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New_Ique
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posted September 21, 2006 11:14 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey I am new, I just get to the point. Ok there this Virgo guy, at first we are attracted to each other and things goes well from there. Recently I been comparing the both of us and we seem like the most unlikely people to be paired up. Can anyone tell me if there is even a chance this relationship can go well?

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posted September 21, 2006 11:18 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know a Virgo with Capi moon who dated an Aries for 4 years...

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Belage
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posted September 21, 2006 11:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sun signs are not everything when it comes to compatibility.

You also need to look at other planets like Venus, Mars, Moon, Jupiter, Saturn, Neptune, Pluto, etc.

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New_Ique
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posted September 21, 2006 11:38 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ok you lost me in the astrology discourse. i have no idea what you just said, sorry i dont know much about astrology

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posted September 21, 2006 11:43 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do you have the birthdates of each person? times of birth? cities of birth?

Astro.com is a great tool.

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AcousticGod
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posted September 21, 2006 11:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The straight answer is, "Yes." It may not always be great, but what relationship is?

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posted September 21, 2006 11:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You're new to astrology. Welcome! It's a fascinating field.

You say you're Aries. Usually, that means Aries is your Sun sign.

Your sun sign is not all that you are. People are more complex. Each person has a sun sign, a moon sign, a Venus, Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, Mercury, etc signs and so on. Each of these things are planets, and they represent various aspects of our personality.

I can't give you an astrological course here, but there are some pretty good astrological books for beginners. A good one is Astrology, A cosmic Science, by Isabel M. Hickey.

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New_Ique
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posted September 21, 2006 11:52 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
From his attitude, he wants to be more than friends, but I am looking for a long-term relationship, that actually last more than a year.

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wilsontc
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posted September 22, 2006 12:14 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
New,

You want it to work, he wants it to work...it can work. It's up to you both working TOGETHER at the relationship. If you want to find out more about how to work together, post both your birth data (date, time, place) and someone may look at it.

To the point,

Tim

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New_Ique
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posted September 22, 2006 12:16 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
girl:
4/4/1989

Guy:
16/9/1987

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AcousticGod
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posted September 22, 2006 12:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
(and times and places of birth)

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wilsontc
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posted September 22, 2006 12:21 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
New,

quote:
...post both your birth data (date, time, place)...

Also need birth time and birth place.

Need more,

Tim

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New_Ique
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posted September 22, 2006 12:22 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
that i dont know for both of us, thank-you for the web-site it was very helpful

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posted September 22, 2006 12:22 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This might be a little inaccurate because lack of accurate birthtimes.

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Girl's Mercury opposition Virgo's Mercury:

You both have to give each other space to come to your decisions in your own way. Your minds
aren't always on the same page--what each of you thinks is important, and how you communicate
this isn't always well received by the other. There are millions of great relationships with Mercury at
odds with each other, but these are always people who have learned how to avoid judging each
other's perceptions. That is the high road.

Girl's Mars square Virgo's Mars:

This is one of the red flags to watch out for in comparing charts. Your energies tend to conflict,
particularly if either of you attempts to correct the other's actions. This is a passionate aspect,
which is wonderful in certain arenas, but can also lead to passionate arguments. You can only be at
ease with each other to the degree that you can accept the differences in how you both go about
doing things. Otherwise, there tends to be conflict over everything. Learning to avoid expressing
yourself to each other when your solar plexus is tight would help immensely. When your solar
plexus is tight, your partner hears whatever you are saying as a punch. Harness the power, and
great things can be accomplished with your combined energy; otherwise, petty arguments and
disagreements rule the day.

Girl's Chiron conjunct Virgo's Chiron:

You are naturally empathic toward each other's deep sensitivities and support each other's efforts
toward healing.

Girl's Sun trine Virgo's Saturn:

You have patience with each other and can work well together either professionally or when
sharing life's responsibilities. You can even be patient with each other's "bad" days. You learn from
your experiences together and typically don't make the same mistakes twice with each other.

Girl's Sun opposition Virgo's Mercury:

Communication difficulties arise because of the angular nature of your perspective on issues. You
see things differently and must allow for this if the relationship is to flourish. Otherwise, petty
arguments could arise over how things are said to each other.

