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pixie22
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posted August 06, 2006 06:25 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Hello, any information would be great, im trying to figure out my chart. thanks

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pixie22
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posted August 07, 2006 01:39 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have had a violent relationship with a now stalker (scorpio for 2 and half years) and another relationship with a taurus for 9 months.... both extreamly different but neither my match!! Is there a star sign i would be best suited for? I dont want to get into another relationship and find out its the wrong person!! Do i just attract weirdos!? any help is greatly appreaciated..

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Glaucus
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posted August 07, 2006 02:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Compatibility is not just sunsigns. You have to look at the overall charts. A couple with incompatible sunsigns can still be compatible due to other factors like compatible Moons,Ascendants,Mercuries,Venuses.

Seeing that you are mostly air and fire when it comes to personal planets, I am not sure that Scorpio and Taurus are for you nor water types for that matter. You probably better off with more intellectual,detached,easygoing types.

Your Moon conjunct Uranus in Sagittarius in 7th can indicate that relationships for you can be unstable. You can attract emotionally unstable unstable partners.

Your Mars in Scorpio can indicate that you can be attracted to powerful,sensitive,emotional types, but these could be the negative Scorpio types that are jealous,possessive,obsessive,controlling,and too secretive. You also have Scorpio Descendant adds to that.

Also with Saturn conjunct Mars, you could be attracted to men that are serious,mature,stable,secure,ambitious...but it can also indicate that men in your life can control,limit,restrict you and just hold you back. Mars and Saturn are both traditional malefics in Astrology. Hard aspects involving those two have been perceived as being dangerous,and this does include the conjunction. You did say that your Scorpio exboyfriend was violent.

Your Sun conjunct Venus indicates that the men in your life can be sensual,artistic,into beauty,sociable,relationship-oriented. This can also indicate that you can attract men that are possessive,materialistic,and just into looks,and is flirtatious. The Sun conjunct Venus gives you affinity with Sun in Taurus but also Sun in Libra as well. I actually think that you would do well with a Sun in Libra as long as he other strong air influences as well as fire. I am not sure if you can handle a person with strong water influences.

Moon conjunct Uranus in Sagittarius in 7th indicate that you can be emotionally detached and if things get too heavy,you can go elsewhere. There is a possibility that you could be attracted to people of different cultures. This could be people of different nationalities,ethnic groups as well as people that are just very different from your roots.
You could emotionally relate well to Aquarians(ruled by Uranus) and Sagittarians.

There really is no right nor wrong Sunsign for anybody because synastry is the comparison of 2 charts and not the comparison of just the Suns.


another thing too...there is the possibility of being attracted to older men....maybe not now...but later in life.

I hope this helps.

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astro junkie
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posted August 10, 2006 05:35 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
pixie22 -

Are you still there ?

I'm seeing something having to do with certain people misunderstanding what you are trying to say or do. There's actually an Aspect or two out there which suggests your manner of communication can sometimes appear foggy in such a way that some people think you are covering something up, even if that's total rubbish.

If you combine that type of astrological influence with a strong healing theme in your Chart, you'll attract the ones who are not only suspicious of you, but also vaguely aware of your ability to heal them.

I'm not saying you have those same exact Aspect interpretations I've come across, but something tells me you feel like people are constantly demanding clarifications from you. What in your life do you think brings you the greatest sense of groundedness?

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posted August 12, 2006 05:40 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
*bumped to top of thread*

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posted August 12, 2006 06:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Transiting Pluto has been navigating your 7th house, the house of relationships and partners. Pluto is a very intense, obsessive, fanatical planet. So while he is in your 7th house, you tend to attract partners that have these, um, qualities.

Pluto is now at 24 degrees of Sag, but as it will move further out of the opposition it is making with your Venus and Sun that are at 21 and 22 degrees of Gemini, you will feel its effect less. However, keep in mind that until it moves out of your 7th house, relationships will still be an intense area for you.

