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HandsomeLibra
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posted August 10, 2006 01:33 PM
 
thanx berry ..sent you an emailplease keep it to yourself IP: Logged |
sue g
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posted August 10, 2006 01:58 PM
Hey HLAre you a masochist by any chance....   Sarah....  Just be thankful you aint the Libra man dating an Aqua woman if you get my drift.....jeeez......the men seem like pussy cats in comparison.... IP: Logged |
HandsomeLibra
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posted August 10, 2006 02:07 PM
mas·och·ism Audio pronunciation of "masochist" ( P ) Pronunciation Key (ms-kzm)
n. 1. The deriving of sexual gratification, or the tendency to derive sexual gratification, from being physically or emotionally abused.
2. The deriving of pleasure, or the tendency to derive pleasure, from being humiliated or mistreated, either by another or by oneself.
3. A willingness or tendency to subject oneself to unpleasant or trying experiences. hmmm...i guess dating has become this complicated ? liking someone and missing them is associated with this ? IP: Logged |
sue g
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posted August 10, 2006 02:19 PM
hmmmm.....I guess so....I decided to change to the role of sadist some time ago....much more F U N...... Still aint used to the loud crack of that whip tho....LOL!! x IP: Logged |
BerrySweet
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posted August 10, 2006 08:21 PM
HandsomeLibra -Got the email and replied. I think I understand a little better now. Sue G - Men seem to associate pain with love. Don't ask me why. IP: Logged |
cappyme
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posted August 10, 2006 08:39 PM
Hey Handsome Libra,I know a Libran guy who fell hard for this Aqua girl, she was exactly like the girl you mentioned. She was pretty distant. Anyways this particular Libra had lots of Libra in his chart and a strong sense of fairness and balance, so their relationship was unbalanced obviously, so what had he do? He tipped the scales. One day the Libran guy got kind of fed up so he decided to turn the tables on her, and make her taste her own bitter medicine. He started acting just like her, I'm sorry but it was so funny . Well in the end she learnt her lesson, he stopped being distant like her and they both are dating atm and loving each other, but their relationship is so funny at times.
Anyways I'm just giving an example, I don't think you should follow that advice. But if she's ignoring you or is acting distant (which is so frustrating), just call her less or something and get busy in your own life, since she obviously does not appreciate it, and you wouldn't be wasting your time. In this way you can still be patient and caring. Thats just my opinion. ------------------
Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely, in an attractive and a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, wine in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming "WHOA WHAT A RIDE!!!!!" IP: Logged |
HandsomeLibra
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posted August 10, 2006 08:53 PM
thanx berry ..i hope you are less angry at me now  cappy .. i am allready doing that .. i have written her off for now .. met a very funny/cute aries at the gym and asked her out .. she said sure and we will go out in the next couple of days if she wants me she knows where to find me , if she does'nt yeah dissapointed a bit but hey like my buddy 2pac said "life goes on "
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cappyme
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posted August 10, 2006 09:14 PM
HandsomeLibra:- Woohoo, have fun at your date with the Aries and tell us how it goes!  you know Lauren, she's an Aries woman (a brilliant one at that) and she has a libra boyfriend, maybe you can ask her for advice or something, that is if you need them!You like 2Pac? thats kinda coincedential cause my cousin was shifting to a new apartment so he decided to give me all his old CDs coupled with many others from my other cousin. So I didn't know what to do with these cds so I gave them off, threw them, took some for myself. I've only 2pac left, and I was just thinking about who to give it too, cause not many ppl here listen to 2pac, I would give it to you if you were here, but your not. Sorry! this is completely random!  ------------------
Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely, in an attractive and a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, wine in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming "WHOA WHAT A RIDE!!!!!" IP: Logged |
HandsomeLibra
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posted August 10, 2006 09:24 PM
there is 3 people in my life i regret not bieng able to seeAyn Rand ( LOOOOOVVEEE HER WORK , the best philosopher the world has see after the big names ) Jim Morrison ( The pain he tried to bring out with his songs ) 2Pac ( Love T.H.U.G.L.I.F.E ) i would give anything to meet these people hey , you can allways mail em to me ;-)
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HandsomeLibra
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posted August 10, 2006 09:29 PM
On aries ..
