posted September 28, 2006 11:51 AM              

So, now fast forward to September. We have hooked up regularly (at least every week) since then...as one might guess with the pisces/cancer thing...our connection is tremendous...sexually and in the non spoken variety. However, I have fallen head over heals (against my rather strong pisces will) and I don't know what to do....of course I am a huge wuss, and don't want to rock any boats by sharing my feelings with him...and I know being a cancer/scorp he has huge fears of expressing his huge feelings. It's like my gut tells me that he feels the same way about me...ie riduculously in love.....but the evil voice in my head says...no, you're old, he just likes the booty call. But it is never like a booty call, it is loving and spiritual...but my nagging fears are still there.....because he just won't tell me how he feels about us, and durn it I know, I'm a wuss too.

posted September 28, 2006 12:43 PM            

Anyways, you have the same sun/moon as my sister so I'm sure you're a talkative one

I wouldn't say that all cancers are into deep encounters though because I once knew Cancerian bodyguard from a popular nightclub around here that had many flings..... and a girlfriend out of state! (Meu Deus! )

posted September 28, 2006 10:29 PM            

My cancer-guy kept asking me out but I said no cos I thought he was just ****** . Hooked up with him anyway, much later in the evening. Lol!

These forums have made me realise that he probably was sincere and I'm kicking myself I was kinda aloof in the morning. He probably thinks I'm still into another guy but this guy is amazing, such an old soul.

posted October 04, 2006 01:10 AM              

I'm reading your post and when I get to the part about a Cancer male with a Scorpio Moon -- "we had bantered about 'friends with benefits' and he told me that if there was anyone he felt comfortable doing that with it was me..." -- and I'm scratching my head.

posted October 04, 2006 11:33 AM              

I am sorry to hear about your confusion. Although my own philosophy is "if you don't know where things are going, keep your knees together and your feet on the floor", I respect your decision to "hook-up". Since the two of you obviously are involved, and particularly since you have been sleeping together,I think you have a right to know where things stand and deserve a straight answer. I think as women we view sex differently than most men and often make attachments when the other person doesn't. He needs to tell you how he feels and where he sees your relationship. He may be a shy Cancer male, but you deserve that much. Don't be shy, just ask him and if he is wishy washy or won't say how he feels, I think you have your answer. Just my thought.