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Venusian Love
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posted July 08, 2006 09:22 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Let's say back in November I made up a lie when I told a Scorpio man with scorpio moon, leo rising, venus in libra and mars in scorpio that I was planning on getting back with my ex fiance to test his jealousy and the scorpio yells at me and say us young women now a days have a new boyfriend every week.


Is that jealousy?

Let's say the other day I was going to Arizona and spoke to him before I left and he started asking me If I was going to see a guy and where I was going to stay and why I was going to stay in a hotel.


(He didn't ask in a rude way)


Is this jealousy or curioisity?


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Gemini sun, Cancer ascendant, Taurus moon *29, Taurus venus, Libra mars
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Things base and vile, holding no quantity,
Love can transpose to form and dignity.
Love looks not with the eye, but with the mind,
And therefore is winged Cupid painted blind.

-William Shakespeare

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lioneye68
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posted July 08, 2006 09:31 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The fact that he was talking to you at all says something. You wouldn't be given the time of day, if you meant nothing to him.

Scorpios ask alot of question, and do like to know...why they want to know, depends.

Don't try to make a scorpio jealous on purpose. it's just not nice, nor wise. They'll only do it back 50 times over anyway.

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scorpiopride
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posted July 08, 2006 11:37 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
wow you're playing with fire there! (And I do not mean in an astrological sense)

I'm not sure how other scorpios would answer this but these are my thoughts.


playing with the scorpio jealousy can be a bad thing. Some might try to control it, others not so much, but that depends on each scorpio.

The first thing he said about young women having a new boyfriend every week sounded like a man who is frusterated with trying to understand women. That and maybe it's jealousy that he lost control of since he yelled at you. and in yelling his frustration at you could spell out that he does care for you.

the second thing he said (when you were going to arizona) that sounds like curiousity and jealousy to me. and it sounds like he doesn't want you to know he's jealous, which isn't suprising cause scorpios can be secretive and manipulative as well (hence the being nice about it) The real test will be how he reacts to you later. Then you should know without a doubt if it's jealousy.

Jealousy is usally an ugly thing and doesn't go over well.

I have to wonder (being a curious scorpio myself) Why you would want to make him jealous? I and MOST the scorpios I know tend to be very loyal when they care and love someone. The reason I bring this up is as a scorpio I don't like to be played with by people and if I sense that, then that person gets the "you don't exsist to me" look, which means no matter how much I care for the person and despite everything, that person will never get to be a part of "my world" Sometimes us scorpios aren't very forgiving.

Good luck with your scorpio but be careful on the jealousy thing. It may come back on you wether it's cause he seeks the revenge or cause of karma.

I hope my ramblings have helped you some.

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Lousianagrl
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posted July 08, 2006 11:46 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I bet it was most definately jealousy but he knew you were trying to make him jealous so he tried his best to hide his jealousy.
I'm surprised he still gives you the time of day after you tried to test him like that. HE CAN TEST YOU, but when you test him he's like "woah- hold up"
Trust me, I dated a guy with scorp sun, moon & Venus and he would flip out if I even brought up another guy's name. Once I got angry with him and flirted A TINY BIT with another dude and he got FURIOUS & I didn't get a ride home from the party we went to, lol. But he was still pretty young (barely 18) so he had a hard time copeing (?) with his emotions.
Plus I know how scorps are seeing as I have a scorpio mother, father, best friend, & 2 exes.
They have to know what you're doing at all times it seems...It's like "What did you do while I was away?" "Oh a lot of things! I went to the lake, Katie's house, some parties-" "THE LAKE? With who? You went with Tyler, didn't you? And who's Katie? Was it her party???" OMG! it's insane. That's why I'm dating a sagittarius!!

At least your guy has Venus in Libra so he's a bit more loose. But I wouldn't f*ck with a Scorpio anymore if I were you...You'll get stung bad. Then they'll feel all good about themselves..GOD don't you hate that??

I can understand why you'd want to make him jealous tho...You read all these things about how jealous they can get and you think "Heyyy..I wanna see him show how much he cares about me" or if you're more Gem-ish- "IMMA MAKE HIM FLIP OUT!!" lol.
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Sun::Aquarius
Moon::Libra
Asc&venus(conj.)::Pisces
Merc.Saturn.Nep.Uranus:: Capricorn

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Venusian Love
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posted July 09, 2006 03:02 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah I dated a Scorp once. To intense. He was abusive and very jealous. So was I but he was the one whoring around anyways.


He's crazy.

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Gemini sun, Cancer ascendant, Taurus moon *29, Taurus venus, Libra mars
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Things base and vile, holding no quantity,
Love can transpose to form and dignity.
Love looks not with the eye, but with the mind,
And therefore is winged Cupid painted blind.

