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gemini girl
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posted September 05, 2006 05:21 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ive been "in love or something with this capricorn since we met there was is sparks" he also agrees. but we arent going out we r both young and there are a few complications sometimes i feel that its excuses, but i dont care cause im addicted to him, everytime i get upset and i cry or something then i sorta fight and he's like what is all the fuss about. it started with him flirting with me then he went out with a girl after that it started with a kiss he initiated. so later it just evolved to every weekend he is at my house he's friends with my brother. i felt upset cause he doesnt give me enough attention and i told him to get someone else to play with. i was just a bit bitchy. um its not like me. then he has ignored me since. one thing he has a big temper looses it easily he thinks about things, but doesnt think why i say things to him. and he is pretty sensitive although he seems cold. pls how can i made it a little better i will like him no matter what so. just dont know how to get outa this.

here are our placements i sometimes feel that i take him up the wrong way i know he wants to be single right now that is ok but could it work later on should i just leave him to chill but i wont in anyway i dont know if i should call him?

PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree house
Sun Capricorn 17°33'33 04
Moon Capricorn 18°26'53 04
Mercury Aquarius 06°35'00 05
Venus Sagittarius 26°23'42 03
Mars Aries 23°46'19 07
Jupiter Taurus 26°21'21 08
Saturn Capricorn 06°24'06 04
Uranus Capricorn 02°09'45 04
Neptune Capricorn 10°10'55 04
Pluto Scorpio 14°43'32 02
True Node Pisces 05°49'41 06


HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Libra 02°10'50
2nd House Scorpio 08°53'31
3rd House Sagittarius 07°10'16
Imum Coeli Capricorn 01°26'16
5th House Capricorn 25°53'48
6th House Aquarius 24°45'56
Descendant Aries 02°10'50
8th House Taurus 08°53'31
9th House Gemini 07°10'16
Medium Coeli Cancer 01°26'16
11th House Cancer 25°53'48
12th House Leo 24°45'56

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and H (female)
born on 9 June 1987 local time 04:25 pm
in Cape Town, SAFR U.T. 14:25
18e22, 33s55 sid. time 08:48:10
PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree house
Sun Gemini 18°13'55 07
Moon Scorpio 17°04'05 12
Mercury Cancer 11°52'28 08
Venus Taurus 28°01'59 06/7
Mars Cancer 12°37'01 08
Jupiter Aries 22°25'35 06
Saturn Sagittarius 17°50'32 01
Uranus Sagittarius 25°00'43 02
Neptune Capricorn 07°07'52 02
Pluto Scorpio 07°32'43 12
True Node Aries 09°04'10 05


HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Scorpio 28°16'57
2nd House Sagittarius 23°48'46
3rd House Capricorn 16°03'47
Imum Coeli Aquarius 09°35'56
5th House Pisces 08°30'58
6th House Aries 16°10'54
Descendant Taurus 28°16'57
8th House Gemini 23°48'46
9th House Cancer 16°03'47
Medium Coeli Leo 09°35'56
11th House Virgo 08°30'58
12th House Libra 16°10'54

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Composite Horoscope midpoint method
PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree house
Sun Aries 02°53'44 06
Moon Sagittarius 17°45'29 02
Mercury Aries 24°13'44 06
Venus Pisces 12°12'51 05
Mars Gemini 03°11'40 08
Jupiter Taurus 09°23'28 07
Saturn Sagittarius 27°07'19 03
Uranus Sagittarius 28°35'14 03
Neptune Capricorn 08°39'23 03
Pluto Scorpio 11°08'08 01
True Node Pisces 22°26'56 06


HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Scorpio 00°13'53
2nd House Sagittarius 01°21'08
3rd House Sagittarius 26°37'02
Imum Coeli Capricorn 20°31'06
5th House Aquarius 17°12'23
6th House Pisces 20°28'25
Descendant Taurus 00°13'53
8th House Gemini 01°21'08
9th House Gemini 26°37'02
Medium Coeli Cancer 20°31'06
11th House Leo 17°12'23
12th House Virgo 20°28'25

