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Arnicka
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posted July 24, 2006 08:27 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey All - Am offering interps from a new book i just got most of you prob dont have: Mercury Method of Chart Comparison by Lois Rodden

Here are the aspects you can request:

conjunct
opposition
square
trine
sextile
semi sextile
semi square
sesqui-square
inconjunct
north parallel
south parallel
split parallel[these last 3 i have -no earthly idea- how to compute, any ideas??? are they other names for parallel and contraparallel>?]

*With*
Sun-Pluto and ASC and MC
I'll get to y'all in time, dont worry

*** EDIT ***
If you request a certain aspect and you dont see it show up under your username its because its already been typed out or the book doesnt cover it, such as Chiron and the nodes.

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Stargazer
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posted July 24, 2006 09:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stargazer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Arnicka!

Mercury conj Uranus
Mercury sextile Sun, Merc, and Venus
Mercury square Mars, ASC
Mercury conjunct SN

Any or all would be dandy!

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BlueEyes24
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posted July 24, 2006 09:15 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's very nice of you, thanks in advance.

Could you look up moon sextile mercury for me? Thanks.

*Edited to add Sun opposite Mercury.

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Venus De Milo
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posted July 24, 2006 09:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Venus De Milo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can you look up Venus trine Mercury please?

Also, Mars conjunct Mercury?

THANK YOOOOUU!!!

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lovegoblin
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posted July 24, 2006 09:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lovegoblin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
could you add sun conjunct mercury?
thanks luv

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Arnicka
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posted July 24, 2006 10:01 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Stargazer:

MERCURY CONJUNCT URANUS
Mercury has a familiarity with the individualism of Uranus. He understands or identifies from his own personal experience with Uranus' independence or originality. [paragraph] They come together to share, or experience at the same time a unique experience that is sudden and unexpected, or a changing condition that will represent a new chapter in their lives. Mercury may have an impartial acknowledgement of Uranus. In the examples of long-term relationship the 2 people have a changing experience together at given periods. [paragraph] In the case of a father with Mercury conjunct his daughter's Uranus, they made many moves together that were radical changes, from one country to another into entirely new conditions and environments. [paragraph] A woman with Mercury conjunct her husband's Uranus went through a 3-yr period of change with him that began when they separated. With an independent perversity, he bought a business that was competitive to hers. Within six months they reconciled and moved into a new home that they decorated in modern style, a radical departure from their former way of life. Two yrs later, Mercury, the woman, had a drastically unexpected event when her business burned to the ground. She sold the acreage to an industrial firm that paid her twice the amount of the business value, and reinvested with her husband. [paragraph] The changes are sometimes more subtle, as the two people's paths may cross at a time when they both are going through a period of independence or some unconventional pursuit. [paragraph] In various cases, Merc or Uranus had a nervous breakdown, and an explosive separation in his life, began a career in a field new to him, began occult or astrological studies, was jailed for unconventional conduct, had unsuual personal disaster, suddenly went into public appearance, gained sudden prestige or great change of fortune. [paragraph] The progressions show a specific time of change. Both persons go into a new chapter of their lives, together or independently of each other. They may move, change their status in some manner, form or break attachments, take up unconventional views or have sudden events occur that are unexpected. [paragraph] As the conjunction is neutral, it does not bring a change of relationship directly between the two, unless other aspects influence this.

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Arnicka
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posted July 24, 2006 10:10 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Stargazer:

MERCURY SEXTILE SUN
Mercury can understand and appreciate the goals and character of the Sun. Circumstances give Mercury the opportunity to develop a relationship based on an exchange of respect and credit. They are drawn together easily at a time when they can mutually benefit each other. If Mercury does not take the initiative, the time passes and the matter loses importance. [paragraph] All of these examples were harmonious. Mercury had an interest and respect for the Sun, and there were certain goals and interests in common. The aspects pertain largely to business relationships, or where the two people are involved in a goal that was prestigious or to their credit. [paragraph] As example, a man's Mercury made the sextile to a young woman's Sun. In spite of her youth and business inexperience, he offered her the management of his restaurant, which she handled well to their mutual credit. [paragraph] In an example where Mercury did not take the initiative, a woman had Mercury sextile the Sun of her employer. As she was reticent to assert her capacities, she stepped back from the chance to take a more authoritive position and the employer gave the job to someone else. [paragraph] In all cases, there was a distinct period of time when mercury has the chance to relate to the Sun. It is more indicative of business and goals than of personal relatedness.

