posted June 13, 2006 11:17 AM              

Good question, one a lot of people ask me. From what i've observed through the charts of others, as well as, my own, this is what i can tell regarding such matters.

First of all, I'll talk about the age groups representing the planets. This way one can see what kind of people they are attracted to.

Mature Men (as in someone in an authoritative position, who are in control) :- Sun

Younger Men (boy toys, men in their twenties): - Mercury, Mars

Mid life crisis in a man:- Jupiter

Older refined gentlemen:- Saturn

A bit too old for you:- Uranus

Madonna/Wh*re Complex:- Moon

Beautiful refined woman with elegance:- Venus.

Mystery/Bad Girls/Dangerously seductive:- Neptune. (Also represents men of a "forbidden" kind of attraction, as well as, Pluto)

This when assessing the chart regarding their placements and aspects, one can see the crieterion of attraction. The signs they are present in and their strenght gives a clearer picture of the kind of person you are attracted too. Also good to see the seventh house and the fifth to and check along side these planetary categories

Secondly, to see if a person is more dominant or submissive.

This is taken when you count the power of the planets in their signs.

Charts where majority masculine planets (Sun, Mars, Saturn or Uranus) are strong (i.e well aspected, in masculine signs, exalted perhaps) show tendencies of being the more dominant partner, seeking a submissive.

Charts where the feminine planets (Moon, Venus, Neptune) are strong, (i.e. well aspected, in feminine signs) show tendencies of being the submissive, seeking a dominant.

Strong Mercury placements show partners that can swing from being dominant to submissive.

As for erogenous zones.

The sign of the sun shows the zones that you are sensitive at irrespective of other placements.. these are there.

The sign of moon and asteroid lilith indicate the hidden desires that smoulder within you. The zones belonging to the sign where Neptune is placed is your kinky hot-spot.

Venus's sign in a man's horoscope show the kind of woman he's attracted too... example a man i knew had venus in leo, and he loved being a demanding woman to challenge his authority, another man i knew had venus in virgo, and he loved the whole french maid uniform.

Venu's sign in a woman's horoscope show the way she wants to be loved... A woman i knew had venus in capricorn, and she loved a man who possessed ambition, she had a thing for powerful shark like executives... Another woman had venus in pisces, and she had these ideals of a Casanova sweeping her off her feet, but ended up marrying a homer simpson-ish kind (thats a different story).

Mars' sign in a man's horoscope show the kind of lover he is.. my highschool sweetie had Mars in Sagittarius, showing his love for doing "it" outdoors, as well as, unpredictable things... another man i knew had Mars in taurus, lets just say his "staying power" was ledgendary.

Mars' sign in a woman's horoscope indicates the kind of mind that makes her go wild... a friend of mine had Mars in Libra, causing her to always fall for artistic types who always were like her boy toys who let her call the shots... another woman i knew..she had mars in Gemini, hence it was all about the "touch of his hand".

These are just examples.. explore your chart as well as charts of friends and family and see if these fit or if you've noticed things i havent mentioned

posted June 13, 2006 08:58 PM              

~Rebekka

posted June 14, 2006 01:47 AM              

I took a look at your chart... and here are somethings i saw.

First of all, Venus in aries isnt really the demanding lover, but it's shows you are quite idealistic in such matters, and even shows a tendency towards "secret" attatchments, even just purely mental attatchment with men who stimulate your mind. But when it comes to marriage or long term relationships, you tend to stick to your high ideals of love and hence often face dissappointments that the men you were crazy about turn out to be not what you thought).

With Jupiter also in aries, that shows you like ambitious men as well.

Mars in sagittarius shows that you'll probably improve your intellectual skills after marriage, perhaps learn new philosophies, or even develop a new talent. The attraction for dark Scorpio types is due to the fact that uranus being there kinda makes you fall "wrecklessly" in lust.