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cat71
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posted September 05, 2006 06:38 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Okay - I'm going to leave the astrology to someone who is probably more qualified then me to comment - as I'm still learning myself...
However,
as a 30-something female and mother to teenage daughter, let me offer a little feminine advice - Lay your cards on the table, tell him how you feel about him and what you like to see happen between you, if he wants directions on how to treat you, draw him a map - then, leave him alone...
Chasing after someone as if you can't live without them will do you no good and will not enhance your self esteem... If he wants to be single, let him, don't take it personally, be yourself, have fun with friends, get a hobby, occupy your time - Love can be difficult at any age particulary when it's not returned in the way you wish (I have spent alot of time going around in circles), chances are when he sees you enjoying yourself he'll want to spend more time with you, and if he doesn't well, what do you care, you're having fun right?!

Honey, Life is too short to spend it watching someone else dance - buy some red shoes and make up your own steps!!!

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...to have been loved so deeply, even though the person who loved us is gone, will give us some protection forever...

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The Virgin
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posted September 05, 2006 10:41 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Great advice Cat! I was going to say the same thing, Gemini Girl but not as well. (smile)

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Sun Virgo, moon Pisces, Libra rising,mercury venus 12th house all conjunct, Mars Leo.

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gemini girl
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posted September 05, 2006 11:05 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hey wow really great advice thanx i needed to hear that so tonight im gonna watch a movie me something and dupree cant remember the name hope its ok thanx again

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LeoLys
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posted September 05, 2006 11:26 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't really go for the capricorn energy in a love connection myself for the reasons you outlined in your post. Yes, they are strong, you can lean on them, but they are not the warmest men out there. I'd try to find someone new.

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Leo Sun
Cappy Moon
Cancer Asc.

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cat71
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posted September 05, 2006 12:02 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
GemGirl - u r most welcome + Good Luck (BTW spent 9 yrs on/off with a cappy, the only time he seemed really interested in me was when I was busy wth something else!)
Virgin -
LeoLys - Yes, they can be very cold and detached -*Brr - shivers*

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...to have been loved so deeply, even though the person who loved us is gone, will give us some protection forever...

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AcousticGod
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posted September 05, 2006 02:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Heyyyy!

Just kidding. I'm a Capricorn with an Air Ascendant as well. I haven't got near the amount of Capricorn as this guy has, or that bad temper (I'm guessing Mars in Aries. Mine's in Scorp.).

It's true. We don't really appear warm. If you stick around, and we like you, though, I think you'd witness our style of warmth.

Back to our Capricorn here. Look where that monstrous stellium falls. "Imum Coeli Capricorn 01°26'16." All of his Capricorn falls in the house ruled by his opposite sign Cancer. He could possibly garner a little warmth from all that Cancerian influence.

He's got a discomfortingly perfect square between Uranus and his ascendant.

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Uranus square Ascendant shows that you are a rebel at heart. When your independence is denied even momentarily, you are defiantly abusive. You feel you have the right to do anything you want without adhering to any rules or regulations. In general you are irresponsible and find it difficult to learn anything from your experiences. You were at odds with the rest of your family when you were growing up, and you will always strike others as being different from the average person. But you do have a mind of your own and insist on finding for yourself the best way to capitalize on your wealth of ideas.

Generally indifferent to money, you prefer to devote your efforts to enterprises that are characterized by such clichés as 'relevant' and 'meaningful'. What you do is far more important than what you are paid for doing it. Your modernity is repelled by tradition, and yet you conform to another kind of tradition that is consistent with the values of your generation.