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pixie22
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posted March 08, 2007 04:55 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

sorry for the late reply.

i am not sure wat makes me grounded most in life - i guess i always feel pretty detached and in some kind of dream world.

am interested in the healing aspect. the scorpio boyf always looked to me to sort out his life and get him on track, and i stayed with him so long because i thought i could help him control his anger and calm him down. the taurus boyf also looked to me to save him from his current life of partying and drugs.
also he constantly needed me to tell him i loved him and finished it with me because i wouldnt promise him a future. wen he didnt understand that i wasnt saying that, i was saying i couldnt promise something like that because i didnt no wat the future held.
also he always thought i was keeping things from him about my life - wen in reality this wasnt true.

i was wondering if pluto has now moved out of my 7th house because i havent wanted to start a relationship since and get guys numbers and then dont answer wen they ring dismissing them for little reasons.

i am now livin at home again, within close proximity to the scorpio who has now become so obsessive i had to involve the police and a harrasment form. the taurus is living in wales and i continue to have some sort of relationship with him, but not at the same time?

this is the scoripos placements:
Sun Scorpio 28°19'46 in house 1 direct
Moon Libra 24°27'37 in house 11 direct
Mercury Sagittarius 19°18'57 in house 1 direct
Venus Capricorn 7°47'40 in house 2 direct
Mars Aquarius 3°32'35 in house 3 direct
Jupiter Capricorn 12°23'48 in house 2 direct
Saturn Scorpio 20°10'06 in house 12 direct
Uranus Sagittarius 12°51'55 in house 1 direct
Neptune Sagittarius 29°57'50 in house 2 direct
Pluto Scorpio 3°06'06 in house 12 direct
True Node Taurus 27°26'29 in house 7 direct


taurus -
Sun Taurus 11°41'59 in house 4 direct
Moon Sagittarius 0°19'55 in house 11 direct
Mercury Aries 29°02'18 in house 4 direct
Venus Gemini 24°04'12 in house 7 direct
Mars Leo 29°25'45 in house 8 direct
Jupiter Virgo 0°17'20 in house 8 direct
Saturn Virgo 20°33'09 in house 9 retrograde
Uranus Scorpio 24°04'05 in house 11 retrograde
Neptune Sagittarius 22°17'49 in house 1 retrograde
Pluto Libra 19°48'07 in house 9 retrograde
True Node Leo 25°58'27 in house 8 retrograde

and have realised the chart i gave previously was incorrect, these are my placements:

Sun Gemini 22°16'25 in house 1 direct
Moon Sagittarius 16°04'10 in house 7 direct
Mercury Gemini 10°27'23 in house 1 direct
Venus Gemini 21°30'04 in house 1 direct
Mars Scorpio 11°59'57 in house 6 retrograde
Jupiter Capricorn 10°07'34 in house 8 retrograde
Saturn Scorpio 10°25'08 in house 6 retrograde
Uranus Sagittarius 11°06'29 in house 7 retrograde
Neptune Capricorn 0°16'01 in house 8 retrograde
Pluto Libra 29°30'13 in house 6 retrograde
True Node Gemini 6°36'19 in house 1 retrograde

any help would be greatly appreciated. did my incorrect chart make a huge difference?

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pixie22
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posted March 08, 2007 04:58 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
sorry for the late reply.

i am not sure wat makes me grounded most in life - i guess i always feel pretty detached and in some kind of dream world.

am interested in the healing aspect. the scorpio boyf always looked to me to sort out his life and get him on track, and i stayed with him so long because i thought i could help him control his anger and calm him down. the taurus boyf also looked to me to save him from his current life of partying and drugs.
also he constantly needed me to tell him i loved him and finished it with me because i wouldnt promise him a future. wen he didnt understand that i wasnt saying that, i was saying i couldnt promise something like that because i didnt no wat the future held.
also he always thought i was keeping things from him about my life - wen in reality this wasnt true.

i was wondering if pluto has now moved out of my 7th house because i havent wanted to start a relationship since and get guys numbers and then dont answer wen they ring dismissing them for little reasons.

i am now livin at home again, within close proximity to the scorpio who has now become so obsessive i had to involve the police and a harrasment form. the taurus is living in wales and i continue to have some sort of relationship with him, but not at the same time?

this is the scoripos placements:
Sun Scorpio 28°19'46 in house 1 direct
Moon Libra 24°27'37 in house 11 direct
Mercury Sagittarius 19°18'57 in house 1 direct
Venus Capricorn 7°47'40 in house 2 direct
Mars Aquarius 3°32'35 in house 3 direct
Jupiter Capricorn 12°23'48 in house 2 direct
Saturn Scorpio 20°10'06 in house 12 direct
Uranus Sagittarius 12°51'55 in house 1 direct
Neptune Sagittarius 29°57'50 in house 2 direct
Pluto Scorpio 3°06'06 in house 12 direct
True Node Taurus 27°26'29 in house 7 direct


taurus -
Sun Taurus 11°41'59 in house 4 direct
Moon Sagittarius 0°19'55 in house 11 direct
Mercury Aries 29°02'18 in house 4 direct
Venus Gemini 24°04'12 in house 7 direct
Mars Leo 29°25'45 in house 8 direct
Jupiter Virgo 0°17'20 in house 8 direct
Saturn Virgo 20°33'09 in house 9 retrograde
Uranus Scorpio 24°04'05 in house 11 retrograde
Neptune Sagittarius 22°17'49 in house 1 retrograde
Pluto Libra 19°48'07 in house 9 retrograde
True Node Leo 25°58'27 in house 8 retrograde

and have realised the chart i gave previously was incorrect, these are my placements:

