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Topic: does this bother you/like me
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cosmic1970
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posted June 18, 2006 11:24 PM
 
when you talk with a friend of yours about coming to visit them and they say well, I have to study this whole weekend for my CPA exam so right now isnt a good ole time for you to come and visit?? I understand this completely BUT., only if thats the truth. I have an Aries buddy who lives in Ft Lauderdale and he comes to visit me and me Ill go down there as well. I was set to go down there for the weekend and he then tells me ' man its not a good time, I have to really hit the books, no going out for a week or so... Hes then calling me off the hook Friday night and Saturday night out and about partying down there. That really [****** me off] Hes now trying to call me because I wont pickup the phone! Yeah- you ****** me off man! Do any of you avoid [phone calls] for a period of time from your buddies/friends that act like this? Hmm IP: Logged |
writesomething
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posted June 18, 2006 11:27 PM
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cosmic1970
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posted June 18, 2006 11:51 PM
oh wellIP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted June 19, 2006 12:43 AM
Unless you want to tell us your sign, and your buddy's sign too.....But, he probably needs to unwind on the weekend, if he's going to school during the week. Maybe he just can't party all week long. Like someone on holdiays might do. IP: Logged |
cosmic1970
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posted June 19, 2006 12:48 AM
Me Pisces
Sags Rise Aries Moon True. IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted June 19, 2006 01:08 AM
So, are you gonna forgive him now and answer his calls? Dick wad? lol.... j/k IP: Logged |
cosmic1970
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posted June 19, 2006 01:25 AM
dick wadbahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
have it happen to you
no. ill call him in a wk or so right now I kood care a bit less amyways
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posted June 19, 2006 05:33 AM
Pisces people do not tend to have alot of friends..only the chosen few. But with the Sag/Aries influence maybe you have more casual contacts than most. What I will say is that if you only connect with a few that puts alot of resposibility on the friend. Some dont/cant handle that. If you broaden your 'friend base' then you have ...the party buddy, the movie buddy, the lets argue about something buddy, you get my drift. Don't take it so hard, he is doing his own thing.IP: Logged |
Lauren
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posted June 19, 2006 06:50 AM
I think you took what happened the wrong way. Think of it this way.. -why would HE not want you there on purpose - He's your friend.. do you really think he dislikes you? I mean he called you.. why would he call you if he had a problem with you? I know when I have something due or an exam I stress like crazy. I'm an Aries to, though I’ve always thought it was more so my Cap moon with stress To be honest, I think it's a bit different to have someone staying with you the whole weekend.. as opposed to just going out at night. From my perspective if I had an exam on, I'd study all day, but I might take a brake at some point and go out, like he did.. just to do something other than study and relax for a while..
Whereas if a friend of mine actually stayed over and was there all day, I'd be very tempted to go out all day or talk all day and basically do no work. If I studied and left my friend alone, I'd feel very guilty considering she/he travelled to see me. IP: Logged |
amisha121877
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posted June 19, 2006 10:55 AM
I don't think he parties as much and every weekend as you think - shall i say, he doesn't party as hardy as you think or as a must. Most people know that partying isn't planned for some of us - it just happens and for some, they look for the parties. I think he probably stumbles on them or "out of the blue" them, it's not definitely planned he will be partying. that's too much of extra thinking.He probably does want to unwind on the weekends - the last thing a person sometimes needs is someone calling to say, I am coming down this weekend, let's hook up. It's like an "added responsibility" thing for him (he will feel obligated to making your visit a good one) - I think if you wanted to visit him that bad, you going to where he is, shouldn't be because he is there. It could be like - I'm going to Ft. Lauderdale - set up activities for yourself and then when you get down there, call him and say you are in the neighborhood and to call you on your cell phone if he wants to hook up - but then you enjoy your vaca. Don't depend on him. Much luck IP: Logged |
cosmic1970
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posted June 19, 2006 11:46 AM
hey thanks for the responsesyour right. hes a great friend. one of a few that ive got. ive known him since 3rd grade. can you believe that? i still have a good dozen of those types that we still hang out from time to time. i just got a little bent up is all. i just feel i go more out of my way to make arrangements or change my schedule around to accomodate my friends or family. why is that? I think not only myself but others should do this... oh well- sometimes i get that feeling im used by everyone- almost like a ***** . but really... i need to see things differently. maybe thats a little selfish on my part IP: Logged |
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