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waterberry
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posted October 02, 2006 12:48 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
They say prevention is better than cure,
there is a man who I havent met yet and already I think about him all the time, we have spent day after day talking to eachother on line, this has been going on for about five months, but I have been terribly hurt bu a tauran like him before, and as a virgo I get badly damaged, we have some similar aspects to my chart with the guy who left me with mental and physical scars, but also lots of other positive aspects that were not present with him. Mainly I am concerned about Pluto opposition venus, I know Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward had this so it dosent have to spell disaster, I tell mysemf that it could be quite fun as we also have sun sextile venus and sun trine Jupiter, and other good things in our chart. The thing is, I am no expert and I am baised because I like this man alot. Also, I am quite submissive by nature and I met him on a bdsm personals site, this is not my usuall stopmping ground and I have never formed any kind of rlationship in this way in the past. But I have spent so many hours in his company enough to realise he is a person of substance. He knows all about me and has told me that the very least he thinks we will be very good friends. My first instict was to run a mile from him but I have found him to be reliable, sober and trust-worthy, and I cant think when I have had better communication with someone, on the other hand our political and relgious views are diametrically opposed, this despite the fact we have many interests in common. If you think you can offer any insites please please look at our chart and tell me what you think? On balance, should I give it a whirl of run a mile? Thanking you in advance.

Tara
28.8.1976
12.58pm
LA CALIFORNIA
and
RLR
18.5.1961
around 4/5 am
Reggio Emilia
Italy

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william
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posted October 02, 2006 06:24 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi berry,
the good part of the composite is a venus square jupiter.very loving,optimistic,benevolent,alround good for relationships.buuuuuuuut,chiron is conjuncy to jupiter.this can add to the intellectual thrill of the relationship but often chiron can bring a uncompromising,almost malicious ,cruel edge to the relationship.also the neptune/saturn midpoint is conjunct midheaven,which can mean there is some deception inloved with the realtionship.there is a major piece to the puzzle you don't know about.saturn is square to the mars/venus midpoint which dampens the affections.then to indicate problems down the line.the midpoint of the mercury/saturn square is conjunct pluto.furthur indications of a very cold and distant nature.all in all,i don't think the spontaneous affection that the venus/jupiter square contributes can offset the deceptive and oppressive qualities that are also present.if this wasn't a sight unseen deal,it might be interesting.but as it is i would be very caution.you know meet in a public place with friends intially,if you plan to meet up.
william

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waterberry
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posted October 02, 2006 06:46 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi berry,
the good part of the composite is a venus square jupiter.very loving,optimistic,benevolent,alround good for relationships.buuuuuuuut,chiron is conjuncy to jupiter.this can add to the intellectual thrill of the relationship but often chiron can bring a uncompromising,almost malicious ,cruel edge to the relationship.also the neptune/saturn midpoint is conjunct midheaven,which can mean there is some deception inloved with the realtionship.there is a major piece to the puzzle you don't know about.saturn is square to the mars/venus midpoint which dampens the affections.then to indicate problems down the line.the midpoint of the mercury/saturn square is conjunct pluto.furthur indications of a very cold and distant nature.all in all,i don't think the spontaneous affection that the venus/jupiter square contributes can offset the deceptive and oppressive qualities that are also present.if this wasn't a sight unseen deal,it might be interesting.but as it is i would be very caution.you know meet in a public place with friends intially,if you plan to meet up.
william

Hi William,

First of all, thanks very much for your reply. I hope you dont mind if I try to pick your brain a little bit. I didnt know anything about the effects of Chiron, but considering he is a self professed dominant, it kinda adds up, not that it is welcome if it is as moody an aspect as you say. The neptune saturn thing dosnt worry me that much at this stage because if there is any deception involved it is on my end? I have never really shown him my face, however that is fairly superfical and this aspect may be indicating something much further down the line. However I am pretty sure this man is who he says he is, he has a pretty comprihensive presence on the web, and a fairly high profile, everything he has told me checks out, and though we have only been talking for a little while, i have been aware of him for several years, there are no inconsistancys. The thing that dose trouble me is the saturn square you are describing, a cooling of affections it not a good thing. Is it terminal/inevitable? Also what about the Pluto/Venus opposition, something that scares the bejesses out of me, having had a bad run in with a man with whom I shared this aspect, addmitedly, that bloke was not a good guy, and I think this man is. Also dont we also have Sun trine Venus? I thought that was supposed to be a rather wonderful aspect as well? Thanks alot for your feed back it really means alot to me.

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waterberry
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posted October 02, 2006 06:47 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi William,

First of all, thanks very much for your reply. I hope you dont mind if I try to pick your brain a little bit. I didnt know anything about the effects of Chiron, but considering he is a self professed dominant, it kinda adds up, not that it is welcome if it is as moody an aspect as you say. The neptune saturn thing dosnt worry me that much at this stage because if there is any deception involved it is on my end? I have never really shown him my face, however that is fairly superfical and this aspect may be indicating something much further down the line. However I am pretty sure this man is who he says he is, he has a pretty comprihensive presence on the web, and a fairly high profile, everything he has told me checks out, and though we have only been talking for a little while, i have been aware of him for several years, there are no inconsistancys. The thing that dose trouble me is the saturn square you are describing, a cooling of affections it not a good thing. Is it terminal/inevitable? Also what about the Pluto/Venus opposition, something that scares the bejesses out of me, having had a bad run in with a man with whom I shared this aspect, addmitedly, that bloke was not a good guy, and I think this man is. Also dont we also have Sun trine Venus? I thought that was supposed to be a rather wonderful aspect as well? Thanks alot for your feed back it really means alot to me.

hi berry,
the good part of the composite is a venus square jupiter.very loving,optimistic,benevolent,alround good for relationships.buuuuuuuut,chiron is conjuncy to jupiter.this can add to the intellectual thrill of the relationship but often chiron can bring a uncompromising,almost malicious ,cruel edge to the relationship.also the neptune/saturn midpoint is conjunct midheaven,which can mean there is some deception inloved with the realtionship.there is a major piece to the puzzle you don't know about.saturn is square to the mars/venus midpoint which dampens the affections.then to indicate problems down the line.the midpoint of the mercury/saturn square is conjunct pluto.furthur indications of a very cold and distant nature.all in all,i don't think the spontaneous affection that the venus/jupiter square contributes can offset the deceptive and oppressive qualities that are also present.if this wasn't a sight unseen deal,it might be interesting.but as it is i would be very caution.you know meet in a public place with friends intially,if you plan to meet up.
william

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