Virgo's Sun opposition Girl's Moon:

Girl has a difficult time being emotionally at ease around Virgo. This dynamic tension can manifest
as rational arguments over emotional issues. Virgo doesn't feel nurtured and Girl doesn't feel
understood or at ease. The relationship functions best with some time apart in the daily schedule.


Virgo's Moon conjunct Girl's Chiron:

A natural empathy and sensitivity exists between the two of you over wounds that you experienced
in the past. You support each other's emotional healing from these wounds and nurture each other's
compassion for others.

Girl's Moon trine Virgo's Pluto:

You give each other the emotional strength to make important transformations in life. Girl feels safe
and unthreatened by Virgo's use of power. Virgo feels comforted by Girl's support.

Virgo's Moon trine Girl's North Node:

You both naturally support each other's soul growth. You feel familiar and comfortable with each
other.

Girl's Moon opposition Virgo's Mars:

This aspect often leads to a stormy emotional tie. Girl is always on edge and feels threatened by
Virgo's energy. Girl's emotional responses irritate Virgo. Without restraint, this can be a wounding
combination.

Virgo's Moon opposition Girl's Saturn:

This tie is usually considered unfavorable for emotional relationships, unless Girl is mindful of the
excessive sensitivity Virgo has to any disapproval. Virgo's needs are judged as weak by Girl and
tend to go unmet.

Virgo's Moon opposition Girl's Uranus:

Virgo tends to feel threatened by Girl's independence and need for freedom, while Girl feels
encumbered by Virgo's emotional needs.

Virgo's Moon opposition Girl's Neptune:

It is not likely that you see each other clearly. You can imagine qualities in each other that don't
exist, or pull each other into escapist behavior, or feed each other's fears. Absolute honesty,
including avoiding "dishonesty by omission," is required for a healthy relationship.

Girl's Mercury trine Virgo's Saturn:

You are able to handle responsibilities well together. You not only make plans well, you are able to
follow through on them with patience and commitment. When difficulties in your relationship do
arise, this combination facilitates an ability to work through the issues patiently.

Virgo's Mercury trine Girl's Mars:

This tie is favorable for motivating you both to act on ideas. You rarely trigger each other's
defenses in communications, and can even work through difficult moments together without feeling
threatened by each other.

Virgo's Mercury opposition Girl's Venus:

Virgo communicates in a way that offends Girl's sensibilities. Virgo feels Girl is pretentious. Girl
gets hurt feelings over the way Virgo communicates. You would be advised to educate each other
as to these sensitivities to avoid them in the future.

Virgo's Mercury square Girl's Saturn:

This aspect creates a challenge in maintaining easy, flowing communication with each other,
because Virgo feels intimidated by Girl's judgments. This fear of disapproval restricts the natural
flow of conversation. There is a tendency to bring out each other's pessimistic and negative
attitudes. This can be compensated for, but there would have to be a rule: No criticizing each
other. Otherwise, this combination is a tough one.

Virgo's Mercury square Girl's Neptune:

Your communication with each other can become clouded by confusion, mostly over what was not
said. Fact and fantasy blur. It may not be clear what was said and not said, what is true or not true;
these types of issues cause the confusion. Absolute honesty is required to avoid these pitfalls.


Girl's Venus trine Virgo's Saturn:

This aspect adds stability to your relationship because you have the patience and commitment it
takes to work through the rough spots. You complement each other's lives, as Girl brings out
Virgo's personal side, and Virgo helps Girl keeps it together in the world.

Virgo's Venus trine Girl's Jupiter:

The friendship between the two of you flows naturally and you encourage movement toward
refinement in each other's life. The arts, culture, philosophy, and socializing together are all favored.

Virgo's Venus square Girl's Uranus:

Girl feels constrained by Virgo's values and attitudes about relationships. Virgo's security is
threatened by Girl's need for freedom. There can be sexual magnetism that comes from the
fascination of something different, but your tastes being so different would be a test.


Virgo's Venus square Girl's Chiron:

Your values concerning health and healing can be at odds with each other. Virgo's desires for
pleasurable activity can activate the wounds Girl is carrying from previous relationships.

Virgo's Mars trine Girl's Saturn:

This aspect is excellent for working on difficult projects together, or anything that requires patience
and determination. This gives strength and backbone to the relationship, allowing you to get
through the difficult times without falling apart.

