posted July 25, 2006 01:51 PM
triple,My last post said:
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Since your birthdays are very close, I look at two parts in your relationship charts. First, whether the Sun and Moon are in aspect. Your Suns are in challenging aspect to each other. This indicates a "connection", but a stressful one.Second I look at the aspect connections of the personal planets (Sun, your Moon, Mercury, Venus, and Mars - with no time for him, the position of his Moon can't be determined). Looking at these aspect connections the number of easy and challenging aspects is similar. However, there are some stressful aspects to your Moon (emotions), which could cause you emotional issues with him.
Normally I also look at the other planets, but since you are very similar in age, his other planets do not make any aspects to your planets which you don't already have. In other words, his other planets don't add any "new" energy to your chart.
The most important aspects differ from person to person. I usually also look at Libra/Venus/7th house in both birth charts to first see how each person responds to relationships. How a person responds to relationships has a great deal to do with which aspects "fit" best with the person...
Thanks for getting the full birth information! I can now look at Libra/Venus/7th house focuses for you both and look at what his Moon does in your chart.
Looking at your chart, you have several planets in Libra, indicating you have relationships energy. You have Libra modifying Pluto (transformation, also control) which can indicate a control or be controlled attitude towards relationships. This possibility can be reduced if you learn to share control in relationships. Your Venus sextiles (energy goes easily with) Neptune (spirituality, also idealization), indicating you may tend to idealize relationships. To reduce this possibility, it is important for you to understand that no relationship is "perfect": all relationships take hard work from BOTH people in the relationship. You have a lot of energy focused in and near your 7th house, indicating you focus on relationships for the sake of having relationships.
Looking at his chart, he has Libra modifying Pluto, similar to you, this may be less stressful for him since Venus trines (energy goes very easily with) Pluto, indicating that control flows easily in the relationship.
In addition to being trine Pluto, Venus also opposes (energy is over-excited by) Neptune (spirituality, also idealization), indicating he may also tend to idealize his relationships. There is no energy focused in the 7th house so he does not have relationships for the sake of having relationships.
Adding in the Moon, you still have a similar number of easy and challenging aspects. There are several squares to his Moon (home, also emotions), indicating there he could have some emotional issues with some of your interactions. Most challenging is your Pluto squaring his Moon, which he could feel as controling in some way. His Moon also conjuncts your Nadir (inner world), which could indicate you connect deeply to his feelings.
The biggest challenge you both have is a tendency to idealize relationships. As long as you are both willing to work together to MAKE this an ideal relationship (rather than simply EXPECTING it to be an ideal relationship), you should be able to get on fine with each other in the long run. This is also suggested by your having Saturn (duty, also structure) square Venus between you.
Relating,
Tim
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posted July 25, 2006 09:13 AM