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mars446
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posted July 24, 2006 10:16 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you sweety!

Here's my list:
Moon trine mercury
Mercury conjunct venus
Mercury conjunct mars
Mercury trine and square jupiter
Mercury square Uranus
Mercury square Neptune

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Dulce Luna
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posted July 24, 2006 10:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi! Could you do,

Mercury quincunx mercury
Mercury square Venus
Mercury opposition Jupiter


Thank you

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Arnicka
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posted July 24, 2006 10:23 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Stargazer:

MERCURY SEXTILE MERCURY
These two people are given a clear chance to develop ommunication and understanding. There is a time when they're drawn together easily. They have an interest in each other and in the same matters. With some measure of give-aand-take, they can develop this into a close association. They must both make this effort, as he contact depends on a mutual interchange. [paragraph] There is a wide range of effect in these examples. In all the Mercury sextile Merucry cases they come into the same environment with an interst in common. But due to other factors, one or the other may not choose to carry through with an effort, or response. [paragraph] There are several close marriage and family relationships where the give-and-take was established to the benefit of both. There are also romances and friendships where the attraction and the interests in common were not strong enough to endure. [paragraph] The Mercury sextile Mercury progressions also show some ease of opportunity balanced with some necessity of effort. in one example, two women met because their six year old sons played togeter. The two women found they had the same interests and enjoyed each other's company. As their husbands were not compatible to each other, they did not develop a blended social life, but the women often had morning coffee together. With this aspect, the developed a friendship that lasted many years. In some cases, the two people did not develop any understanding when they had the chance. They both went on to other interests and environments; when they met their contact was limited to, "How ar you? Nice weather we're having." In other exmaples, both marriage and business contracts were formed on a mutual interchange of communication and effort.

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ScorpioRising
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posted July 24, 2006 10:26 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks so much!

Mercury conjunct Sun
Moon conjunct mercury
North node sextile Mercury
Mercury opp. mars
Mercury sq. Uranus

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Arnicka
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posted July 24, 2006 10:41 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Stargazer:

MERCURY SEXTILE VENUS
Mercury at some time has the opportunity to demonstrate his love, appreciation and admiration of Venus. At that time the two are drawn together easily and the way is made clear for Mercury to express himself. If Mercury does not make that effort, the time passes and the warm exchange of harmony is lost. [paragraph] The examples include all types of contact, in business, school, family and friends and love affairs. The chance seems obvious enough, for there is a time when the two live, work, or play together. As long as Mercury gives his approval freely, Venus is amiable, pliable, helpful or in some way gives Mercury ease or pleasure. [paragraph] If or when Mercury chooses not to extend his yielding companionship, the two drift apart, oftne with hurt feelings and misunderstanding. [paragraph] A mother with Mercury sextile her daughter's Venus, gave her approval, appreciation and gratitude during her adolescent years. The daughter was a helpful and considerate Pisces who found innumerable ways to comfort and please her mother. They built a lifetime bond of loving during these years. [paragraph] Two men with Mercury sextile Venus were friends and business co-workers for years. Mercury gave Venus approval and camaraderie and Venus often took the heavy load from Mercury's shoulders, with finnacial assistance, or helpfulness in contact and business arrangements. When Mercury's business expansion took him into changing goals, he had less time or interest in Venus. It was hard for Venus to understand this, and he felt hurt at the diminishing friendship. [paragraph] A man with Merucry sextile the Venus of a beautiful woman was highly attracted to her. Though she was receptive to him, his business was at a pressure peak of output and he did not make the effort of pursuit. Later, his interest renewed, but she was engaged to another. [paragraph] The progresions show a time when the two come together on an emotional or social matter that can be beneficial to Mercury if he makes the effort. [paragraph] Several marriages began; several long term marriages and friendships were reaffirmend at this time with greater appreciation. In other cases, Mercury did not extend himself to give any approval, and the chance was lost in time. [paragraph] Where the Mercury sextile Venus is a pleasant exchange, it does not withstand stress or changes. It will not insure a relationship unless backed up by stronger aspects.

