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lioneye68
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posted June 21, 2006 08:27 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello Know-flakers
Do you think the natal chart could show a predisposition to experiencing divorce? I don't just mean the break up of a long term love relationship, but specifically a legal Divorce. I know free will can override anything in a natal chart, but as we all know, inclinations DO often come out to play as well.

If so, what aspects do you figure might indicate the breaking of a marriage contract?

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sthenri
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posted June 21, 2006 10:00 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
For some reason I see this with Venus in Capricorn or Venus conjunct or trine Saturn, this may translate into a more demanding idea of a legal marriage and saturn likes contracts.

I believe Donald Trump has saturn and venus conjunct or at least the trine,
he has been married three times and insisted on so many contracts.

My sister has venus in Cap and has always wanted a legal marriage since childhood.

There is something about Saturn that is fascinated with making and breaking contracts.

Saturn in Capricorn translates into agreements, business or otherwise.

So many Sags have Capricorn placements and are good in business, and good with contracts.

Why do you ask, are you blue?

Lioneye you are a Leo and Leos are more focused on true love than contracts, save your agreements for work and business and keep contracts out of love!

Natasha

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astroleolady
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posted June 21, 2006 10:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for astroleolady     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lioneye68,

Some examples that I have read about:

The 7th house rules marriage, divorce, contracts, lawsuits, and open enemies.

The sign on the cusp of the 7th house - Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius or Aquarius. Planets in the 7th - Mercury, Mars, Saturn, Uranus, Pluto.

Hard aspects to Venus involving Saturn and Uranus. Hard aspects to the planets in the 7th house from Saturn and Uranus.

Ultimately, whether or not divorce will occur will depend upon the transits, progressions and solar returns of the couple.

Hope that helps.

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lioneye68
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posted June 21, 2006 10:40 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Natasha, true, so true. It would make me sad if I had to sign a prenup, or felt I needed to make my mate sign one. True love is the contract, in my romantic ideal world.

No, I'm not blue. I've never been married either. But, I think I'm done "keeping my options open", so to speak. The idea of marriage is peeking it's head out in what seems like an inevitable way, and I'm hesitant to do it, only to divorce down the road. I think my Venus trine Saturn is making me consider all possible pitfalls, is all. Not to mention Saturn's current transit through Leo in my 8th house, taking 4 of my personal planets to task.

Astrolady, that does help and it doesn't lol...I have Gemini on the 7th house cusp, and my Virgo has Aquarius there. But, come think of it, I have heard that about Gemini on the 7th house cusp before. Also, it can indicate 2 marriages. But, so far that hasn't been the case for me. I haven't even gotten one under my belt yet.

I feel somewhat ambivelant about marriage, yet I respect it greatly. Maybe I just feel ambivalent about it for MYSELF. Don't know if I trust myself to honor it "till death do us part". Eek. That sounds so final. lol..


What about Juno? Isn't it considered the poster child of the marital contract?

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Kamilla
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posted June 21, 2006 11:45 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lioneye,

We can do a case study on my chart if you want...lol. I think Saturn in 7th House might be a culprit. According to cafeastrology this placement often brings karmic marriage in which people tend to bring out the worst in each other. That is very true, speaking from experience. I guess, theoretically you supposed to learn from it and move to the next phase of relationship but I was not that good of a student...lol...and dropped the subject all together.

Personally, I don't see Venus trine Saturn as something negative. I think, it would more likely mean late marriage than divorce. It also a sign of a good parent


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astroleolady
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posted June 22, 2006 01:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for astroleolady     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:

Personally, I don't see Venus trine Saturn as something negative. I think, it would more likely mean late marriage than divorce. It also a sign of a good parent.


I have read the same thing. It usually means a marriage, if there's going to be one, some time after the first Saturn Return. It also means you can be loyal and faithful in love and relationships. You also can be a late bloomer.

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pixelpixie
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posted June 22, 2006 09:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus trine Saturn here too.. * Sag and Leo respectively.

Something interesting.. My husband's Juno is in my 7th house...(Aquarius)
My Juno conjuncts his Uranus in his MC ( My IC).. kind of conflicting energies there...

*Not sure if you saw it, thanks Lioneye, for your similar observations last night.

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lioneye68
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posted June 22, 2006 11:14 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
N/P Pix. I calls 'em as I sees 'em.

Kamilla, the late marriage idea is fitting. Most people are on their 2nd marriage by the time they're 37, but oh no...not me. I can't take it lightly - I really only want to do it once. The good parent thing makes me feel good. Saturn is in my 5th house too, which probably explains my kiddo's Capricorn stellium. She thinks I'm alright lol...

I read that Saturn in the 7th means (usually painful) Karmic lessons through marriage, but once you get it, there should be a reward I would think. Saturn always leaves a reward behind when you learn his lessons. Don't give up just yet, Kamilla.

astrolady, I guess you could say I'm a late bloomer. Or, just very "serious" about love.

