posted July 14, 2006 12:12 AM              

I am starting to believe venus-pluto connections are too bad for me

posted July 14, 2006 07:11 PM              

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Gemini sun, Cancer ascendant, Taurus moon *29, Taurus venus, Libra mars
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Things base and vile, holding no quantity,
Love can transpose to form and dignity.
Love looks not with the eye, but with the mind,
And therefore is winged Cupid painted blind.

posted July 14, 2006 07:47 PM            

Apparently it is harder for the Venus person to let go and supposedly the Pluto person has more control over the situation. I'm not sure if that's totally true. I think, from my experience, that the Pluto person perhaps has the most control over the timeline of the relationship...as in when it begins and ends.

I think that the Pluto person is just as capable of experiencing the intensity of the connection as the Venus person, no matter what you read, and may have just as hard a time letting go.

The one thing I can say about it is that it seems like a very transformative aspect between two people. Things will happen that change both of you...your thoughts, your feelings and/or actions.

Intense.

posted July 14, 2006 08:41 PM            

My Natal Venus in Sag sextiles my husband's Pluto in Libra while his Venus in Virgo conjuncts my Pluto.

It is a strong connection but when the other aspects are right- it all works out. By that I mean, if you have a Sag Sun / Aries moon paired up with a Pisces Sun / Virgo moon- then you add his Pluto in Libra and Venus in Cancer- there are going to be problems.

Although his Venus formed a sextile to my Pluto and his Pluto formed a sextile to my Venus- it also opposed the living hell out of my Moon, conjuncted Uranus and completed my T-square.

His Venus in Cancer was also conjunct his Saturn in Cancer- making my Moon, Uranus in Mercury squirm to get away from his control issues.

My Pluto in Virgo conjuncted his Moon and squared his Neptune / Mercury. I also added to his T-square.

So taken along the Pluto - Venus contacts weren't bad- BUT - there were a whole slew of other problems that made our relationship unable to sustain itself and like all Venus Pluto contacts, the love can be deep but the hate can be deeper.