i read in sun signs chapter something funny
i think it was for aries i may be wrong
something along the lines of
" the girl who punches the boy she liked "
or something like that .. made me smile
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cappyme
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posted August 10, 2006 10:37 PM
Wow this is so weird.I think day-before-yesterday a guy emailed me and asked me if he should give a book by "Ayn Rand" as a wedding gift for his friend, I didn't know Ayn Rand at all though. Then I go to livejournal yesterday, and whats there? my friend quoting something from Ayn Rand's book. And then today, you talk about Ayn Rand. It seems like everybody knows Ayn rand, ha I feel embarrased cause I'm such an avid reader and I love philosophy! (but sometimes it is so bloody confusing) I dunno maybe its a signal for me to go read her book or summat. Yeah good point, I can always mail the album to you, but I figure that since he's your favorite, you would've had them all anyway. (seee I'm sooo smart ... just joking) Haha, that made you smile, thats cute. Have fun. I'm off to look up Ayn Rand on Amazon.  IP: Logged |
Taurus80
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posted August 10, 2006 11:43 PM
one of my favorite books of all time is "Anthem" IP: Logged |
Venusian Love
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posted August 10, 2006 11:53 PM
Libra's are charming little ******** aren't they?
I know them to well.
Remind me to much of me sometimes
P.S - Don't bother getting an Aquarius unless they have heavy water or at least Taurus in their chart. You have alot of water.
You don't want a detached woman.
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Things base and vile, holding no quantity,
Love can transpose to form and dignity.
Love looks not with the eye, but with the mind,
And therefore is winged Cupid painted blind. -William Shakespeare IP: Logged |
Crabplanet
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posted August 11, 2006 12:23 AM
HandsomeLibra,What is you Aqua's ascendant? Mine is Scorpio, and tonight for the very first time i realized that he is much more scorpio than aqua...or scorpio acting like an aqua...no wonder i thought he was so mysterious...intense, not revealing anything about himself...and then tonight, i found out that the reason why he was so distant these past weeks, is because he was hurt that i had been away for so long without sending him any email during that time...he was really upset, i saw that his eyes were very moisten, as if he was about to cry...at that moment i knew that i had a place in his heart.
Never underestimate the power of the ascendant... IP: Logged |
HandsomeLibra
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posted August 11, 2006 01:03 AM
cappyme,yes it did make me smile .. one for you .. 2 of the greatest books ever written are by ayn rand .. one is ATLAS SHRUGGED and another is FOUNTAINHEAD .. atlas shrugged is amazing .. long ( about 900 odd pages ) but worth every single word written
and fountainhead is great too
taurus :
yes thats a good book i also love the
romantic manifesto ..
venusian love:
was that for me ? do i have a lot of water ?
( i am not retaining water am i ;-) )
sorry thought that was too funny
crabplanet:
i am so happy to hear things are working out for you with the aqua .. atleast one of us is getting somewhere in with the crazy aqua ( lovingly berry lovingly said ..yes you can put down the sword .. )
i actually dont know that .. i dont have her time and place of birth my ascendant is scorpio and like i said in another thread ..most people assume ( they say i act like one or come of as one ) i am one.. hardly ..i think ..i am so charming ;-)
having said that ..i do think when i get even with someone or someone ****** me off ..they do remember it for a long time IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
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posted August 11, 2006 09:46 AM
Crabp: My Aqua has a Scorp Asc..I often see where he swings from Aqua to Scorp..They can be the same on things but different too. Also Aqua's with Scorp Asc or Scorp placements can be very jealous, but that Aqua in em will try and hide it..There are to many emotions within them..The part that gets to me is they do not know how to express it all..IP: Logged |
Crabplanet
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posted August 11, 2006 11:44 AM
Mama Mia,That is so true...i didn't know that he was trying so hard to hide all his emotions...it was incredible, a completely different person...very Scorpio indeed...