With Saturn in cappy, it tends to show you might just take sympathy with the under-dog, or even someone friends and family dont really approve off. With neptune also there, it kinda increases the probability of you just going around with someone totally wrong for you, just because he's killer in bed (or whatever reason)

This is so far what i've got..lemme know what you think.

posted June 14, 2006 10:41 AM              

"The attraction for dark Scorpio types is due to the fact that uranus being there kinda makes you fall "wrecklessly" in lust...With neptune also there, it kinda increases the probability of you just going around with someone totally wrong for you, just because he's killer in bed (or whatever reason)"
It's interesting you should say that, because I'm dead set on waiting to have sex until after marriage. I have looked further into the nature of Scorpio men [loyal, jealous, possessive, intense, ect, all the qualities] and almost think that's the type of man I'd like to spend the rest of my life with. I value loyality very, very highly, and because Scorpio is a water sign, I thought a Scorpio man would be understanding of my supersensitivity and superemotionalness. That's my way of trying to be practical, but I don't know exactly how practical it is.
Thanks again for taking a look. =)

posted June 14, 2006 11:47 AM              

I understand why you might be a little confused about the whole "wrecklessly" in lust bit.

However, you're just 18... and trust me..after you get to "legal" age.. tonns of things change... believe me.. i speak from "experience"

Not that im saying you would fall pray to some smarmy dark stranger with the looks of adonis and the *beep* of a bull... but its more like you might be tempted as such.. or perhaps the whole "forbidden fruit" aspect might pull you in with some one.

posted June 14, 2006 12:20 PM              

Planetary positions
planet sign degree house motion
Sun Gemini 27°52'09 12 direct
Moon Taurus 29°31'58 11 direct
Mercury Gemini 07°46'37 11 direct
Venus Taurus 22°54'09 11 direct
Mars Libra 08°19'27 03 direct
Jupiter Scorpio 00°32'22 04 retrograde
Saturn Libra 15°29'54 04 stationary (D)
Uranus Sagittarius 01°34'37 05 retrograde
Neptune Sagittarius 25°36'24 06 retrograde
Pluto Libra 24°10'45 04 retrograde
True Node Cancer 13°22'33 12 retrograde

House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Cancer 27°29'48
2nd House Leo 17°27'11
3rd House Virgo 11°17'51
Imum Coeli Libra 11°33'31
5th House Scorpio 18°15'37
6th House Sagittarius 25°34'35
Descendant Capricorn 27°29'48
8th House Aquarius 17°27'11
9th House Pisces 11°17'51
Medium Coeli Aries 11°33'31
11th House Taurus 18°15'37
12th House Gemini 25°34'35

Major aspects
Sun Trine Jupiter 2°40
Sun Opposition Neptune 2°16
Sun Trine Pluto 3°41
Moon Conjunction Venus 6°38
Moon Quincunx Jupiter 1°00
Moon Opposition Uranus 2°03
Moon Sextile Ascendant 2°02
Mercury Trine Mars 0°33
Venus Quincunx Neptune 2°42
Venus Quincunx Pluto 1°17
Venus Sextile Ascendant 4°36
Jupiter Sextile Neptune 4°56
Jupiter Square Ascendant 3°03
Uranus Trine Ascendant 4°05
Neptune Sextile Pluto 1°26
Neptune Quincunx Ascendant 1°53
Pluto Square Ascendant 3°19

posted June 14, 2006 01:05 PM              

hmmm... moon and venus in Taurus... the moon shows intrigue, and perhaps you feel a little mystery is always a good thing to get someone hot for you. Here, venus shows that you are the kind of woman who has strong feelings for people you are close to, it can show tendencies to have a voluptious body (curvy and nice), or to perhaps like men with something to hold onto. Thats one way to look at it. Another could be is that when you get the hots for someone or vice-versa, its a very strong physical attraction that pulls the two of you together.

Mercury in gemini with your sun makes you one smooth talking flirt, causing guys to think double meanings into seemingly innocent things you say.

Mars and Saturn in libra are quite an interesting duo. In this sign, their roles are strangely reversed. It's Saturn that usually causes the fights you might have and seperations, and Mars that teaches you responsibility by marriage or long term flings. This is because libra exalts saturn, and well, aries rules mars and libra is the polar sign (well, you can figure it out).

Jupiter in Scorp is one doozie.. on one side, it shows jealousy plagueing your relationships, with broken hearts and drama.. yet on the other it shows that you might gain allot (economically) by your marriage. So it's basically how you choose to balance yourself.

Uranus and Neptune in sag, that shows being too caught up in the heat of the moment, being very eager to follow your urges, not thinking the consequences through.

However, Descendant being Cap shows that the man who you marry would have a deep love nature, but would probably have trouble expressingh his feelings. But your sex life would only blossom with age.