See, Pix - that's what I was thinking. The links 2 people have between Juno & personal planets. His Mars conjuncts my Juno, in my 11th house, and my moon conjuncts his - in his 7th house. But, I don't know how much weight to give that, as I'm not too familiar with the asteroids.

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pixelpixie
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posted June 22, 2006 11:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You've probably seen this before

http://www.astroinvestigators.com/marrsyn.htm
http://www.astrologyforthesoul.com/chb/goddessgospel.html

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BlueEyes24
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posted June 22, 2006 11:48 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Why does gemini in the 7th mean a divorce or two marriages? I have gemini in the 7th. :/

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lioneye68
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posted June 22, 2006 11:51 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ah...yes, I have but I forgot about that. That's awesome, Pix - thanks. This page is chalk full of good, meaty information on marriage statistics, from an Astro point of view.

I have a feeling I'm going to be spending a good deal of time pouring over those stats. - Of course, it doesn't tell you which marriages lasted, and which ones didn't.

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pixelpixie
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posted June 22, 2006 12:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh Good!
Glad I found something useful.

I also found this link.. about asteroids.. figured I'd post it too.
http://www.newagecities.com/neighborhoods/astrology/content/bigfourjuno_121399.asp

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pixelpixie
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posted June 22, 2006 12:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Then I found US!!!! on a search engine too.. so I'll 'bump' it here. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/004458.html

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lioneye68
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posted June 22, 2006 12:23 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pix.... YOU !!

I suppose i could have done that myself. I'm not lazy, honest. I just thought personal experiences and case studies from the lovely LL'ers would be insightfull.

Still happy to hear about that, if anyone wants to share....?

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astroleolady
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posted June 22, 2006 07:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for astroleolady     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:

Why does gemini in the 7th mean a divorce or two marriages? I have gemini in the 7th. :/


Gemini, the twins, is a dual sign meaning 2. Gemini is also a mutable sign meaning changeable and adaptable.

Having Gemini on your 7th house cusp doesn't necessarily mean that you will have a divorce. The placement implies that there maybe a possibility of having more than one marriage for whatever reason - divorce, death etc.

The entire chart really needs to be taken into account not just one part of it.

What happens in your marriage is also going to be dependant upon your transits and progressions and your spouses.

As always, you do have free will.

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Inner depths
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posted June 22, 2006 08:04 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've heard positive things about natal venus trine natal Saturn. What I read is that it may show that the person is very loyal in relationships and marriage can be long lasting.

Hmmmmmm, after reading the posts, got me thinking of my chart - I see no marriages in my chart. I highly doubt that I will ever get married anyhow - not gonna happen.

I don't believe in having to have a contract to be with somebody. These days I have been seeing too much divorce so, why even bother going out and spending all that money for nada.....(My father would highly recommend that I go elope, if i did have a mate - he don't want to pay for anything anyhow.....)

However this is what works for me - doesn't mean that marriage doesn't work for everybody....just for this gal......nope....

ID

PS - I have Sun opposite Uranus square to Mars. Jupiter in Sag and I'm an Aries. I have emphasis on all 3 freedom loving signs in my chart (Aries, Sag and aqua).

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Kamilla
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posted June 22, 2006 08:13 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My sinastry with my ex never impressed me much in either positive or negative way. Little bit of this, little bit of that... Although my Juno is in his Sun sign.

But then I did the composite chart (Davidson on astro.com)and wasn't that an eye opener! Scorpio Sun, Taurus Moon and Aries Ascendant. Venus and Saturn conjunct in 7th House. As it was mentioned before that placement brings out the worst in each person which makes us jealous, posessive, stubborn, self-absorbed, self-righteous and agressive. I don'r want to bore you with too many details but the MOST positive aspect in this chart is Venus trine Uranus but, I guess, you can't go too far on kinky sex alone...lol. Venus and Saturn are both in Scorpio in direct opposition to Moon and square Jupiter and Pluto. They are also in conjunction with Juno which sits on the cusp of 8 house. Let's see... would that be a marriage doomed from the start?

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sthenri
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posted June 22, 2006 10:30 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Merc in Gemini in the 7th here, and no marriage either, but it makes a person more hesitant than capable of multiple marriages.

Oddly enough the ones with Aquarius in the 7th or Uranus conjunct 7th have been strong possible mates for me.

The worst at commitment i found had Saturn opposite Uranus and Saturn opposite the 7th house, not conjunct.

Plus lots of outer planets in mutable signs.

Anyway Lioneye, stick to no contracts and true love that will make you happiest-be true to your own voice and what you think is right. As a Leo your heart is strong and your instincts are right.

Sag is a good sign for this too, when the Sag i like tells me something I believe him,
that's called trust:>

A contract has nothing to do with trust, it's about a guarantee, and agreements have more to do with day to day commitment and communication.

I don't automatically trust someone I have a contract with.

Natasha

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WaterNymph
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posted June 23, 2006 04:47 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Saturn in the 7th may also mean you prefer older guys…there was a thread about this a while ago.

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