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Arnicka
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posted July 24, 2006 11:06 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Stargazer:

MERCURY SQUARE MARS
Mercury is strongly drawn to the vitality, courage, aggression or sexuality of Mars. There is an incompatibility in the way the two express their aggressions or energy patterns that creates a period of conflict or crisis. [paragraph] When Mercury is open, positive and direct, he will demand action form Mars, with a constructive criticism. [paragraph] When Mercury has hostility, guilt, competitiveness, lust or power conflicts, he will act in so destructive a manner to Mars as to leave nothing of value between them. [paragraph] In most of the examples between the two sexes, Mercury is sexually aroused by Mars, but there is either incompatibility in their sex patterns or there are social or circumstantial obstacles to coitus. One or the other may be married, pregnant, homosexual, virginal, impotent or promiscuous. Often there is a critical rejection of one by the other. [paragraph] In some cases the couples made the effort to enjoyable adjustment. There are a few long term marriages and many short-lived affairs that were sexually satisfactory. The marriages were most enduring in the cases where the two people had the need to express varying degrees of masochism or excessive lust together. In one example, the two people outlived their passions and spent a happy old age together, wrangling and nagging each other with a companionable familiarity. [paragraph] The celibate relationships probably were more harmonious. There are a number of fine friendships where the two expressed their sex and their energy drives elsewhere, but who could work and play together. In these examples Mercury had a mature, courageous, straightforward and constructive attitude. His conflicts with Mars were minor, because he met them openly. [paragraph] In contrast, the greatest potential to violence is in the Mercury square Mars. Out of 57 examples, there are 4 cases where a 3rd person was killed, a child, a husband, and two relatives. In all four cases Mercury and Mars had to act together for the funeral and public arrangements at a time of shock. [paragraph] In two cases Mercury died violently, by suicide and by murder. In one case Mars was in a drowning accident. [paragraph] There are four examples of attack. In one, Mercury tried to kill Mars. A Mercury mother protected her Mars daughter from sexual assault. The other two cases were also sexual attacks, once by Mercury, once by Mars. [paragraph] In three cases Mars had an abortion of Mercury's child. [paragraph] In five cases Mercury or Mars was injured in an accident. Mercury shows hostility, resentment, and rejection. He may demand action of Mars. One couple married under extreme obstacles; the girl Mercury ran away form home and the boy Mars lost his job. [paragraph] The crisis can certainly be overcome by constructive effort. The Mercury square Mars is not desperately prohibitive to a harmonious relationship. It makes a decided directive toward an honest and energetic exchange of energy to attain positive value.

As a question: How does this aspect play out for you two, do you think it contributes to sexual attraction? Does Mercury dish out some nasty language to Mars in fights? Moreso than Mars? Thats been my experience..

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Taurus80
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posted July 24, 2006 12:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Taurus80     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Stargazer
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posted July 24, 2006 12:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stargazer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Arnicka...
You are a gem to type all these out... I have related so much to what has been said....So many times, Mercury translations are just a couple of blurbs. And although they help solidify.. they , in many cases, can tear you apart...

We have Sun mutually aspecting Mars in synastry.. This is the sexual attraction...