You refuse to stay confined in a career that does not give you some degree of freedom and mobility. A nine-to-five routine would be positively crushing to your individuality. The only reason you want an education is so you can make a better contribution to society, but you must learn to be wary of people who will take advantage of you and deprive you of even basic necessities. Giving is noble, but in this case poverty is stupid. You are not likely to seek a binding partnership unless it is by agreement rather than by contract. You remember rebelling against the close confinement of your youth, and you have no intention of repeating that experience.

You are disturbed by social injustice and hope that some day you can contribute substantially to eliminating those injustices. You need to know that your life's work is serving a wide human need. Closely identified with youth in society, you try to help young people exploit their creative potentials. http://www.astrologyweekly.com/astrological-aspects/uranus-square-ascendant.php


His Venus is in Sag, so he sees you in some way being Sagittarian

He's got a Pisces North Node, which indicates that his mode of being comfortable is Virgoan.

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With North Node in Pisces, our South Node is in Virgo. With North Node in the twelfth house, our South Node is in the sixth house.

A tendency to worry unremittingly, to be plagued by vague (and sometimes not so vague) feelings of guilt about under-performing, to lack faith and trust in a larger more spiritual plan, and to over-analyze ourselves and others are some of the issues this position suggests. With this position, we need to put some faith in spiritual powers or the "big picture", to let go of some of our fears that we are not doing enough, to love ourselves and others with more compassion and understanding, and to be humble, feeling safe in the knowledge that we (and others) are not perfect. We need to trust and develop our imagination, as well as our capacity for compassion. Learning to let go of some of our obsessions with rules, details, and fears of not doing things perfectly will help us to achieve a greater sense of balance and to ease our fear of failure and guilty feelings. http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/northnodeinpisces.html



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AcousticGod
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posted September 05, 2006 03:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Gemini Girl,

You have Sun in the 7th House:

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With the Sun's energy in the Seventh House your personality drive will express itself mainly through marriage, friendships and other social relationships. Social status is your important goal. Therefore, interpersonal relationships will demand a great deal of your energies. You may even find your real life-purpose by associating with others in partnership or social intercourse. This position of the Sun will draw out the very best of your character, to ensure that you fulfill your personal obligations. http://www.astrologyweekly.com/learn-astrology/sun-in-7th-house.php

You've also got a very watery Moon being both Scorpio and in the Pisces-ruled 12th House. People like cold Capricorns are drawn to people who can express their emotions freely. Emotional people offer us colder types a bridge to those emotions, so we can experience a little of what it's like. Your Moon is very sympathetic to him.

You also take your conversations with him to a deeper level than he's possibly used to (Mercury in Cancer in the 8th), and he may enjoy that about you.

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gemini girl
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posted September 06, 2006 05:18 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thank you guys we'll be friends for as long as we can, but how can i really find and keep a special place in his heart what would he appreciate bout me. he makes me laugh so much, and he always tells me that no matter what my family does they love me and that when i go away they will miss me. maybe thats a capricorn thing. he has a strong sex drive although we havent had sex. he seems very caring towards me in a r u gonna b ok way. last night i phoned him and we talked for a hour. we cleared most of the stuff he wasnt really upset with me at least he answered and he said that we would obviously be going out if it wasnt for his dad since he's a little younger than me. but we also agreed that its better if we chat that is the good part of being with him. he asked if id be unhappy if in the future he met a girl... he also told me that by now i should know that little things doesnt make him angry. and we are very open and honest with each other. he thinks im very serious and was all concerned asking me how im going to get through life if im so emotional and sensitive. lol very capricorn of him. everytime we agree to just be friends, but passion runs um lets just say high between us. im not vein usually id fall for aries guys or guys thats artistic and idealistic... but paul is different with him his status doesnt matter or looks or anything that would usually matter its just beyond that. im letting it cool a bit only cause he's young, but if i get a change later on in life and there's still something. how would u suggest u go about crawling into his heart? thanx again i cried so much last night and when i woke up i felt sick like i have a hole in my heart, but im so happy that i got replies it makes me understand him a bit better and its so true

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