The fifth house of Love Affairs is Scorpio, So it's like very intense relationships, but always one of you seeks admiration, and lot of criticizing and nagging could happen,and oh yeah..jealousy.

The 11th house of fun flings surprising is in taurus, a sign that isnt big on short term flings, although its intense and lustful, but jealousy again becomes an issue.

Cancer being your rising, in such matters shows, you are quite sentimental, but you are fickle in your desires, but exact faithfulness from others. And you shouldnt kid yourself that the next don juan in leather riding a harley is the "one".

Hope it helps, if you have any doubts or cant quite understand something, do let me know.

posted June 14, 2006 01:41 PM              

me
dec 15 1986
8:15pm
toronto canada

him
jan 19 1987
6:43pm
st. john's, newfoundland, canada

posted June 14, 2006 01:56 PM              

I would really love to, but my astro.com account isnt working for some reason, could you post your charts like Illusion did (yours, his, and a synastry..and try using equal houses)

If you cant, you can paste the positions the way venusian did.

posted June 14, 2006 02:10 PM              

Mine: http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v180/negatory/mychart.gif

His: http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v180/negatory/hischart.gif

Synastry: http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v180/negatory/synastry.gif

posted June 14, 2006 05:21 PM              

Me: 26 April 1975, 8.30pm
Him: 18 June 1971, 3.30am

posted June 14, 2006 05:21 PM              

1. Go to astro.com and create your desired chart.

2. Right click the chart.

3. Select "Save picture as.."

4. Save the picture (on your desktop).

5. Go to photobucket.com.

6. Upload the image!

and voila!

Hope that helped!

posted June 14, 2006 05:39 PM              

Wow a rock star..thats so cool..lol..i'm glad you liked the sex and the city posts.

Now lets see your chart...

Now in your case..the attraction for the dark scorpio type is partially for your sun and mercury being in virgo. You see, in mythology, Kore (demeter's daughter) was a Virgo, when Hades (scorpio archetype) saw her and fell in love (or just got horny for her) swept her off her feet and took her to the underworld. And like a scorpio, he manipulated her into eating a few pomergranade seeds. Now this part is a little different from conventional myths, but you see, the fact she ate the pomergranade seeds didnt make her just a permanent resident of the underworld, for as you see, to the greeks pomergranades were aphrodisiacs that make one loose their inhibitions (and boy virgo can be full of them), and secretly, Kore did find Hades a wicked bad boy type that made her cream in her *youknowwhat*.. so their mating made her return to the underworld.. not just a law that she had to, but that she wanted to. He bought out the bad girl in her, Persephone.

Anyway..back to the subject.

Venus in libra kinda shows that you can be a devoted partner, yet in marriage, it shows that you might go through some ups and downs with your partner. (note to others: in some cases venus in libra can mean some kind of sexual abuse from a relative ..remember in "some cases"... as well as sometimes showing that you might outlive your husband/wife/partner)

Saturn in scorp generally shows intense passionate affairs with bad break ups at times. This is saturns message to scop that you need to think before you leap in matters of love and sex

(you already know about mars and uranus in sag...add neptune to increase the bad boy aspect)

Jupiter in cap show you're parents help or hinder your marriage (like fran dreschers mother in "the nanny")...And it can also mean that your marriage could really affect your career.

Your Descendant being Aries shows a yen for an impulsive partner, and you might enjoy the fights at times (using your virgo glib)
With Mars in the second it shows money with/through marriage, but with conjuncting uranus, you gotta have a good savings plan.

Your Love affair 5th house in Aquarius shows you're love affairs arent overly sexed up but uranus conjoing mars can add some unpredictability and spark, but your 11th house of casual flings is in Leo, kinda bringing out the wild cat in you.

Do tell me what you think and feel free to discuss any aspect

*~*~*~*~*~*

Shirty, gimmie some time.. i'm studying yours and your lovers and the synastry.

posted June 14, 2006 05:42 PM              

I know it can take a while to interpret charts.. been there, done that, hehe.

Can't wait to hear what you have to say~

posted June 14, 2006 06:22 PM              

I couldnt do the synastry, because the aspects arent given clearly, try getting the .pdf version and paste the lil aspect box.

Now lets look at you first.

