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Topic: I heard from the Virgo!
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LuLu
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posted July 30, 2006 07:32 PM
 
And this is all he had to say in his message "Well I definitely had a good time with you and the interest is there on my end as well. I assumed I was just a vacation fling. Mainly because of the 2 hours that seperates us. I would like to stay in touch. I don't make it to Lousiville much, but if you are in Cincy sometime call me up. Matt" And then he requested I be his friend on MySpace. Ummmm, what? I accepted his friend request. Told him "I understand. If you get around to visiting in Louisville, you've got my number. Keep in touch. And if a crazy lady named Angie tracks you down to get a picture you took of the two of you, I apologize and it isn't my fault. Reigning her in is like controlling the weather."I didn't find his message very encouraging. A little confusing actually. Makes me feel like the only reason he responded was because he felt like he had to.
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mars446
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posted July 30, 2006 07:42 PM
Oh he's just trying to be control of himself...he doesn't want to seem needy or whatever....and again, u see the part where he said i thought it was a vacation fling? That's b/c virgos overthink things...so he was thinking that u were thinking that, so he'd rather not expect too much, b/c after all, when u expect too much, ur usually let down pretty bad. Just go along as trying to be friends, and keep at it......eventually u'll get to see if he wants to continue or not.U see, w/ us Virgos, if u want to know more about us........all u gotta do is ask. At least the ones that r not control freaks (or trying not to be control freaks) want to give the other person the command, so we don't seem imposing and constricting...or like the other topic that I wanted to know more about......SELFISH, b/c we want to do the things we want or the way we want it. Just go along w/ the flow.....and if he falls in ur lap......well grl.....ur lucky! Don't forget that story about the guy spraining his ankle badly, and the grl who liked him a lot (sorry...i forgot her name, i think loulou) almost gave up hope until he came around out of the blue and told her he loved her. It's all about being patient.....curb that sag in u....I know it luvs to chase the stars  IP: Logged |
LuLu
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posted July 30, 2006 08:15 PM
I can do the "go along with being friends" thing. He is just confusing me. I don't think he ever planned on calling and now I feel like I forced him to respond. He doesn't HAVE to be my friend. I feel a bit like a charity case at the moment. Oh...I'm sorry...did I give you the wrong impression...why sure...we can be "friends"...here...join my friend list.IP: Logged |
mars446
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posted July 30, 2006 08:26 PM
Don't think like that Lulu.....if u do, u'll do the whole self-fulfilling prophecy, which really, really, u don't want to do.Self-fulfilling prophecy, in case u don't know what it is, is the idea that u have a set of beliefs or ideas of urself or another person, and u do things that make those things come out true to u, though they r not necessarily true. IP: Logged |
LuLu
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posted July 30, 2006 08:31 PM
I'm just confused, that's all. I'll keep in touch, but I just don't know how to broach it other than just chatting and keeping up with how he is doing. He made it sound like he wasn't going to go out of his way to see me...and I don't want to look like an idiot by going out of my way to see him. I just get so shy when it comes to flirting that it really puts me out of my comfort zone sometimes when I can't quite grasp what the other person is thinking.IP: Logged |
mars446
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posted July 30, 2006 09:03 PM
Oh no......don't go out of ur way to see him. Just keep it online/phone and see how it goes from there.IP: Logged |
LuLu
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posted July 30, 2006 09:27 PM
Good deal. Sounds like a plan.IP: Logged |
Lady Dee
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posted July 31, 2006 12:30 AM
Oh stay positive. Use this as an opportunity to get to know him on-line...then he will fall for your charms. I have been following your posts with great interest as I need advice on Virgo men (infact when I first read your post I thought you had met mine...he has just got back from holiday)....but another island.Good luck.....down but not out! IP: Logged |
LuLu
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posted July 31, 2006 12:37 AM
Oh gosh Lady Dee! I hope I didn't meet your Virgo. That would be the worst luck ever!!! Thank you for being such a sweetheart. The more I reread what he said, the more it makes sense to me and doesn't sound so much like a blow off. I know that I am not the type of person that has flings, but I shouldn't have expected him to know that. And I realize that if I hadn't found him on MySpace and sent him a message, I never would of heard from him mainly because he assumed I just thought of him in that light. Hopefully this will give us the opportunity to get to know each other and see where things head. Reading his message and hearing that he was interested made me smile. At least I know that the connection was real IP: Logged | |
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