posted September 26, 2006 07:41 PM              

Nothing ventured nothing gained.

Pluck up the courage and tell her how you really feel, if that doesn't melt her heart and she doesnt feel the same way - then is the time to break up, not before you've even told her or tried to let out some of those bottled up emotions.

posted September 26, 2006 08:55 PM              

If you think she is worth it.. talk to her , unless you open up she wil be hurting you without even realising it AND thats NOT fair...

YOU should give her a CHANCE ...

life continues on the hope of getting things right...........

niks

posted September 26, 2006 09:03 PM              

I personally feel aqua/taurus is okay but there are flightier ones on both sides.
My brother is an Aqua but his moon is in LEO and his venus is in Pisces which makes him sentimental and hard working and not flighty at all. His Mars is Capricorn and his ascendant is Virgo which helps.

With a venus in the 7th he appreciates his partner very much and is devoted to the idea.

If you find an Aqua like that you are set, look for lots of heart, especially an earth ascendant.

posted September 26, 2006 09:33 PM              

Planetary positions
planet sign degree motion
Sun Taurus 28°08'03 in house 8 direct
Moon Taurus 20°07'56 in house 8 direct
Mercury Taurus 8°04'01 in house 7 direct
Venus Aries 15°20'23 in house 7 direct
Mars Gemini 15°40'28 in house 9 direct
Jupiter Aquarius 16°31'24 in house 5 direct
Saturn Scorpio 24°34'30 in house 2 retrograde
Uranus Sagittarius 16°44'14 in house 3 retrograde
Neptune Capricorn 3°07'32 in house 4 retrograde
Pluto Scorpio 2°40'03 in house 1 retrograde
True Node Taurus 18°14'19 in house 8 retrograde

House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Libra 3°57'25
2nd House Scorpio 10°34'07
3rd House Sagittarius 8°31'59
Imum Coeli Capricorn 2°34'53
5th House Capricorn 26°58'43
6th House Aquarius 26°01'35
Descendant Aries 3°57'25
8th House Taurus 10°34'07
9th House Gemini 8°31'59
Medium Coeli Cancer 2°34'53
11th House Cancer 26°58'43
12th House Leo 26°01'35

Major aspects
Sun Opposition Saturn 3°34
Sun Trine Ascendant 5°49
Moon Square Jupiter 3°37
Moon Opposition Saturn 4°27
Mercury Trine Neptune 4°56
Mercury Opposition Pluto 5°24
Venus Sextile Mars 0°20
Venus Sextile Jupiter 1°11
Venus Trine Uranus 1°24
Mars Trine Jupiter 0°51
Mars Opposition Uranus 1°04
Jupiter Sextile Uranus 0°13
Neptune Sextile Pluto 0°27
Neptune Square Ascendant 0°50

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Planetary positions
planet sign degree motion
Sun Aquarius 16°52'44 in house 10 direct
Moon Cancer 15°43'51 in house 3 direct
Mercury Aquarius 6°23'29 in house 10 retrograde
Venus Capricorn 23°50'46 in house 10 retrograde
Mars Libra 17°55'15 end of house 6 direct
Jupiter Scorpio 9°48'40 in house 7 direct
Saturn Libra 22°13'03 in house 7 stationary (R)
Uranus Sagittarius 4°10'21 in house 8 direct
Neptune Sagittarius 26°19'18 in house 9 direct
Pluto Libra 26°54'51 in house 7 retrograde
True Node Cancer 22°22'06 in house 4 direct
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house.

House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Aries 20°01'53
2nd House Taurus 18°47'45
3rd House Gemini 19°16'59
Imum Coeli Cancer 20°53'52
5th House Leo 22°43'06
6th House Virgo 22°59'14
Descendant Libra 20°01'53
8th House Scorpio 18°47'45
9th House Sagittarius 19°16'59
Medium Coeli Capricorn 20°53'52
11th House Aquarius 22°43'06
12th House Pisces 22°59'14

posted September 26, 2006 11:14 PM              

I noticed you have a similar chart to mine. Taurus Sun/Taurus Moon/Libra Rising/ Venus Aries...

My patience ran really low with someone I was dating that seemed to only be able to communicate feelings or say caring things in form of text messages. I'm so against text message now...I think they are totally impersonal and can lead to too much miscommunication when it comes to expressing deep feelings of the heart.

I know I neeed A LOT of affection and know the person cares for me deeply...I want more than anything that deep emotional connection... and it needs to be verbalized at some point. I totally understand you. It's refreshing that you know what you want. Trust your heart and your intution.

Btw, do you find that you attract women like you've described this Aqua in general? or has she been an exception *being cold and distant* to the women you've dated?

posted September 27, 2006 12:27 AM              

Completely agree with you on the text messages...only so many times that the words "like you lots" have weighting for me and how do you know if the words aren't empty? lots of miscommunication there, i hate them too, wrong place for expressing feelings.

My last girlfriend was a libra and we had the deepest most emotionally charged connection, i would of stayed with her forever but in the end she had to move away to be with her mother because she got sick. It was extremely heartbreaking for both of us, i was about to pack up and leave but being a realist, the practicality outweighed me doing it.

I've only had 2 serious relationships, my ex that i just mentioned and my gf now. I'm very cautious about going into relationships because when i commit to someone i'm 100% vulnerable of getting hurt. I don't know how many more times i can fall in love and get my heart broken, probably twice more before i completely give up!

My aqua gf at the moment is pretty everything i don't want in a girlfriend when i think long and hard about it. She's emotionally cold, always distant even when i'm right there talking to her. Sometimes when she's driving she runs red lights because shes miles away in thought! Sex isn't important to her and it's more of an intellectual experience for her rather than an emotional expression which it is for me. She has said to me that she feels like she's a bad girlfriend and that i'm better off on my own, i replyed in saying that she wasen't and to give it a chance but i'm definitely having second thoughts. Even if she did 100% trust me and open up, i still feel she woulden't be able to satisfy my emotional need for a connection because she has such a low confidence in talking about it. She's also very flirty with people and it really tests my patience and security. I even asked her if she was cheating on me with her boss (raunchy text messages, etc) and she said no ofcourse not, if i wanted to be with him i would be with him and not you. (wow that made me feel great, not). I tell her how much i love hanging out with her and that she's a great chick but she just kind of shruggs it off and changes the subject.

I'm very traditional when it comes to relationships, i'm looking to fall deeply in love, get married etc. I don't think any guy could get my gf to walk down the aisle let alone me with all my emotionally charged needs.

Thing is with me, i usually DO attract these sort of people because when i'm in a social setting my libra rising really shines. I', very social and talkitive but sooo much happens under the surface with me you woulden't believe. This is where i run into problems because i think my gf wasen't expecting me to be with emotional. Sometimes i'm really quiet around her because i have NO IDEA what to say to her and even when i do she's either so far away thinking that there's no point.

I'm only 22 and my gf is 24 but i know what true love is and i'm not the young minded and naieve type. I'm pretty serious about this stuff and i don't understand how people can go in and out of relationships so quickly. I think being unfaithful in a relationship, even if it is flirting with someone, is one of the most humanly immoral things someone can do.

I need to end it but it's hard to let go because i keep wondering..."What if"....

posted September 27, 2006 12:56 AM            

and you are NOT being too needy!!!!! just tell her how you feel..maybe she doesn't really know how deeply you feel. Lala is right..compromise..

posted September 27, 2006 01:07 AM            

from what you're saying it sounds like she really cares as well, she's just scared. and do you blame her? relationships are scary! (but in a good way) and they are work sometimes too..maybe the written word is best for her..