I'm going to be away again for 3 weeks, do you think that i should "regularly" semd him emails, to let him know that i'm thinking of him, to reassure him? Now that i know that the "space-distant" is a reaction of my own non-100% "closeness" to him...as if at the end i was the Aqua myself (i do have Mars + NN in Aqua,+ Sun square Uranus, Venus square Uranus...)and he was the Scorpio playing my own Venus square Pluto...Do you think that somehow the "other" is playing out our own shadow?
How does your Aqua-Scrpio react to you? IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
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posted August 11, 2006 12:57 PM
Well I have heard that, the part about it really is you that is distant. I once dated a Aqua over 10 years ago and he use to always say and it went over my head but he use to say to me the closer you pull to me the closer I will pull to you..I don't know about that..I guess there is some truth to this bc I keep distance from my Aqua but then when I make contact he responds right back. But what bothers me is having to do that all the time. It should be balanced and I should not have to initate contact all the time and I won't.. But yes send him little emails to let him know that you are thinking about him. Nothing to deep and mushy I suppose just something nice and to the point. My Aqua and I shock the hell out of each other constantly in good and bad ways.
we still have not yet learned how to effectively communicate with one another. Our communications styles are so different. Your Aqua is older and maybe he is more mature I would suppose at his age. I have a girlfriend who has been with a Aqua man and he is in his 50's and I think he is more stable with his emotions and can communicate better. The youger Aqua's boy oh boy is all I can say... GOODLUCK!!! IP: Logged |
Crabplanet
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posted August 12, 2006 10:25 AM
Mama Mia,We would think that because of his age he would have gained more wisdom. I don't think this is true in his case. Last time i had the impression that there was some sort of destructive energy in him. I also think his internal suffering is very deep. More than mine. I don't think this is going to work. We definitely don't communicate on the same level. He wants things his way, and is willing to pay the price if things don't work out to his satisfaction. When i met him, i only saw the "humanitarian" side of him, and that's what he does for living, now i'm seeing the dark side, the side that he doesn't show to the public...I'm not sure i want to deal with that...in a way,it's good that i realized this now... IP: Logged |
sue g
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posted August 12, 2006 10:32 AM
"When i met him, i only saw the "humanitarian" side of him, and that's what he does for living, now i'm seeing the dark side, the side that he doesn't show to the public...I'm not sure i want to deal with that...in a way,it's good that i realized this now"...You are lucky to realise this...... I was married to an Aqua who was like this....life and the soul of the party and lovely to everyone else.... He put me thro hell and almost killed me (mentally)... Never again...! IP: Logged |
HandsomeLibra
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posted August 12, 2006 02:36 PM
Wo Wo Wo .. really ? aquas can be like that ?
first time i am hearing this ..
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sue g
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posted August 12, 2006 02:45 PM
HLI found it to be a subtle cruelty....I dont mean screaming shouting or hitting.... He was just "not there" emotionally and not able to connect or show love and after a few years it felt like a slow torture. I worked with an Aqua female like this....very lovely woman but just not there, not able to connect....  IP: Logged |
HandsomeLibra
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posted August 12, 2006 03:58 PM
Sue ,
are you a libran ?
this is actually very interesting to learn this side of the aquas..i am sure each is different but if the general trend is this maybe i should count my blessings ? IP: Logged |
Cardinalgal
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posted August 12, 2006 04:54 PM
to you Sue - you've been through such times but you've come out the other side with warmth, wit, wisdom and grace. An example to us all HL good luck with the Aries lass I always feel a pull to those of our opposite sign... you should have fun! IP: Logged |
Crabplanet
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posted August 12, 2006 06:47 PM
Sue,Did your Aqua have planets in Scorpio? or an Ascendant in Scorpio? The Aqua i know has a Scorpio ascendant and i can now begin to feel all the intensity inside of him. IP: Logged |
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