Sun Gemini 22°16'25 in house 1 direct
Moon Sagittarius 16°04'10 in house 7 direct
Mercury Gemini 10°27'23 in house 1 direct
Venus Gemini 21°30'04 in house 1 direct
Mars Scorpio 11°59'57 in house 6 retrograde
Jupiter Capricorn 10°07'34 in house 8 retrograde
Saturn Scorpio 10°25'08 in house 6 retrograde
Uranus Sagittarius 11°06'29 in house 7 retrograde
Neptune Capricorn 0°16'01 in house 8 retrograde
Pluto Libra 29°30'13 in house 6 retrograde
True Node Gemini 6°36'19 in house 1 retrograde

any help would be greatly appreciated. did my incorrect chart make a huge difference?

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pixie22
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posted March 08, 2007 05:34 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
sorry for the late reply.

i am not sure wat makes me grounded most in life - i guess i always feel pretty detached and in some kind of dream world.

am interested in the healing aspect. the scorpio boyf always looked to me to sort out his life and get him on track, and i stayed with him so long because i thought i could help him control his anger and calm him down. the taurus boyf also looked to me to save him from his current life of partying and drugs.
also he constantly needed me to tell him i loved him and finished it with me because i wouldnt promise him a future. wen he didnt understand that i wasnt saying that, i was saying i couldnt promise something like that because i didnt no wat the future held.
also he always thought i was keeping things from him about my life - wen in reality this wasnt true.

i was wondering if pluto has now moved out of my 7th house because i havent wanted to start a relationship since and get guys numbers and then dont answer wen they ring dismissing them for little reasons.

i am now livin at home again, within close proximity to the scorpio who has now become so obsessive i had to involve the police and a harrasment form. the taurus is living in wales and i continue to have some sort of relationship with him, but not at the same time?

this is the scoripos placements:
Sun Scorpio 28°19'46 in house 1 direct
Moon Libra 24°27'37 in house 11 direct
Mercury Sagittarius 19°18'57 in house 1 direct
Venus Capricorn 7°47'40 in house 2 direct
Mars Aquarius 3°32'35 in house 3 direct
Jupiter Capricorn 12°23'48 in house 2 direct
Saturn Scorpio 20°10'06 in house 12 direct
Uranus Sagittarius 12°51'55 in house 1 direct
Neptune Sagittarius 29°57'50 in house 2 direct
Pluto Scorpio 3°06'06 in house 12 direct
True Node Taurus 27°26'29 in house 7 direct


taurus -
Sun Taurus 11°41'59 in house 4 direct
Moon Sagittarius 0°19'55 in house 11 direct
Mercury Aries 29°02'18 in house 4 direct
Venus Gemini 24°04'12 in house 7 direct
Mars Leo 29°25'45 in house 8 direct
Jupiter Virgo 0°17'20 in house 8 direct
Saturn Virgo 20°33'09 in house 9 retrograde
Uranus Scorpio 24°04'05 in house 11 retrograde
Neptune Sagittarius 22°17'49 in house 1 retrograde
Pluto Libra 19°48'07 in house 9 retrograde
True Node Leo 25°58'27 in house 8 retrograde

and have realised the chart i gave previously was incorrect, these are my placements:

Sun Gemini 22°16'25 in house 1 direct
Moon Sagittarius 16°04'10 in house 7 direct
Mercury Gemini 10°27'23 in house 1 direct
Venus Gemini 21°30'04 in house 1 direct
Mars Scorpio 11°59'57 in house 6 retrograde
Jupiter Capricorn 10°07'34 in house 8 retrograde
Saturn Scorpio 10°25'08 in house 6 retrograde
Uranus Sagittarius 11°06'29 in house 7 retrograde
Neptune Capricorn 0°16'01 in house 8 retrograde
Pluto Libra 29°30'13 in house 6 retrograde
True Node Gemini 6°36'19 in house 1 retrograde

any help would be greatly appreciated. did my incorrect chart make a huge difference?

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pixie22
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posted March 08, 2007 06:01 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ops! didnt mean to send that 3 times!

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