Well..a Gemini Moon shows peculiar married relations, perhaps a "swinging" lifestyle if you know what i mean, or perhaps a very kinky one where you and your husband should "explore" new kindsa kinks (naughty naughty)

According to astrologer of the Alan Leo times, Vivian E Robson, this means, "Reprehensible conduct in marriage".. oh my..lol

Venus in Scorpio..dayum girl..this shows tonns of issues regarding jealousy..and with pluto conjoining..hubba hubba hubba-make up sex... you might even marry someone who is a widower, or divorced before he met you. Too much soap opera kinda thing going on here. This is also an indication telling you not to ever be financially dependent on someone else, because that could be used against you. So dont quit your job after marriage.

Ok...now you have a stellium in sag... no wonder all the fights and make up sex..lol..just kidding... Saturn over here shows that either you'd meet your husband while travelling, or after marriage you'd be travelling a lot (works either way).. with it's conjunction with Mercury, it's telling you... "hold that tongue girl before you call his mother's favorite mumu tacky"..although Uranus being a major an*s can make you shoot a doozie time and again... hey you aren't a sag for nothing you know.

Jupiter and Mars in Pisces..interesting.
These both are like saying you might have two marriages (now a days who doesnt)..although Mars is telling you that you might think of delaying marriage, because you'll end up dissappointed after it wont work out. And Jupiter with its loud mouth can cause some kinda "scandal", probably if you marry early, it could be to someone your friends and family consider "inferior" to you.

Aqua being your descendant, shows you need a partner who'd mentally stimulate you, who would love accompanying you on your journeys and discussing everything from socratic styles of teaching, to how britney spears is making an a*s of herself with K-fed. Plus Uranus being its ruler in the fifth does show at the end of the day, it'll be a happy marriage.. although the kids would drive you bonkers like lynnette's in desperate housewives.

Sag being the sign of your 5th house of love affairs is telling you that you're too impulsive when you fall for someone, and often repress any feelings of unhappiness..open up girl, let it out, repression can only lead to a tactful comment.

Although with gemini in the 11th house, the house of casual flings.. you have the ability to play the field if you want, and according to dear Vivian E Robson "nonmoral; fickle"... you naughty lil minx...lol...Just kidding..dont be offended.

Although Leo being your rising does show signs that you might just choose to get married for the kids...dont.

*~*~*~*~*~*

And now your boyfriends.

Well..a good thing is that you share the same rising and descendant..so that is a powerful tool..the bad news is that you both can also pull eachothers hair out in fights...which might not be a bad thing if you know what i mean

Now you see, Mars in aries may be a good thing in other fields, but in love, it kinda can leads to issues in "consumation", not all the time, but, well, lets just say when he says "i dont know what happened, this has never happened before".. it has. And this boy should learn how to manage his money.

The Moon in virgo agains shows that this is the kinda guy who tends to withhold his sadness and feelings of unhappiness, the key here is getting him to open up, and express himself.

Venus, Saturn, and Uranus in Sag.. whew!
You already knows what the other two do here, But Venus softens it, showing that he increases his mental skills, learning new hobbies, as well as increasing his spiritual knowledge after marriage. And it shows an indication for marrying a foreigner, or someone living far from him. His marriage could even hapen abroad or on a voyage...The love boat..lol

The Cappy Sun shows again repressing his feelings, but this boy is full of so much cold blooded lust that he could melt an iceberg with his "stamina"..(sure would have been handy to have in the titanic).. the key with him is that you need to get him to trust you on a deeper emotional basis for him to reveal his sexual side, and if kinky, this guy can make the perfect Dom in a BDSM fantasy, especially with neptune swimming in the sign... But suck up to his family..big time.

Merc in aqua can make him quite an intellectual to stimulate you mentally as well. Plus it can also make him the kind of lover who likes to "learn and practice" to improve himself.

Jupiter in pisces you already know.

*~*~*~*~*~*~*

Hope you enjoyed it and found it helpful..feel free to discuss certain things that you think dont really fit.

posted June 14, 2006 07:12 PM              

I acknowledge the erogenous zones/traits that come with my gemini mars and my aquarius venus but as a Pisces Sun (rules feet) I FEEL NO LUST for feet, either mine (I do my best to maintain them, still not crazy about them) and certainly not others' feet. Uggggg

I wonder what pisces asc, suns and moons think of the feet fetishe/aversion...

Tk care,