Our problems are outlined here:
****Mercury is sexually aroused by Mars, but there is either incompatibility in their sex patterns or there are social or circumstantial obstacles to coitus. One or the other may be married, pregnant, homosexual, virginal, impotent or promiscuous. Often there is a critical rejection of one by the other. ***

I am the mercury.. We do not fight.. He just totally ignores me....He just doesn't put forth the effort...Effort, effort, effort... this is spread through all of these interps.... No effort = no relationship...And yes, when backed in a corner, I can be nasty.... but i never take it too far... he has mars sq. uranus natal and its not a pretty site when his temper blows... He has just plain igored me for the last couple months.. he knows i hate it...We are just hanging there...
As soon as I personally decide to let go, he'll be back around... its like he knows just when to reappear....

Thanks again... these have been very sobering!!

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chrissymgreen
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posted July 24, 2006 12:29 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
dear arnicka,

this is so nice of you!

could you possibly look up

mercury north parallel mercury
mercury opposite pluto
mercury conjunct pluto

ac tually, 3 is a lot to ask for, i am really most interested in mercury north parallel mercury.


thank you thank you thank you!

chrissy

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Arnicka
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posted July 24, 2006 12:47 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Stargazer:

MERCURY SQUARE ASC
Mercury is strongly drawn to the personality of the ASC, but there is an obstacle of incompatibility in disposition and attitude. [paragraph] When Mercury makes the effort to understand asc he can build a constructive and intimate exchange of affinity. [paragraph] When Mercury has prejudicial attitudes and inflexible habits he may find nothing of value in the contact. [paragraph] In some cases Mercury has such respect and affinity for ASC that he broadened his own viewpoint in their development of exchange. The give and take of two distinct personalities enriched them both. We have this illustrated with a student and teacher, a mother and daughter, with business associates and friends. [paragraph] In other examples, Mercury established a personlaity conflict with ASC that led to a crisis. Both lovers, friends, and enemies clashed in their personal viewpoints and prejudice until they separated. [paragraph] The progressions hold some measure of conflict that is not too severe. It is more the nature of a clash od some viewpoint in temperament or attitude. Mercury can handle this easily with an effort to adaptation.

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bullhead
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posted July 24, 2006 01:21 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Arnicka,
i saw the mecury sqaure mars aspect, sound interesting. wondering how about MERCURY OPP MARS?

if you have time..
and also,

mercury trine sun,
mercury trine pluto,
mercury sqaure venus,
mercury sqaure saturn

thank so very much

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posted July 24, 2006 04:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nephthys     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mercury Sextile Saturn
(Pretty please with sugar on top!)

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carlfloydfan
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posted July 24, 2006 04:58 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mercury Conjunct Venus
Mercury Conjunct Jupiter
Mercury Square Pluto

Sun Conjunct Mercury

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geminstone
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posted July 24, 2006 07:08 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow! Thanks Arnicka I'd love a little insight about Mercury inconjunct Sun... Does it give anything with regard to how Mercury retrograde aspects? Just curious, as this inconjunct I ask about, the natal Mercury is retro.
Many Thanks to You

~ geminstone

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Arnicka
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posted July 24, 2006 10:47 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
BlueEyes24:

MERCURY SEXTILE MOON
Mercury has the ability to respond to the mood and feeling of the Moon. There is a certain time when the two are drawn together easily and the chance is clearly presented for Mercury to offer solicitude and trust to the Moon. [paragraph] When Mercury accepts this opportunity, the two develop a greater or lesser degree of exchange of the evryday details of experience, with mutual sympatico and appreciation. When Mercury does not make this effort, the contact gradually loses affinity. [paragraph] In some of the examples of friends and of relatives, there was an intimate exchange of penetrating understanding. In other examples where Mercury made no effort to adapt, he quite lost any chance of affinity with the Moon. [paragraph] Two women lived as neighbors for ten yrs with Mercury sextile Moon. Mercury was accustomed to a quiet, genteel life. When the Moon moved into her home, she brought with her msuic and children, noise and activity. Mercury chose to snub the Moon, so whatever sympatico they could have had was stillborn. [paragraph] In several examples, the two people developed intense romances, with a penetrating exchange of adaptation. A woman with Mercury sextile her husband's Moon said. " I know so well how he feels, and he takes care of me as no one evr has in my life. I'm closer to him than anyone in this world." [paragraph] There are child-parent examples and doctor-patient examples. [paragraph] The progressions show the period of time when the opportunity is spontaneous. The choice and effort is up to Mercury.

