later-degree Aqua Venus.)

Or, as some say, does it only matter if ya feel it


Hmmmm.
*gets curious*

As far as Saturn goes, the only really apparent contact mine makes w/ his chart is where it's trouncing (squaring) his Neptune; his Saturn/Pluto conjunction's sextiling my Mars/Jupiter/NN stellium, opposing my Venus (ouch), and squaring my Moon (ouch again ).

Hm, interesting - my aforementioned Mars/Jupiter/NN stellium's making contacts all over his chart.
(A by-degree trining of his Moon,
Opposing of his Sun,
Trining of his Neptune,
Squaring of his Uranus/Jupiter combo,
and, as I said, sextiling his Pluto/Saturn.

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proxieme
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posted June 10, 2006 07:43 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Also, Alisa, what do you define as long-lasting?

We've been married for going-on 3 years (forever to, say, a teenager), but we're newbies compared to people who've been married through raising a couple of kids, etc.

Annnyway, here's our charts if anyone's interested (or would like to give their 2 cents ):
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v250/proxieme/Synastry.jpg
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v250/proxieme/OurDavison.jpg
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v250/proxieme/OurComposite.jpg

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Belage
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posted June 10, 2006 11:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Saturn can signify long-lasting relationships, but due to the sobering nature of Saturn, it can be more like a burden than a joy. Have you ever seen an old couple where the man and woman have resigned themselves to each other's presence?

From my understanding, well aspected Neptune provides long lasting HAPPY relationships. Neptune gives the necessary glamor and romanticism to make long lasting relationship feel new even when they're old. The old man who looks at his wife and thinks she is as beautiful now as when she was 20 must definitely share with her some strong neptunian connection. People who still love and adore each other in spite of their flaws share a strong neptunian connection.

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Belage
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posted June 11, 2006 12:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Also, don't forget Pluto. Camilla Parker has Pluto trine Princes Charles' Venus. She has been able to hold on to him through thick and thin. Well aspected Pluto makes for some strong obsession.

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writesomething
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posted June 11, 2006 12:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for writesomething     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Alisa
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posted June 12, 2006 06:11 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus De Milo, what saturn aspects you find strongest? What do you think about Venus/Saturn double whammies? What you ever found these in any couples before?

Regarding Pluto, my Venus quindecile his Pluto. His Pluto closely conjunct my Solstic Venus.

Regarding Neptune, we have the following Neptune aspects:
-Sun square Neptune double whammies
-My North Node square his Neptune
-My MC conjunct his Neptune
-My Neptune square his Venus
-My Neptune conjunct his North Node
-Neptune trine Chiron double whammies

I think there are too many square. Do you think anyone above would be good for long-lasting relationship?

We do not have direct Sun/Moon contacts. We only have the following Sun/Moon aspects:
-His Sun quindecile my Moon
-His Sun quindecile my Sun
-His Sun oppose my Sun/Moon midpoint (0 degree orb)
-His Sun/Moon midpoint square my ASC and my Mercury
-His Sun/Moon midpoint square my Sun/Moon midpoint
-His Sun/moon midpoint trine my Venus

What do you think?

Alisa

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taurean_scorpion
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posted June 12, 2006 08:02 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So Venus trine Pluto and Moon sextile Pluto must be good...

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