-William Shakespeare

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sue g
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posted July 09, 2006 03:40 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
VL

JEALOUSY....take it from me, and we hate to be provoked too...

Careful girl....you may get burnt!!!

Good luck to you...if I can help with anything, just ask...

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sthenri
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posted July 09, 2006 07:59 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't know, sometimes a girl has to know..otherwise why let a guy hang all over you if he isn't going to start taking care of his own? usually a jealous guy will start to do more practical things for a woman which is what you may want.

Case in point
The Sag I like says that he is seeing a "friend" on a friday night, this was a few months ago.

Then I called back the following week and made a date, when he picked me up I told him about all the other guys I talked to and ones that I did stuff with, movies, little fights, I went into everything we did, all my feelings about these men, everything since he wanted to know my "deepest" thoughts right.

So, then he blows up at me and calls these "games" juvenile, immature and stupid. Obviously he was interested so I left off and told him I was too busy for men anymore except for practical reasons. Then he called me up and asked what I was doing and I gave him a list of practical reasons we could hang out, I need a new air conditioner, I'll buy, and he can pick it up and help me put it in. Very blunt, no mention of other men.

Anyway he has Scorpio moon and mars and is very much jealous, no doubt now. When he feel it's noticed he says stuff about being more self sufficient (me) meaning not needing other men for things. It's easy to see now. But at first I had to know and lay it on the line to confront him with his Bull.

He doesn't see "friends" anymore that I know of or at least he doesn't seem to have time.

I would be careful to stop and remember it is juvenile BUT friends help each other and are good company, remember the reasons you are together and remind him.

Natasha
Taurus/Cancer Moon

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Stargazer
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posted July 10, 2006 03:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stargazer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi VL

I know a Scorp man, Leo rising, Libra venus,Scorpio Mars.... Very magnetic and charming.... but.. I would never never try to make him jealous on purpose...He didn't need any help and with his Mars square Uranus and Pluto in the 1st..I never wanted to be on the opposite end of his temper. Trust is of utmost importance to a Scorp. and that Leo rising will give him a "pride" like nothing else.. be careful... they are vengeful and their sense of pride can outweigh their need for you... you won't see them for dust.....
He probably is curious... always probing..
They will test you but don't like the flipside.... either that, or he knew it was a lie and is just playing with you.... this guy is the bulldozer of the zodiac... unfortunately, he does it in a way that you seldom see it coming... be careful!

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CrankyCap
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posted July 10, 2006 03:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CrankyCap     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
VL,

Do you really like this guy? Do you think you might want any kind of relationship with him in the future? If the answer to either of those questions is yes, then you should most definitely STOP playing with him like that.

Depending on how "in tune" this Scorp is, he probably knew that you were lying in the first place, and I agree he's probing and testing you now to see if you're for real. They can play head games but if you try to turn the tables on them you're screwed - and they'll WIN. The Scorp temper is not pretty, as you said yourself when you dated one previously. And I have to agree with Stargazer too, my Scorp boyfriend has the Leo placement as his moon. He's EXTREMELY commanding, and when he tells me he doesn't like something I've said or done I LISTEN. I don't even want to test him. I take his word for it. His tone and his eyes are all I need to see.

Recommendation? Stop toying with him and Be Careful! Straightforward and honest is the only way to go.

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sugar_buns
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posted July 11, 2006 12:15 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
this guy is the bulldozer of the zodiac

MMM YUM

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Elena P
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posted July 11, 2006 10:23 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh, don't play with the Scorpio jealousy!! I'm a brave Aries but i remember all my life that Scorpio fire,,, All the time he was so quiet,well- mannered and suddenly,out of blue....I lost my 7 spare kilogramms My very gentle husband...

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sugar_buns
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posted July 12, 2006 01:35 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I WANNA LOSE WEIGHT TOO!!
hehe!

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Venusian Love
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posted July 12, 2006 11:10 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well it doesn't matter anyways. The ******* is engaged to someone else. Speaking of the devil. he just called me at work asking for a letter for his father because it turned out his parents are clients here and have been since before I started working here. I hate/love him.

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Gemini sun, Cancer ascendant, Taurus moon *29, Taurus venus, Libra mars
*----------*----------*
Things base and vile, holding no quantity,
Love can transpose to form and dignity.
Love looks not with the eye, but with the mind,
And therefore is winged Cupid painted blind.

-William Shakespeare

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Venusian Love
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posted July 12, 2006 11:13 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Everytime I try and forget him I can't. After I left that temporary job I was working in that I met him in, he started working right by where I live and work. Now I moved and he works on that same block because he got another job again. WTF. I can't get away.

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