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Venusian Love
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posted July 24, 2006 10:55 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mercury square Pluto


Mercury square chiron


Mercury conjunct Pluto


Thanks!

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Arnicka
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BlueEyes24:

MERCURY OPPOSITION SUN
Mercury reaches an understanding ot identification with the Sun for certain goals and interests held in common. They share some degree of integral character that is meaningful to both. They share some matter of worldly goal or position in common. [paragraph] However, the full expression of that goal, the manner of achievement, or the deep ego drives, do not blend in full. Mercury cannot fully adapt to the matters that are important to the Sun. When the time comes for a larger adaptation, they reach am impasse, from which Mercury must withdraw until he can again make contact on a common basis. [paragraph] The examples contain family relationships where the Mercury child eventually drew away from the Sun parent to find his own individuality and meanings. In the business relationships, Mercury related most agreeably to the Sun in extending a maximum of cooperation and trust. [paragraph] The contatc remains the most consistent in quality where it is intermittent in time. When the two choose a common environment, a slow inflexible struggle of character and meanings pushes them apart. [paragraph] Outside of the parent-child relationships which were for the most part agreeable, the lonegst example of the Mercury opposition Sun was a 12 yr marriage. The last five yeras of that marriage was a gradual pulling apart, as the interests and ego drives of the two became as oil and water. [paragraph] The Mercury opposition Sun progressions show the period of full contact on a matter of significance either in goals, or relationship, with a subsequent separation. While this was final only in a few cases, it often showed that circum,stances would tend to divide the two. [paragraph] In an example, a woman went to work for a man with whom she had Mercury opposition Sun. Where they had understanding and identification in their common interest in the office, Mercury felt that the Sun's business methods were lacking integrity, so she quit. [paragraph] In a personal realtionship of a man with mercury opposition a woman's Sun, they had a romance-friendship. They both were ambitious in their personla goals, they had intellectual interests in common, and had character similarities. Mercury would make an intnse conatct with the Sun, but they could not fully blend. An ego conflict would develop, a discrepancy in meanings would become irreconcilable. Mercury would withdraw for weeks or months before again calling the Sun. [paragraph] There is only one consummate romance in the progressions. As the aspect moved out, the two married.

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Arnicka
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posted July 24, 2006 11:25 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus De Milo:

MERCURY TRINE VENUS
Mercury has a spontaneous appreciation or admiration of Venus for a quality of character or personality. Mercury loves Venus, as a friend, companion or mate. As the Mercury trine Venus aspect is placed in nature, that love may be no greater than a casual pleasure in the company of Venus. When other aspects intensify the contact between the two, Mercury's love can have endurance and depth. [paragraph] Where the examples do have long term friendships and family relationships, there are surprisingly few enduring romances and marriages. When events do not go easily and harmoniously between the two, Mercury withdraws from Venus, as his passions and efforts go elsewhere. [paragraph] A woman with Mercury trine a Man's Venus fell deeply in love with him. They had an affair for a year that became increasingly tempestuous the second year. Her moody demands became distasteful to the man; her urge that they marry was disagreeable to him and they separated. [paragraph] In another example quite similar, the two did marry. The Mercury woman made only as much effort to please Venus as happened to suit her pleasure, and they eventually drifted apart. [paragraph] In the close friendships, Mercury gives a measure of joy and appreciation to Venus during an intermittent contact that is both sociable and affectionate. There are few examples of long endurance in cohabitation outside of the family relationships. [paragraph] The progressions are more encouraging, as they show a time when Mercury is spontaneously drawn to Venus in love and admiration. These people often began love affairs, marriage or cohabitation. [paragraph] Two friends who ahd forseveral years been separated in enmity, were reunited with the Mercury trine Venus aspect. [paragraph] In the majority of Mercury trine Venus aspects, there is some social life in common.

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