Virgo's Mars trine Girl's Neptune:

This combination is excellent for romance as it brings the best of imagination into your passion. You
can inspire each other creatively in all types of ways, and the danger of the blind spot with Neptune
is minimized.

Virgo's Mars sextile Girl's Pluto:

You draw hidden strength from each other and thus are great allies for one another. You inspire
each other to the right use of will and power in ways that benefit everyone. You feel safe with each
other, from the physical activities of Mars, to the deep mysteries of Pluto's interests.

Girl's Mars opposition Virgo's Saturn:

The potential for angry flare-ups is strong. Girl feels pressured and disapproved of by Virgo,
fueling anger and resentment. Virgo feels Girl is purposefully trying to be a source of aggravation
and irritation. To avoid the defensive reactions that are sure to be there otherwise, it is essential to
avoid correcting each other's behavior.

Virgo's Jupiter trine Girl's Uranus:

This motivates the two of you to look for growth beyond your relationship together. You support
each other's independent views and opinions, encouraging each other to constantly expand on your
experiences and learn from life. Travel, education, and spiritual growth are all favored.


Girl's Jupiter sextile Virgo's North Node:

You provide strong support for each other's spiritual growth and can actively pursue spiritual
studies together. Travel together can be related to your spiritual quest, and it will not be difficult to
find a path that is growth-oriented for both of you.

Virgo's Jupiter sextile Girl's Chiron:

You learn from your relationship how important a person's philosophy and beliefs are in terms of
the creating and healing of wounds. Through this firsthand experience, you may be drawn to
teaching others how to liberate their relationships by changing their beliefs.


Girl's Uranus conjunct Virgo's Neptune:

There is a creative flow between Girl's intuition and Virgo's ability to image. This sets up a
favorable flow of spiritual guidance that comes to the two of you spontaneously through
coincidences and sudden knowing.

Girl's Uranus sextile Virgo's Pluto:

You support each other's big picture view of what you stand for in life. You can be creative allies in
supporting each other's efforts at transforming society through social action, or transforming
yourselves through deep spiritual work.


Girl's Uranus opposition Virgo's Chiron:

Here, we have two rebels with two different causes. An example would be two people who both
rebelled against traditional health care and found their own, but different, alternative paths. Until
you can honor these differences, the tendency to look at each other's path as eccentric at best, and
as having little merit, will certainly be felt as challenging.

Girl's Uranus square Virgo's North Node:

This aspect presents the challenge of accepting each other's decidedly different views on what
constitutes a growth-oriented path. Virgo views Girl as being totally unpredictable and unreliable,
while Girl thinks it important to shock Virgo into awakening from not seeing the big picture.


Virgo's Neptune sextile Girl's North Node:

You can trust each other to provide spiritual guidance and insights as you have a natural empathy
for each other's soul needs.

Virgo's Neptune opposition Girl's Chiron:

You don't have faith in each other's path of health and healing. Since you don't really understand
each other in these matters, any advice you give tends to confuse rather than help. Your lack of
faith in each other translates as doubt and worry--all disempowering images to send to each other.
Learn how to send angels instead of worried images to each other--it does more good.


Virgo's Pluto trine Girl's North Node:

Your relationship constantly brings you back to the high road of your individual soul paths. You
support each other's deep work and draw hidden strength to stay open to transformational work.
There is a feeling that you are part of the same soul family, a deeply supportive and strangely
familiar tie.

Virgo's Pluto trine Girl's Chiron:

Powerful healing energy flows between the two of you, particularly if you are blessed with an
intimate relationship, as this would bring sexual healing. You draw hidden strength just from being
in each other's presence, and together you are unknowingly a powerful healing force in other
people's lives.

Girl's North Node trine Virgo's Chiron:

You can out bring out the best in each other because you support life paths that are healing and
growth-oriented for both of you.

Virgo's North Node square Girl's Chiron:

Virgo's path toward healing is at odds with Girl's path of soul growth. You are being tested with
the ability to accept that what is growth-oriented for you is not a healthy path for your partner.

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"WHATEVER the soul longs for, WILL be attained by the spirit"

"Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation"

-Khalil Gibran

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New_Ique
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posted September 22, 2006 12:39 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thank-you all for your help i just have to wait and see where this goes

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astro junkie
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posted September 23, 2006 05:47 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've heard good things about the Aries/Virgo connection. They are not as common, but there's some good things said.


Welcome New_Ique

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